Hickey - ngubani na ke? Hickey syndrome - ntoni na?

Kutshanje, Lexicon kolutsha, ingakumbi, iifeni anime, wongezelela igama elitsha. Namhlanje i fashion igama elithi "hikikomori" (ngokufuthi wathetha naye nje ngokuba "Hickey"). Yintoni na? Isimemo Japanese besakhula, lihambe liye egumbini lakhe, engafuni ukuba ukunxibelelana, emsebenzini okanye isifundo. Loo mntu akanako lula ukunxibelelana nehlabathi ngaphandle iinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngokuba lo mntu avareji eli ukuziphatha kungase kubonakale uphawu yokugula ngengqondo. Noko ke, "crazies 'ezifana suku ngalunye kuya kuba ngakumbi nangakumbi, le amanqaku ayezizigidi ngezigidi.

I okuqala

EJapan, sele le ncwadi yakhululwa ngo-1998, nto leyo ngokuphendula imibuzo, "Hickey - ntoni na?" Yaye "indlela yokukhusela umntwana wakho?". Eneneni, esi sikhokelo ukunceda ukumelana nale meko. Tamaki Saito, umbhali yomsebenzi, musa ukuthandabuza ukuba nithi Japan iye yaba yingxaki enkulu. Ilizwe esinenkqubela nesiqhubela phambili kakhulu ngaphezu kwesigidi elivisayo (kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba phantse omnye ekhulwini yabantu zikarhulumente) ngenxa yezizathu aziqondwa iinkalo yonxibelelwano kunye ezinganqweneli ukunxibelelana nehlabathi ngaphandle.

Ngokokutyhilwa umbhali yabangela kwabothusa wokwenene kubahlali Japan. Kodwa ukuba uphanda, ungabona - akukho ingxaki kwiminyaka yakutshanje.

Ingxaki "isixeko esikhulu"

Ukuba uye ndaweni ukuya kude emantla uze uthethe ngayo hikikomori, abantu baya kumangaliswa gqitha. "Hickey? Yintoni na? "- Bambuza kuwe. Kakade ke, kwiindawo gqa, le nto akunakwenzeka ukuba yenzeke. Kukho bayakuvuyela ukuba naluphi na undwendwe.

Noko ke, makhe sijonge imeko ukusuka kwelinye icala. kwizixeko zala Huge ifuna ukudibana rhoqo yonke imihla kunye nenani elikhulu labantu aqhelekileyo kunye angaqhelekanga. Amaninzi, imeko apho ebusweni, ungaziphindi. Oko kukuthi, umntu wazi kwangaphambili oko anako ukuba athi, yintoni ukubuza, indlela aphendule, yintoni nembonakalo yobuso ufanele abe kwimeko elinikiweyo. Kwaba lelo xesha ke, yaye kuza "black dog."

Yongeza kule ngemiVulo ukuba kunjalo "wabathanda" Abantu bethu (ngasendleleni, akumangalisi ukuba kwiminyaka yakutshanje yaqala ukubonakala kunye Russian Hickey). Emva kweentsuku ezimbini kukho umntu arhoxe nje emsebenzini kwaye kufuneka kwakhona ingena kwinkqubo. Kule nabani namhla ofuna ukuzenza kuba egula, ediniwe. Yenza nantoni na, kodwa angazishiyi indlu.

Ukuze ngamnye kuthi namava eli imvakalelo: andifuni ukuya emsebenzini (study) akayi ukuvula ucango kubahlobo (izalamane), kungekudala eza kuza, njalo-njalo. Loo nto ukuba Hickey - Kuyinto eqhelekileyo? Ke elowo hikikomori encinane?

Yintoni abayenzayo

Umbuzo ophambili evukayo zonke izalamane omfana lowo akhubazeke Hickey: "Into ayenzayo ngasemva iingcango ezivaliweyo" Ubuninzi Impendulo ilula: "idlala isidenge!". Yinyaniso: ukufunda, yena akafuni kusebenza naye, ithe yalala kwada kwaba semini enkulu, lonke ixesha lakhe simahla ikhompyutha okanye ukubukela umabonakude. Nokuba close contact akafuni. Nje izivakalisi ezimbalwa na ongathi, ngaphandle kokuvula ucango. Ezinye yehlabathi kwaye akanamdla.

Abanye bahlekisa Hickey: "Luhlobo luni na yokuziphatha Ewe, bakhumbula nje imiyalelo abazali babo ukuthetha nabo ebuntwaneni." Indlu athule yaye musa ukuvula ucango nabani ' ". Eneneni, somnyango hikikomori igumbi ivula kuphela ebusuku. Umntwana sneaks ekhitshini kunye ngokukhawuleza utya de akukho mntu wabona.

