Yintoni ukuzibulala, kubangelwa

Ngelishwa, le ngxaki yokusetyenziswa ukuzibulala, kwenzeka lo mzuzu kaninzi ngokwaneleyo. Kulo mzekelo, ipesenti enkulu ukuzibulala, ngokutsho manani, xa lokufikisa. Yazi into ukuzibulala kwaye yintoni ebangela ukuba - kubaluleke kakhulu, ingakumbi kubantu abasebenza kunye nabantu abatsha (ootitshala, iisayikholojisti , njl ...), Njengokuba kwakunye nabazali.

Isizathu sokuba inkoliso yabakwishumi elivisayo ngabom ngokungayiboni ubomi kuxhomekeke kwinto yokuba le yobudala luphawulwa kukungazinzi ngengqondo, ukuzeyisa khangela intsingiselo bobukho bakhe, iimvakalelo ezinamandla (kubandakanywa ngokunxulumene nobudlelwane nabanye). Noko ke, abadala abazibulalayo, ikakhulu ngenxa yeengxaki asakhulayo ezibonakala unsolvable (amatyala, uqhawulo-mtshato, njalo njalo. D.). Kwezinye iimeko, ukuzibulala kungachazwa isifo esiqhubeka ngengqondo okanye impembelelo kwezinto psychoactive.

Kufuneka ukuba sijonge encinane kufutshane le kota. Phantsi ukuzibulala ngaqondi nje ukuhluthwa ebomini bakhe, kodwa imizamo (iisayikholojisti bayibiza ukuzibulala ezingaphelelanga). Bona ukuba abantu bakulungele ngokwenene ukuzibulala, kunzima kakhulu. Ukuze uqonde oku, omnye kufuneka azi ezibangela ngokuzibulala. Phakathi kwazo kwakukho yokulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, ubandlululo yonqulo, ukudandatheka. Xa abakwishumi elivisayo, kusenokuba yinto encinane ezifana nothando ezingabuyekezekiyo okanye ukubambana izalamane zabo. Kwimeko yokugqibela, ukuba uzama ukutsala ingqalelo abadala, ukuba "ukohlwaya" kubo, engaqondi de kube sekupheleni elenzayo, okanye ngethemba usindiso.

Kufuneka wathi abanjalo ukuzibulala obucacileyo. Yeyona lilinge osweleyo yobomi, nto leyo kufuthi ndizimisela njengendlela ukutsala ingqalelo, kwiimeko ezininzi, zingahlanganiselwanga esiphelweni. Abantu reshivshiesya elo nyathelo, badla ukuqala ukuthetha ngeendlela ukuba ukuzibulala, ukuzama ukwenza kucace ukuba abanye baye wamitha, ukuze abe nako ukuyeka. Kwiimeko ezininzi, unobangela wokuzibulala apha luhlobo "ihlebo". Ngoko ke, abakwishumi elivisayo unokuthi kubazali: "Musa ukunika (avumele, uthenge ...) mna yile nokuba yileya, endiya kuyinqumla isigwebo sakhe ..." Kakade ke, kwelinye icala, asifanele ukuthembela kakhulu mazwi, kodwa kwelinye icala, ndoda wathetha eli binzana, bekungayi oyifunayo, ngaba ngokwenene zama ukwenza nantoni nabo.

Uthintelo ukuzibulala namhlanje kakhulu efanelekileyo kwaye ebanjwe kumaziko emfundo kunye nezentlalo, ingakumbi apho kukho elithandabuzekayo emngciphekweni. Owenza kuthintelo ukuzibulala kuqala iisayikholojisti, yengqondo, kwakunye nabasebenzi zokufundisa. Malunga nekota kumatyala ukuhluthwa ebomini ezenziwa phantsi kwempembelelo kwezinto psychoactive, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sisebenzele ukuthintela ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi phakathi kwabantu abatsha.

Ukuthetha ngokuzibulala bengqondo, kufuneka kuthiwe, yaye oko kukuthi ukuzibulala ngendlela engaqondakaliyo. Phantsi eli binzana libhekisela self-etshabalalisayo yokuziphatha kwabantu, nto leyo inokukhokelela ukulahleka ebomini. Ezi ziquka uqhuba fast, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ndlongo, njalo njalo. D. Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantu ukubambelela yokuziphatha eyingozi, ngenxa apho kwenzeka ukuze ingozi leyo ekufeni. Oku kuba ibonakalisa ukuthingaza ienjini ukuze baphile.

Yazi into ukuzibulala kwaye yintoni ebangela ukuba - kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba yokuthintela le ngxaki. Kukwacetyiswa kwakhona ukuba uthathe ingqalelo iimpawu ezinjalo yokuziphatha kwabantu bokubonakalisa umnqweno wakhe ukuphelisa ubomi bakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, angazibulali umzamo lokwenyaniso ukufumana imicimbi yam ukuze, badla ndiqalise ukuthetha ngokufa, beze kubona intanda yakhe, kwanokuba oko akwanelanga ukunxibelelana. Ukubona iimpawu isilumkiso, izalamane okanye abahlobo kufuneka uthethe nomntu, zama ukuba icebise ukuba adibane ngengqondo, ukwazi izizathu ezityhala phezu nyathelo, zama ukunceda ukulungisa le meko.