Uvavanyo lokuqhuba - Kwathi kwihlabathi elitsha, okanye njani ukuba umqhubi

Cars phezu ezitratweni zomzi yonke imihla ngakumbi nangakumbi, kwaye inani kwabo banqwenela ukufumana 'ihashe intsimbi' yakhe bunciphe. Kodwa wonke umntu uyazi kakuhle kakhulu - ukuba abe lilungu epheleleyo zikawonke- wonke omkhulu, kuyimfuneko ukuba bapase i "uvavanyo umdlalo". Ngamanye amazwi, thatha uvavanyo lokuqhuba.

Exams akukho mntu uthanda. Eli gama ukususela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo inxulunyaniswa namaxhala, uloyiko yokwenza impazamo, kwaye nje "ndikuzalisa" yonke into. Ngoko ke, i "ulawulo", enimnikayo ukuya endleleni, uya kukwenza ube jittery. Kodwa hayi ngempela kangaka!

Ukuba sizimisela ukuba umnini emotweni kunye mvume lokuqhuba, ngoko umendo wakho uya kuqhuba ngqo esikolweni yokuqhuba. Kubalulekile ukuba uya kukwazi "ngokugqibeleleyo" ndayihlela yonke imithetho yendlela ze afunde "izisekelo" yokuhambisa. Emva kokugqitywa kwale khosi (isondlo) ukulungele ukuthatha uvavanyo lokuqhuba. Kodwa ke kubhetele ukuba aphuthume! Kwaye ukuba kukho amathandabuzo malunga nobuchule babo, kuyimfuneko ukucela ukuba izifundo ezimbalwa extra kwisikolo ukuqhuba (okanye ukufumana umhlohli babucala abaya kuqeqesha kwindlela yakho).

Kodwa ke imini xa kuza kufuneka babonise ipolisa kwezithuthi, oya uvavanyo lakho lokuqhuba, izakhono theoretical component kwaye aluncedo, kungekudala emva koko uya kufika. Ukuba oko kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela! Xa uqhuba, sithanda kakuhle, kodwa imfundiso elungileyo ukufunda ngoncedo lweenkqubo zekhompyutha kukunceda ngokukhawuleza ukhumbule zonke iimpendulo.

Ngoko ke, kuhlolo lwakho kwi 'kwisihloko' yomqhubi luya kubandakanya ezintathu. Okokuqala - olu luvavanyo ulwazi lwakho theoretical component. Okwesibini - iqonga. Eyesithathu kwaye kunzima - yinto isixeko. Ke ukuba nqanaba kuqala kuxhomekeke lakho lememori kuphela, ngoko ke abanye kunokuba nzima.

Ekuhambeni kwe uvavanyo lokuqhuba ebonakalayo kwindawo kufuneka ukuzalisekisa ezintathu imithambo ezizodwa ezintlanu. Ezinye zazo kunzima, bunikwe ukuba msebenzi uya kuba ukukhetha ipolisa, ukuba uhlala ukuba nethemba lokuba uya kufumana ezo imisebenzi, ukuzaliseka apho osele balufunda kakhulu. umzimba nganye ixabiso layo, ngoko musa bangawutyesheli ukusebenza babo ukuya kulo iimviwo. Ukudluliselwa phezu uvavanyo lokuqhuba, khumbula ukuba ekwenzeni umsebenzi ngamnye unikwa amalinge ezimbini. Ngoko ke kume wena kunye, khumbula yonke into oyenzileyo into umyaleli kwisiza yaye cwaka kakhulu ukwenza lo msebenzi.

Ukuba ewatyhutyhile site, uya kuba ngaphambi abanigxothayo esixekweni. Kwaye lo intshukumo kunye nezinye iinqwelo! Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba abe ingqalelo. Apho ziya kutshekishwa kuphela ulwazi lwakho imithetho yendlela, kodwa ngokulandelelana yezenzo zakho. Umzekelo, ezingafakwanga kwexesha blinker "ukunika" indawo yesohlwayo kuwe.

Khumbula ukuba xa bangena emotweni, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba ukunyenyisa kwesitulo sakho ukuze uzive ukhululekile, bopha phezulu, vula isalathisi zokwalatha uze uqale ihamba. Musa ukusondela okanye yiya olucothayo kakhulu, kufuneka uzame ukugcina isantya sokuqukuqela. Bukela ngokusondeleyo iimpawu kunye neempawu zendlela! Musa ukulibala ukuba kufuneka uyeke kwi irobhothi phambi komgca yokumisa, hayi emva kwawo. Isigqibo kuwe ukufumana ekunene nokuba okanye hayi, liya kuba izinto encinane, nto leyo nayiphi na imeko angena kubethwa ngoyaba. Amanye amapolisa ezendlela ukuthatha uvavanyo lokuqhuba, ungacelwa ukuba ahlale kwindawo engavumelekanga, ngoko musa zifa imiyalelo. Ke kaloku, njengokuba sele kukhankanyiwe, baqwalasele ngenyameko eyimiqondiso. Mhlawumbi uphawu owalela sele kudlule, nto nje singaboni?

Ekugqibeleni ke sinqwenela ukuba bapase uvavanyo lokuqhuba esisebenzisekayo ukwenzela ukuba zagxila HIV kuphela. Ke ekwenzeni okulungileyo kwaye wahamba endleleni, musa ukulibala ulwazi ithiyori, ngokuba ingcamango (ngentsebenziswano ne practice) kuya kukunceda ube umqhubi elungileyo.