Ukuthozama njengophawu lobuntu

Ukuthozama - ukungabi namdla kulo mdlalo. Umntu usenokungakwazi ukuphepha iimbasa, kodwa ukuba akukho ndlela akathethi malunga zazibethwa yakhe. Maria Sklodowska-Curie, eliphindiweyo-Nobel Peace Prize-ngonaphakade yokuqala. Ngowe-1910, uye waphumelela ukuzikhetha ebuntsimbi Radium ecocekileyo. Ngaloo lwagqitywa ngemijikelo yesithuba seminyaka eli-12 yokusebenza nzima ukuya ezisongela ubomi. Out of titsongahata, akazange nokuba elilodwa lomenzi iziphumo zophando lwakhe. Maria wathi: "Radium kufuneka imcebise nabani. Le nto eyingxenye kwihlabathi liphela. " Ngexesha yokuQala yeHlabathi War Maria wakhokela inkonzo zeradiyoloji Red Cross kunye nam waya kwizibhedlele ekuqiniseni. Wafunda ukuqhuba imoto, kodwa waba oomatshini emotweni xa kukho imfuneko. Ebutsheni bakhe kunye nesibindi uthwala kophahla ezibandayo, ngoko ukuba angakulungeli elebhu barn yena wachitha imifuniselo onzima kwaye ngethuba leMfazwe yokuQala yeHlabathi, kunye ukuzola yayo yesiqhelo kunye nokuthozama, waba isosha. It imbeko kulo lonke ihlabathi, kodwa akazange waba umnqweno imbeko nozuko.

Kubonakala ngathi yekratshi, oko kukuthi umntu ofuna imbeko? Utsalela ingqalelo ngokwayo, uziphatha onesimilo, nentetho elikhulu, kunye bokubanga nethoni uyayalela ilizwi, eqaqambileyo enxibe, ebonisa ikhwele njalo njalo. Ukungcola njenge sisibonakaliso ikratshi uza rhoqo kwi kwingcinezelo nabanye, yaye oku kukhokhelela ekufuneni ukubandezeleka kunye neentlungu. Xa umntu ayithethi ngenyameko, kunye bokubanga, abantu bayazi okanye engaqondanga ukuxhathisa zazibethwa yakhe. Kwandisa ingozi impixano, nokuba intlungu nokubandezeleka. ego okungathozami sihlangana the ego enkulu zabanye.

Ngokungafaniyo okungathozami ukuthozama kusoloko kukho imeko yoxolo, ukuba unalo engqondweni ezizolileyo yakhe. Njengombingelelo - ukuba noxolo lwengqondo, oko kukuthi ingqondo wehlisa umntu ukuba sichulumancile ngenxa ego wakhe, yena uhlala yedwa. Indoda athobekile - ngaphezu kwabo bonke, indoda ezolileyo. Not tu, kodwa kwaba ethule. Umntu cwaka kungaba kude athobekile: nangoku yamanzi enzonzobila.

indoda ezingenakho, anqunyulwe "iilekese" iimbeko, uvakalelwa umona. Ukungcola ngaphandle honours grimaces kwaye ebangelwa ngumona. Ukuthobeka uzolile, ophansi, nisoloko nisenza kakuhle wakhe umsebenzi kunye ngembeko kwaye ngaphandle kwazo. Ukungcola, ukuba esifubeni iimbeko, uya kwenza imisebenzi yazo, yaye soze enze umsebenzi wawo ekondleni. Ukunqongophala titsongahata - nomnqweno ku xixima. Ukungcola ayikho izinzile, umvuzo, amalungelo ngaphandle imbeko ngayo yaphela. Ngamanye amazwi, kunye nomntu uzilungise uba ezininzi iingxaki: ayikasebenzi ngokungaguquguqukiyo, iingxabano nabantu, ukuba linokunyhashwa. Ukuba iqela impilo entle, nokufika okungathozami uya ezinokudla umona.

Ukuthozama - na umgangatho umntu, esizibonakalisa ngokunxulumene ngokwayo, kungekhona ngokunxulumene kwabanye abantu. Yohluka ukusuka ku titsongahata. Ukuthobeka kuthetha uloyiso phezu umsindo, umntu ubona zonke iinkcukacha engenayo ngokuzithoba bagxeke okanye ukumdumisa ngayo - uya kuba ngokulinganayo sizithobe ukuphendula. Ukuthobeka - umgangatho uphezulu lomntu engcwele, oko kuthetha ngokuzenzekelayo ubukho titsongahata. Ukuthobeka akanyanzelekanga ukuba bathobeke. Ukuba titsongahata abathethise, baningcikiva, ukuba kuziswe i "ubushushu emhlophe", akasakwazi kuma baziqhawula ngumsindo. Yena akanandaba ukuba badumise, nembeko, isipho, kodwa xa wakhubekisa noko isidima sobuntu, nalo singakwazi 'ukuma ngemilenze yayo yangasemva. " Ngamanye amazwi, ukuthobeka - kukunqongophala umsindo, kunye nokuthozama - kukunqongophala Umnqweno imbeko. Ukuthozama - linyathelo kuyimfuneko ku titsongahata.

