Ziziphi, imitshato ye-gypsy?

Okwangoku, phakathi kweRom, umtshato yindlela eqhelekileyo yokutshata. Abantwana bangabandakanyeka neentsana. Xa befikelela kwiminyaka yomtshato, kuya kubanjwa umtshato we-gypsy , amasiko aya kuhlonishwa - oku kuthetha intsingiselo yalo mdlalo.

Ukongezelela, ezinye iintlanga zamaGypsi zinomkhuba wokutshintsha iintombi-abafazi. Okokuthi, xa benike intombi emtshatweni, bakhetha udadewabo womyeni njengomtshakazi wonyana wakhe. Oku kwakungenxa yentlawulelo ukuba intsapho yomyeni ihlawulwe. Imibhangqwana ye-Gypsy yinto enqabileyo. Imali yalesi siganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu ayiyi kuxolelwa.

Ama-gypsy aqhelekileyo kwaye atshaba umtshakazi, njengendlela yomtshato, kodwa bona abawubamkeliyo. Oku kwenzeka, njengomthetho, ukuba abazali abazange bavumele le ntombazana ukuba ingatshatanga ulutsha oluthile, okanye ukuba intsapho yakhe ingenayo imali yokutshata kwe-gypsy kunye nentlawulelo. Ukusinda kungaphumelela. Emva kokuba behlala kwindawo ethile ecaleni, lo mbini wabuyela ekampini emva kwesikhashana kwaye wamkelwa njengendoda nomfazi. Ukuba babekwazi ukufumana kwaye babuyele ngokuphangaleleyo - isiphumo sinokuba yingozi kakhulu.

Kwaye nanamhlanje umtshato wamaRom usasaqala. Kakade ke, abantu abasandul 'ukutshata abaneminyaka engama-15 ngoku bafumaneke, kodwa umtshato oqhelekileyo ususela kwiminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kwe-20. Imitshato yasekuqaleni kwimimandla yaseRom eyenziwa ukugcina abantu abaselula ngaphakathi kwenkampu. Ukuba ulutsha lwalufumana ithuba lokuzifumana ulonwabo kwicala - i-gypsies yayingeke iphile njengabantu. Ngoko, amantombazana e-gypsy ayekhohlakele ukubonisa intlungu kubafana, yaye iintlanganiso zodwa zajeziswa kakhulu. Ukwenza oku, kwakukho izizathu ezinzulu ezihambelana nemikhawulo yemitshato yaseGypsy.

Ngethuba lethu indawo yokuqhelana nabantu abatsha ngumtshato wamaRoman. Kwaye nabazali, ngokukodwa kwiindawo zokuhlala, sele bacebisiwe, kwaye abayalelwe. Kodwa bayayifuna, kwaye ayithatyathwa njengento ehlazo ukuba intsapho ebenethemba lokuxhamla, yayihlonishwa kwaye isityebi.

Ukuchonga kwakhona kuyisithethe. Eententeni apho umtshakazi ehlala khona, izalamane zomyeni onokuthi zize zixoxisane nabazali bakhe ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kumtshakazi. Utata wentombazana uyaphendula - intombi iselula, kufuneka ucinge. Impendulo enjalo ithetha imvume. Emva koko kukho i-bargaining ngendlela edlalwayo. Ukuba intsapho yomtshakazi ithanda intsapho yomtshakazi, uyise wentombazana unokukwazi ukuzinikela inxalenye yentlawulelo kumdlali womdlalo. Ukuthatha intlawulelo enkulu ngentombi ingumcimbi wozuko. Xa isivumelwano sifinyelelwe, umtshakazi ubizwa kwaye uyabuzwa malunga nemvume yakhe. Ngokuchasene nokuthanda kwabazali, ininzi intombazana ayifuni. Ekugqibeleni kweso siganeko, badla ndawonye ikhekhe lomtshato, iqela elo kufuneka linikezelwe ngamnye kubo.

Imitshato yaseGypsy idlala ngokukhawuleza emva kokuhlawulelwa kwentlawulelo. Umnandi uqala kusasa ekuseni, zombini ententeni yomyeni nasententeni ebizwa ngokuba. Ukuhlobisa izindlu ngeeflegi ezibomvu, kunye neendwendwe zifake intyatyambo ebomvu okanye ibhande. Endlwini yomtshakazi egqoke ingubo emhlophe yecala lomdaniso wokubhiyozela nazo zonke iindwendwe, kwaye enye yezihlobo zomyeni zithumela ententeni yomyeni ozayo. Kule ndawo zenzeke imincintiswano engavamile emtshatweni - izihlobo zomtshakazi zithintela indlela, kwaye izalamane zomyeni "zithenga" umtshakazi. Kwintente, isibini esitshatileyo sihleli ndawonye etafileni, nangona iholide e-gypsy, abafazi kunye namadoda bahlala ngokwahlukileyo.

Emva kwexesha baya kuhanjiswa egumbini lokulala. I-apotheosis yeholide iyisuswe somkhusane womtshato okanye ishati lomtshakazi, ebonisa ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumntu ongenamacala, ukuba wonke umntu abone. Yaye ukuba akukho nto ibonisa ngayo-imitshato ye-gypsy ithathwa njengeyikho. Ihlawulelo libuyiselwe, zonke iindleko ezingadinge zihlawulwa ngabazali bomtshakazi. Yaye ke intsapho yala ntombazana iqhutyelwe ixesha elide, amanye amantombazana aphuma kuyo akayi kutshata. Ngoko abazali bajonga iintombi zabo ezikhulayo.