Umntwana ohlala ehlala rhoqo: eqhelekileyo okanye enesifo?

Wonke umzali uyazi kakuhle ukuphazamiseka okungabangela isitulo somntwana wabo. Ewe, ngokwenene, ukuhlalutya ukutshatyalaliswa komntwana, unokwenza izigqibo ngokuphathelele kwimpilo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kungekhona ngokungaqhelekanga kwizigqibo abazali abazenzayo ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngoko, umzekelo, bafumene umntwana engabonakaliyo okanye ngokuchasene nosihlalo ohlala rhoqo kwaye "wavusa ukwesaba", nangona kungabikho nto yokukhathazeka. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuba abantu abadala abakhathazeki ngeentsana zabo ngeze, eli nqaku liza kuqwalasela izinto eziphambili zesihlalo somntwana.

Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukutsho ukuba, kuxhomekeke kwindlela yokutya, ukuphindwa kwexesha kunokuthi uhluke. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana obelethwe ngumbele uya kuba nesitofu esivamile kunokuba umntu obelethwe. Ngexesha elifanayo, izitishi ziya kuba zininzi kwaye zixubane kwi mix mix, kwaye zisuka kubisi - ngaphezulu ketshefu kunye ne-mushy. Umbala weemfesi unokuhluka: ukusuka kumbala obomvu ukuya kuluhlaza. Bobabini babonwa njengesiqhelo. Ukusuka kwimbono yezokwelapha, oku kubangelwa ukuba i-gallbladder ifihla iingubo ezimbini ezidaka iilesi: i-biliverdin ne-bilirubin. Eyokuqala kubo, ukufakela iifesi, kubanika umbala oluhlaza, kunye neyesibini. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana uhlala ehlala esihlalweni, akasenaso ixesha lokuhlala emdaka. Isizathu kukuba kwithuba elifutshane elifutshane kuphela le-pigment yokuqala, elikhokelela kumbala oluhlaza.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuthungca ukwesaba nokukhathazeka ngabazali abangaphantsi kwesihlalo esihlala rhoqo kumntwana. Nangona kule imeko kukho izinto ezizodwa. Ukuze wenze imeko kunye nenani leentshukumo eziqondakalayo, kuya kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba isitulo esiqhelekileyo senziwa ngenxa yokuba umgudu womntwana wesantya kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi ayengasetshenziswanga ngokufanelekileyo ukutya, kwaye umntwana akanakulungiswa ngokutya ekufunyenweyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba "umntwana" wakho uncitshiswa kangangoko kunabanye abantwana bakhe ubudala, oku kungabonakalisa ukugqithiswa kokutya. Isizathu sezinto ezinqabileyo ezingabonakaliyo nako nokuba yinto yokuba umntwana akafundile ukulawula amathumbu akhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba usihlalo udlula rhoqo ubuncinane kanye kwiintsuku ezintathu, le meko ingaqwalaselwa njengesiqhelo. Akunakufuneka ukuba unike i- laxatives, yenza i-enemas okanye "ncedise" umntwana onomshishomometer okanye isepha. Ngokuthatha le nyathelo, unokuqhubeka ukwandisa le meko, kuba umane unqande umntwana ithuba lokuba afunde ukulawula umsebenzi wamathumbu. Ukongezelela, i-laxatives ingalimaza umzimba kwaye ibangele umlutha, Kwixesha elizayo, umntwana akanako ukukhutshwa ngokupheleleyo.

Ngokubanzi, ukubonakalisa isimo sempilo yengane , kubalulekile ukuba ingqalelo ingqalelo kwisihlalo sakhe yodwa, kodwa kwimeko yonke. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana uziphatha njengesiqhelo, unelisekile kwaye unelisekile, ungabi nongcolileyo, udla kakuhle kwaye ulele, ngoko akukho nto ibangela ukukhathazeka. Ukuba isimo sakhe sempilo sibuhlungu, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngezizathu kwaye mhlawumbi udibane nodokotela. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba isisu somntwana "sivuvukile," ngelixa ekhala kwaye ekhupha imilenze, oku, mhlawumbi, kubonisa ukuqokelela kwegesi kumathumbu omntwana. Kule meko, umntwana kufuneka ancedwe kwaye abizwe ngokuba ngumongameli. Oku kuya kubangela ukuphunyuka kweegesi, emva koko umntwana uya kukhawuleza.

Unonophelo kufuneka unikezwe kwimeko yomntwana, ukuba unesihlalo esivamile. Kule meko akusiyo i-gruel yamanzi, okungenzeka ukuba ngumntwana oncelisayo. Thatha amanyathelo athile kufuneka ukuba kuphela xa umntwana ekhupha i-trickle (ehambayo, efana namanzi), kuba Iyakwazi ngokukhawuleza ukukhokelela ekudambisweni komzimba womzimba. Kule meko, umntwana anganika iimveliso zokulungisa: umhluzi welayisi, ijisi yamapare, i-banana puree, isobho se-karoti.