Kuyinto yobuntu ukuzalwa ekubeni sighted, ngoko ke mzuzu xa uqala ukubona usana, kungathathwa kwimizuzu yokuqala yobomi. Baby inokuba squinting kancinane ekukhanyeni eqaqambileyo, zama ukuba lingavakali kuyo kwigumbi wokuziswa kweencwadi. Abanye abantwana kancinci Neenkophe idumbe, nentloko, edlula emjelweni wokuzalwa, zixinaniswe kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba oko ukubona yonke into ngendlela engacacanga ixesha elithile emva intshayelelo yayo.
Zilungiselele ukuba ukuba isibini sokuqala kweentsuku umntwana wakho uya kuba kunqabile kakhulu kwaye wavula ngokufutshane amehlo akhe. Musa ukuba uyoyika, esi simanga eqhelekileyo nezendalo. Kukho indlela ephumelelayo ukutsala ingqalelo xa usana eqala ukubona ngokucacileyo ngokwaneleyo. Kids ukwazi ukubona izinto kumgama iisentimitha-25, kuyimfuneko ukuba ubuso bakhe kufutshane umntwana xa wavula amehlo akhe, ukunxibelelana kunye naye, ngelizwi eliphantsi nokuthantamisa, musa ukulibala malunga nembonakalo yobuso. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ithuba lokuba ukugxila kwaye kuhle ukuba sihlale kuyo zihlandlo ezinjalo kwindawo othe nkqo.
Ngoku uyaqonda ukuba xa usana iqala ukubona ukuba uyathanda kakhulu. Baby abathanda ukufunda ubuso ngabazali babo, musa ukuzihlutha abona eli uyolo. Kwakhona ilungiswe indlela yokuba ukuba naluphi na utshintsho bangaphandle umntwana ekuqaleni bakuphathe eyedwa, "image" yakho entsha ngayo nje ayaziwa. umdla omkhulu abantwana kunokubangela imifanekiso koko, ezifana iifoto ezimnyama namhlophe.
Abazali abaninzi bathi xa usana eqala ukubona amehlo akhe kancinane maxa wambi ukuchetywa. Le nto ke idla njengento eqhelekileyo ukuba elifutshane. Kodwa qaphela, kwimeko apho amehlo umntwana ingca rhoqo, qiniseka ukuba adibane yincutshe. Maxa wambi abazali bacinga ukuba into efana oku kuyenzeka, ngenxa kwebhulorho ngokubanzi impumlo womntwana, kodwa ayikho. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukuba urhanela, kungcono ukubonisa imvuthuluka ugqirha.
Abazali uhlale ukhathazekile yaye Ndiyazibuza ukuba bangaphi abantwana baqala ukubona ngokucacileyo, sigxile amehlo akhe. Oku kwenzeka malunga ngenyanga yesine ubomi phambi kokuba abantwana kunqabile khangela into eqinisekileyo ukuba ngaphezu kokuba isibini lemizuzwana, amehlo abo kwabonakala ukuba bahamba ngaphezu komhlaba, ingakumbi ngaphandle kokuma. A ilizwi amacebiso abazali abatsha: ukuba uthatha umntwana kwindawo tye, kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba kukugxininisa ingqondo, phawula oku.
Ukuze umntu omncinane waye lula ngakumbi ukuqwalasela izinto xa uqala ukubona usana, musa hang zokudlala phambi kwakhe. ngcono kakhulu ukusuka kwindawo yezonyango lwembono, ukuba kuzo indawo kwi ethile umgama ngapha nangapha usana, kuba kakhulu luncedo ukuba iliso lakhe ngakumbi. Ke kwisiqingatha sonyaka wakwazi uthathe iintlanti iithoyi, lifake isithuba, ukuze ukwazi ikhaya labo, xa edlula saso uze ubukele yonke into ehamba phambili kweli gumbi kakhulu lebyi swi ukuqwalasela.