Umntu uba Hickey

Oku ngeke kwenzeke nomntu ngephanyazo. Kaninzi oku kubangelwa ngokudandatheka ixesha elide. Umzekelo, yonke imihla kwi izalamane etafileni enye share kunye namanye amava nganye, thetha ngayo abahlobo abatsha, malunga impumelelo yakhe umsebenzi wakhe, njalo njalo .. Yonke le ukuphulaphula lo mfo okanye intombazana ngubani na ngoku ubunzima ngokomda lwabo buqu okanye nobungcali zobomi. Yaye ngosuku ngalunye ukuzithemba kwabo unciphisa, angabikho uyakholelwa kwisiqu sakho.

Le nto yavela eJapan. Kodwa kweli lizwe namhlanje kunzima kakhulu ukufumana umsebenzi, abantu abatsha nje musani ukukholwa baya kuba nako ukufumana ubuncinane kwindawo ezithile ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, bonke abazali ndiphuphe ukuba unyana okanye intombi yabo ukuthatha indawo elungileyo kwezinye inkampani ophambili, yaye akazange sidinwe ukukhumbuza abantwana babo ngayo.

Hi ndlela leyi, le meko kuxhaphakile kungekuphela phakathi kolutsha Japanese. Kwilizwe lethu kwiminyaka yakutshanje yaye kwakukho hermits emininzi enjalo. I baseRashiya akwacela bemangele, "Hickey? Yintoni na? "Ngenxa xenga yale nto ke iye kuba yinto eqhelekileyo eRashiya. abantu abaselula ukuba bakwazi ukuchonga ukhokelo kubalulekile, kuba akukho njongo, kwaye iingxaki zabo akukho bani ofuna ukubona. Imiba waqokelela ubunzima, kunye neempendulo kubo khona. Kungenxa yoko le nto yinxalenye ulutsha Russian nje ufuna ukufihla kwaye aphendule nakubani na.

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ngoxa imo elivisayo zange sahlukile nesithethe ngokubanzi, kwaye akukho namnye wabona. Noko ke, kamsinya nje uyifumene indlela original ngaphandle iimeko ezinzima yaye ukuvala ngokwako - ihlabathi bakhathazeka. Yonke into baqala ukuthetha ngaloo nto, musa ukusebenza, musa ukufumana ipension. Yengqondo sina lubonisa ukuba abantwana kufuneka aphathwe. Kodwa Hickey (umfanekiso ngentla) ayikho uphambene. Iyafuna nje kancinci ekukhululeni onjalo elivisayo, waza ngesiquphe ajike umntu sabantu kunye nempumelelo. Ngoko ke, asimele sibeke uxinzelelo phezu kwakhe. Yiba umhlobo wenene kuye, abize ukuhamba, ubonise into ebangel 'umdla, yaye "zinyibilikisiwe".

Hickey emhlabeni

Kumazwe Koloni akholelwa ukuba ikho into "hikikomori", uyazibonakalisa kuphela xa i "Japanese engaqhelekanga". Kodwa oku akuyonyaniso. Uthungelwano namhlanje izele ngokubhekisela Hickey. Lulutsha oluphuma kulo lonke ihlabathi babelane ngamava abo kwi-Internet. Omnye kuphela ukuba ufunde inqaku Russian Hickey - ukuba intlungu aba bantu abatsha atshize phandle kwi-World Wide Web, ngenxa yokuba izikhohlakali zingamoyiki ungeva ekhaya. Kodwa ke kufuneka ukuba kube lula ukuqonda, ukuze baqonde iingxaki zabo, xoxa kwizakhiwo zazo, ukukholelwa iitalente zabo.

Kuyo nayiphi na ilizwe kukho abantwana abalishumi abaliqela ngovuyo isikolo eseleyo iyakuvingca ihlabathi ngaphandle. Kodwa ngaba umzali oyedwa beluya kuyiqonda into enje kweli lizwe lethu? Ewe, kwaye wonke umntwana eRashiya kukho igumbi elilodwa, ukuba babalekele kuyo. Ngoko ke, ngokuba ilizwi baseRashiya hikikomori uhlala ibinzana silk.

wamagama

Ukunyaniseka, into kule inkcubeko uye phantse yonke elivisayo. Abanye abantu abatsha, umzekelo, ukuya izikolo kunye neeyunivesithi kuphela kuba oko kuyimfuneko. Uvuyiswa wayeza kuba wathi: "Thina hermits kunye Hickey, musa ukuyibamba thina, siza nje silele, sidle uze ubukele umabonwakude." Kodwa ke asikwazi. Ngenxa yoko, balele lokufundela, awunamdla ulwazi olutsha, ubukhulu becala ukudlala nje kwifowuni yakho.

Ezi ntsha abafuni ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ekhayeni lakhe. Ngapha koko, kukho abazali bathethe nabo kunzima, kodwa azikwazi kuyichaza umnqweno wabo akumvumeli ehlabathini. Nokuba ikhompyutha kubo Awunakufihla, baya kuba nomdla inkqubela, ezininzi olubi. Ngoko ke into esinayo eRashiya inayo Hickey yayo. Mhlawumbi ixesha nje ukutshintsha into ebomini bethu?