Umyeni wodade - ngubani lo?

Ngoko, umyeni wam udade ... Ngubani lo? Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo kunye nezihlobo zakhe? Ukuze kube lula ukuqonda, kufuneka uqonde ulwalamano olupheleleyo. Oo, ezi zininzi iintsapho! Ukuzalwa, umntu, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukhumbula ngokukhawuleza abantu abasondele kuye - kukho umama noyise, ugogo nomkhulu. Ewe, omnye umzalwana okanye udade, ewe, mhlawumbi, umakhulukazi kunye nomalume.

Kulungele wonke umntu

Njengoko sikhula, kunjalo, isangqa seentsapho zethu sanda. Utshatile-oku kuthetha ukuba ufumene umkhwezala nomkhwekazi. Ndatshata waza ndazala umkhwe nomkhwezala. Xa umntakwabo edlala umtshato, ngubani umyeni wakhe ngoku? Kwaye udadewabo womyeni wakhe? Ngubani lo? Luhlobo luni lwesihlobo? Umzala wam unina wafika ukutyelela - ngohlobo luni na unxulumene naye? Indoda yodadewabo nonina - luhlobo luni lohlobo? Intloko ihamba nje! Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukukhumbula konke?

Njengoko uWoland esetyenziselwa ukusho emsebenzini ongapheli kaM. A. Bulgakov "I-Master noMargarita", imibuzo yegazi yimibuzo enzima kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ngala masebe amaninzi namasebe omthi wamadala, siya kuzama ukuyiqonda namhlanje.

Umyeni wesidade ngubani na? Yintoni anayo kuzo zonke izihlobo?

Ngoko, udade watshata. Umtshato uswelekile. Emva kokudansa umdaniso wokugqibela kunye nokuxila kwabasebenzi, iindwendwe ezidakileyo, ngokwenene, zahlukana. Kwaye, ngokuhlwa ebusuku, "kuphela abasondeleyo" bahlala etafileni. Izihlobo zenyuka ngokucacileyo, kwaye ukususela ngoku ngoku kufuneka uhlangane kwiholide zentsapho, kuya kuba mnandi ukufumana ukuba ngubani.

Unxulumano oluninzi lweentsapho

Ngoko, umyeni wam udade ... Ngubani na yena kwaye ngubani oya kubakho ngoku? Ubuso bakhe, ukususela ngoku, ufumene umkhwenyana. Kwaye bonke amadoda abantakwabo, abadala okanye abafana, baya kuba ngumkhwe wakho. Kodwa umkhwenyana wakhe wayenomkhwekazi-nguloo nto udadewabo omkakhe abizwa ngayo . Kwaye umninazala ungumntakwabo umntakwabo.

Abazali babancinci baba ngabanye, ngokuqinisekileyo, abadlali bemidlalo. Kuze kube kutshanje, umtshakazi, kwaye ngoku umfazi wendoda, naye wamkela isihlobo esitsha-umkhwekazi. Lona ligama lomzalwana womyeni. Ukuba uthe wayenodade, ngoko ngokuphathelele umfazi uya kuba ngumkhwekazi. Umama womyeni wathola umalokazana, kunye noyise-umkhwekazi. Umkhwenkwe-ntombi unabantwana abesibini, kuthiwa ngumkhwezala nomkhwekazi. Abazali bomfazi wakhe babenomkhwenyana, kwaye yena wayenomkhwekazi othandekayo nomkhwekazi. Kuyavela ukuba indoda iya kuba ngumkhwekazi phantse zonke izihlobo ezitshatileyo - kunye nonina noyise, nodade nomzalwana. Oku ku khunjulwa ngokulula.

Xa udade, otshatileyo, ezala intombi, uya kuba ngumshana wakho, kunye nomntakwabo-udadewabo-umntakwabo. Ngaloo ndlela, unina womama uya kuba ngumntwana, ngokuqinisekileyo, umalume wakhe, kunye nodadewabo, ngokulandelanayo, uya kuba nomakhulukazi. Xa intombi kunye nendodana ziya kuvela kunye nawe, oonyana bakho udade uya kuba ngumzala kunye nomzalwana (okanye umzala kunye nomzala). Xa uvakalisa abantwana, baya kuba noothixo kunye no-godfather oya kuthi, malunga nawe kunye nomnye, uya kubakho.

Ngoko ke, yintoni enye intsapho enxulumene nendoda yomntakwabo, siyilungise. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, umbuzo othi ngubani lo, sele sele ubonakala engumntwana xa kuthelekiswa nezinye iinqununu eziqinileyo zamaketanga ahlobene. Kodwa kukho nabantwana abathandana nabo kunye nabazali, abazukulu, abazala, ozala, abazala ...