Iingcaphuno ezimnandi ngeentyatyambo

Iintyatyambo zibizwa ngokufanelekileyo ngokuthi ngumqondiso wobomi, kuba zibandakanya ubuhle bemvelo kunye nobubele. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungabongi, ngokomzekelo, iibongozi zinika iingoma. Bathanda ukunika abafazi ukuba babonise ukunyaniseka kwabo kunye nokunqula. Iingcaphuno malunga neentyatyambo zigqamisa ukubaluleka okungaqinisekiyo kwezityalo njengolu hlobo, ukusetyenziswa kwazo kwendalo. Bonwaba ngeliso, bakha ingqondo yokuphila kunye nentuthuzelo.

Ehlabathini kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zeentyatyambo: iil roses, iinduli, i-chrysanthemums, i-tulips, iifom. Zonke zikhangelekile kwaye zilungile ngendlela yazo. Kule nqaku ziingcamango ezicacileyo, ezikhunjulwayo ngemibala. Ezi nkcazo ezidumileyo ziya kuba lunomdla kumfundi onengqiqo, onengqiqo okhathalela ubuhle bemvelo.

"Ngamanye amava iimvakalelo zifana neentyatyambo: nazo zifuna ixesha lokuqhakaza" (J. Austin).

Akukho nto kwendalo eyenziwa kwangoko - kuthatha inzame ukwenza konke. Njengentyatyambo kufuneka ukhule kwaye uvule, ngoko umntu ufuna ixesha. Ngubani ozama ukubeka esweni isimo sakhe sengqondo, uyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha akulula ukwenza oko. Eli binzana lifanisa ihlabathi elincinci lomntu kunye neentyatyambo eziphathekayo. Abantu abaninzi bayaqaphela ukuba ngokweminyaka yabo iimvakalelo ziguquke, zihluke, zizinzile. Iingcaphuno malunga neentyantyambo zigxininisa ingcamango yokuba umntu uyinxalenye yendalo kwaye ilawulwa yimithetho yayo. Ubuntu ngamnye bunomjikelezo wobomi bawo: ubuntwaneni, ulutsha, ukukhula kunye nokukhula kancinci.

Abanye abantu ngezinye iinkhathi abanalo ixesha lokubona ukuba ubomi babo bukhawuleza njani. Kuphela kwiminyaka eyanciphayo ngezinye izihlandlo siqala ukucinga malunga nokuba zeziphi nezinye iziganeko ezenzekayo kunye nendlela abaye bachaphazela ngayo isimo sethu sengqondo. Iingcaphuno malunga nemibala ibonisa ukuhamba kwezinto zobomi bomntu ngokunokwenzeka.

"Iintyatyambo yizona zintlanzi zezulu emhlabeni" (I.Krondstadsky).

Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongazange amangalise amaqabunga amahle aphuma kumnandi? Iintyatyambo zabantu abaninzi zibangela ukuba zivelele, zinika iimvakalelo ezintle. Khawukhumbule ulutsha, ukhululo lweemvakalelo, iimvakalelo ezibalaseleyo, ukulindela okukhulu, uthando lokuqala. Zihle kangakanani ezi ziqhamo, iimvakalelo zinokuvuya. Iingcaphuno malunga nemibala zihlala zikunceda umntu abuyisele isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo nesimo esihle kakhulu.

Zibonakala zihambelana nokufudumala kwelanga kunye nobuhle behlabathi elijikelezile. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi iintyatyambo ziyizidalwa zeparadesi: uhamba ngendlela yehlathi kwaye uyambulela ubuhle obuhle esinike lona.

"Awuze ufune ukuphulaphula oko iintyatyambo zithetha. Ufuna nje ukubakhangela kwaye uphefumle iphunga labo "(iSaint-Exupery).

Ingundoqo yile nkcazo iqulethe isimboli malunga nomntu ongaqondakali wesifazane. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi kuseloko kudlala umdlalo ogqithiseleyo, iinqununu, iimpawu, iimpawu. Intombazana nganye inemfihlo enkulu, leyo indoda ifuna ukuyixazulula. Ngokwabo, amagama anentsingiselo encinane, ngoko akufanele uxhomekeke kubo. Ukuze uzuze intliziyo yomthandi, kufuneka ufunde ukuqaphela indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye neminqweno. Esinye sezipho zesisa kakhulu ngaso sonke ixesha sasicatshulwa njengeentyatyambo. Iingcaphuno malunga nabo zibonisa ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani inkqubo yokuthandana, ngokuqaphela ubungqonge obomphefumlo womfazi.

"Ophethe izimbali ezandleni zakhe, akakwazi ukwenza into embi" (V. Soloukhin).

Umntu onesiqulatho uhlala ehambelana neenjongo ezilungileyo. Iintyatyambo, njengomthetho, zinikezelwa ngeeholide kunye kuphela nabantu abathandayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo iziqulatho zeziqulatho zifumaneka kwimitshato, imibhiyozo yokuzalwa okanye iminye imibhiyozo. Ukubonakala komntu ngeentyantyambo kuphakamisa ukuthembela kwaye kwakha isimo sengqondo esifanele kuye. Abantu emva kokungabikho banike ientyatyambo, besesimo sengqondo esibi okanye bahlaselwa kakubi. Sinikeza izimbali kuphela. Yintoni, eneneni, inokuba yinto emangalisayo ngaphezu kwentwasahlobo, iintyatyambo? Iingcaphuno ezichazwe kweli nqaku zikunceda ukuqonda ukuba umntu udibana kangakanani nehlabathi elimangalisayo leentyatyambo.

Ngaloo ndlela, iincwadana ezimnandi malunga nemibala ziyamnandi ukufunda. Bayakwazi ukunyamezela ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ncedisa ugxininise kwiimvakalelo zakho kwaye ufundise ukuba uqonde kakuhle omnye umntu.