Iingxabano entlanganweni. Indlela yokusombulula kubo?

Njengoko besingayi ungathanda ukubuyela, kodwa ngquzulwano entlanganweni, yeha, asinto ingaqhelekanga. Kunoko, sele "iprozi wobomi," kunokuba ngaphandle. Kule meko mandundu zonke iintlobo iingxaki, ukwenza kunye abalawuli kunye nabasebenzi eziqhelekileyo ukhathazeke yaye ukubala zonke iinketho. Xa iimeko ezinzima ezifana lweemfazwe ubomi mihla entlanganweni kwenzeka kaninzi, ngenxa yokuba lo bume ngokwayo ukuya kumda.

Kodwa ngokwenene ngoku akukho ndlela yokuphuma, yaye ihlala kuphela ukubeka up? Kwaye mhlawumbi kukho anokukhethwa, kangangoko oku kunokwenzeka ukuze bazikhusele iingxaki elide-emi nokusombulula yonke ngoxolo?

Makhe nisinga ingcebiso yeengcali zengqondo kwi iimeko ingxabano. Ngoko ke, ukuba oqolileyo okanye ukuxabana kwenzeka ngamaxesha entlanganweni, khumbula imithetho embalwa.

Okokuqala, uzibeke, yithini, indawo inkulu (umzekelo, sithatha ngayo impixano kunye yintloko, ungabi nabo yakho okanye aliliso ukuba indlela kwimeko nganye kufuneka yahluke ngokupheleleyo). Cinga ngaloo nto, mhlawumbi, intloko hayi okhohlakeleyo, njengokuba ucinga. Ngaba uyazi njani imini yakhe? Ngoko akukho ngaphantsi umthwalo noxanduva kunawe. Kwaye mhlawumbi nokuba ngaphezulu. Ngaphezu kwentloko nabo babe abaphathi babo ucele kuye, mhlawumbi ngaphezu koko akucelayo kuwe. Zibeke endaweni yakhe, ndiyacinga, le icace kakhulu.

Yesibini. Cinga ngokuba kutheni na usebenza kulo msebenzi? Ingaba kukho naziphi na izinto ezintle ezikwenza ube sibambelele kule ndawo? Mhlawumbi iholo ukuba incinane, okanye nje awunayo nje nezinye izindululo ongahlawuli aphezulu. Mhlawumbi indawo yomsebenzi ibekwe ecaleni kwindlu okanye imisebenzi akukho nzima kakhulu kwaye enze. Xa unikel 'ingqalelo kwizinto ezintle, impixano oqeqeshiweyo uya kubonakala kuni ububi engaphephekiyo kangaka. Yonke indawo ekhangela izinto ezintle.

Ukongeza, ukuba ngquzulwano entlanganweni ukuba zisuswe intsalela, kwaye aninako ukwenza nantoni na ngaloo nto, uzinike isifungo. Umzekelo, ukuba ndibe (kufuneka) siqukumbele phambi kokuphela kwalo nyaka. Emva koko ndiza bathabathe ikhefu / ikhefu lokugula kwaye uqale nzima ukufumana umsebenzi omtsha. Musa ukuhlala ucinge ukuba kwidyokhwe ombophelela ngoku ukusebenza apha ebomini bam abadala yonke. Akunjalo konke. Wena musa ukuba natyala lanto mntwini, ngathi akukho muntu. Enye into kukuba kushiya njalo iingxabano, wena musa ufumane isiqinisekiso sokuba umsebenzi yakho entsha kwaye intloko iya kuba 'ezithambileyo kunye anoboya ", kunye neqela kakuhle ngokubambisana. Indlela andifuni ukuphoxa kuwe, kodwa, yeha, kusenokunyanzeleka ukuba umsebenzi omtsha ulindele ingxaki efanayo. Ngoko ke, evela kwiimpixano kubhetele ukuba abaleke. Kufuneka sisebenze wena, ukuba abe nako ukuthi hayi nilwazi Amaqhinga yokuziphatha kwiimeko zongquzulwano.

Eyona elandelayo, nto leyo kubalulekile ukukhumbula, ehamba i "ekulweni" - lumkani ngenxa yokuba bathetha. Ukuba singanikezeli iimvakalelo, ukhwaza ukuba ungasafuni ukusebenza kwimeko enjalo, makhe sithethe ngoko kwenzekayo xa uza kubanjelwa impixano? Kwaye kuya kuba yimfuneko. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ukugcina isithembiso sam, okanye ... bayavuma ukuba engalunganga.

Kwaye yokugqibela kodwa okunga kuncinananga. Cinga uyakwazi ukuba babe nesimilo esihle nokuba? Ingaba ovumelana? Umntu nasongo yayo, bemnandi ingxoxo, ninxiba kakuhle ntlobo aqholiweyo okutsha, uyazi ukuba nesimilo, intetho efanelekileyo kuye, liyi yokungabikho imikhwa emibi, ufika ngexesha, iqulathe indawo yakho yokusebenza icocekile, njalo-njalo - Awukwazi ukuvelisa udumo kakhulu kwabanye, kuquka kubaphathi bazo. Kakade ke, oku akukho siqinisekiso sokuba akuyi kubakho ungquzulwano, kodwa amathuba 'ukuhlasela ngokungenabulungisa "evela kwabanye kabukhali lifinyele. Abantu abanjalo ayahlonitshwa.

Iingxabano emsebenzini - akukho sizathu ukuba edandathekileyo.