Kutheni na uzijonga esipilini eyaphukileyo, kwaye kungakhokelela njani

Kukholelwa ukuba esipilini - ukuba loo umxholo egcina ezininzi iimfihlelo engekasonjululwa. Zonke iintlobo zemiqondiso, esekhona eziyelelene eli obufihlakeleyo iglasi, kukho kakhulu. Yintoni omlingo kangaka? Kufuneka ukhe uyicingisise esipilini eyaphukileyo? Nokuba kuyimfuneko ukunikela ingqalelo kwezi ze? Ngapha koko, kungekhona indawo engenanto bevela. KumaXesha Aphakathi kwakukholelwa ukuba isipili ziyingozi ubunzulu bayo ngaphezu kokuba kubonwa. Kukho uluvo lokuba lo mbandela ayibonisi nje "umfanekiso", oko lubamba amandla, nto leyo izaliswe kwisithuba zilurhangqile, kwaye ukukwazi ukuguqulela i "wambona." Kungenxa yoko le nto ezahlukeneyo esoteric, izanuse noosiyazi azinikezelwanga kucetyiswa ukuba uthenge yezibuko antique, kuba awusoze uyazi into "bona" ebomini bakhe. Ngokufuthi uyakwazi ukuva amabali igazi-olungqumbululu asixelela malunga iziporho, kwaye ke kukho ezi zinto ekhaya ngezinto zakudala. Mhlawumbi oku nje umdlalo othelekelelwayo akuxhomekekanga usempilweni, kodwa kwakhona ukukhanyela naluphi na uyilo otherworldly ngamampunge.

Yintoni liqulethe iimpawu ngesipili eyaphukileyo? Mhlawumbi Abantu abaninzi beva ukuba xa uzijonga waqondisa, nendoda iminyaka esixhenxe, azisukele iingxaki kunye neengxaki. siya kubopheleleka ke, ngokuqhelekileyo ubomi abucala: yokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo, ukusilela okuthe gqolo kulwalamano, ukungakwazi ukuba ukutshata, njl Ukuze uphephe oku, kucetyiswa ukuba ujonge kwi vangama, isipili eyaphukileyo ukuqokelela ngoncedo isiziba somchako, iphepha okanye nayiphi na enye indlela, kodwa ukuba angamchukumisi amaqhekeza basinika ngqo. Emva koko bonke aphoswe amanzi aqukuqelayo (umsinga, umlambo). Kukho enye indlela ukuthintela amashwa kunokwenzeka. Ukuze wenze oku, ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba isipili olwaludiliziwe kathathu ukuba ebalwa, achole amaqhekeza, ngaphandle ebuka kuzo kwaye ingakhange irwece izandla, kumngcwaba kuzo ngokunzulu, ngokunyanisekileyo uxolo kuba okuthile zakhe.

Iingcali ezininzi uchaze umbuzo kutheni ungakwazi ukukhangela esipilini eyaphukileyo, yokuba, bantinga nodwa amaqhekeza aseleyo, ingakhupha wena ukusuka amabi. Yena nokuphuma ezingabonakaliyo kunye ngesantya breakneck uqalisa nokuleqa zonke emagumbini eflethini okanye indlu, yaye ukuba kuthathwe nawaphi na amanyathelo, kwakungayi kuba nako ukuphuma kwezi zakhiwo. Ngaphezu koko, le amandla 'ukubamba' umntu indlu, kunye neziphumo ethe ezinjalo kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu. Yiyo loo nto ungakwazi ukukhangela esipilini eyaphukileyo, awukwazi angamchukumisi izandla zakhe iziqwenga bakhe. Kwaye yiloo nto emva isiganeko lilishwa kunye nesifundo, kufuneka ukucima isithuba kwinqanaba ezingenamandla.

Mhlawumbi oku sisizathu. Akumangalisi ke ukuba endlwini apho kukho umntu ofileyo, yonke nezipili lwaseRashiya ngelaphu. Ukuba akwenzeki oku, ngoko ke umphefumlo womntu oswelekileyo ukuba mhlawumbi ebachaphazelayo lukoyikise nabaphilayo, okanye "iphinde", oko kukuthi, kukhokelela ekubeni ukufa omnye umntu. Ingakumbi esiyingozi isipili phambi apho umntu wazibulala. Apha, nangona akagqubuthele, nangona ime, kodwa umphefumlo uya kuhlala iqhotyoshelwe ngonaphakade ukuya esipilini, nto iza kuhlola ngokwezi hlandlo usaphila. Yiyo loo nto ungakwazi ukukhangela esipilini eyaphukileyo, ingakumbi ukuba "yasinda" isizukulwana ngaphezu kwesinye, yaye sele efunde amandla amaninzi ezimbi.