Ukuthozama ngokungafani okungathozami uyakwazi ukuphulaphula, ukwamkela ezintsha. Ukungcola akanako ukuphulaphula. Ukuphulaphula Active kubandakanya ukuthobeka. Olu umgangatho umntu malunga yekratshi, ngoko zazibethwa akakwazi isicelo kuyo. Umzekelo, weza eMoscow a abatsha kwiphondo ukoyisa emhlabeni yesayensi. Eyona nenkuthazo yakhe, umzekelo, ukufumana izihloko emfundo kunye izidanga, ukuphumeza izinto ukuchuma, imbeko nozuko. Science ukuba akukho usukelo kodwa njengendlela zokuxhobisa. Nomsindo yaye elambile, yena ngobudlongodlongo lodaka, isayensi lenyengane. Ngcembe efaka ulwazi, yena 'siyohlala "- kuba umviwa, ngoko ugqirha of Sciences. Nge sekratshi umsila ukuba wazi ngaphezu kwabanye, lukhula, iyasebenza ukuzingca yakhe. Ngokuthe ngcembe, lo ego yabantu ufumana ingqondo, yaye aqale ukuziva konke, eyona ezikrelekrele ebalulekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuthozama ilahlekileyo, nesakhono sokuqhuba ukuphuhlisa, ukuphucula, inkqubela - iye yalahleka. Xa wayethobekile, wakwazi ukuphulaphula abanye abantu, ukuze bafunde kuzo. Kungelo xesha ukuba wayonwabile. Kodwa ngenxa yolwazi lwakhe ngayo izisusa kuphela yokuzingca, kwaye ukwazi inyaniso yaba lwalamano elide-kude, yena "kunqunyulwa ioksijini ngokwalo." Ndiyahamba iimpahla kwempumelelo edlulileyo, ukhukhumele phambi kwabo bonke, ezama ukubonakalisa ukubaluleka kwayo. Nkqu "ekhaya" wabo, yena encothula egoism yakhe. umfazi axakane wathi kuye: "Uyakwazi azenze yingqondi phambi kwabafundi, yaye intsapho ukuziphatha ngokwendalo. Marsh bakhuphe inkunkuma, ngaze phezu kwentloko isiyatha linempandla. " Ngamanye amazwi, umntu uphelelwe ukuthozama unesifo fiasco ebomini.

Umzekelo yokuthobeka yaye kwangaxeshanye wayengusosayensi oyinyaniso Maykl Faradey. Akazange afune okanye ubutyebi, okanye imbeko; kodwa iinkonzo zakhe wonyulwa ukuba ilungu Wawongwa imibutho yenzululwazi ngaphezu asixhenxe zezifundiswa. imisebenzi yakhe ziphawulwe kwixesha elitsha physics, yaye akazange athathe lomenzi icebo yabo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukwala izikhundla ezihlawula ezithembisa Iholo ezisemagqabini kuye. Wala, kunye wabanumzana, esithi: ". Ndiyabulela kuwe, kodwa ndifuna ukuba kuthiwe nje - Maykl Faradey"

Xa ingqondo yomntu abaziinqambi nokuzingca, akakwazi ukuba adlulisele iingcamango nolwazi lwabo kwabanye abantu. Njengoko umlawuli omkhulu K. S. Stanislavsky: "Musa ukukholwa loo nto!" Xa kukho umntu, wakhukhumalayo, akakwazi ukuchazela abantu. Bona musa ukuqonda oko. Ngumzali, oluninzi ulwazi, kodwa akukho ezilungileyo. Ukuthobeka uthobekile, akazange wongeze into kuwe zivalele inyaniso. Ukuba wenza izinto zesayensi - bekuya kuba "ixabiso" kulwazi efanayo. titsongahata, lwazi internalized ngabantu, kuba ingqondo lokungazingci enyulu. Ukuthobeka uyakwazi ukuchaza, kuba akukho luvo xa abantu baqonde ntoni, yaye ngomonde ngendlela enobuntu ukuveza umbono wabo.

Isazinzulu lokwenyaniso lingenabukhazikhazi engeva yekratshi, Akukho mfuneko imbeko nozuko. Umzekelo, Per Kyuri noMariya Kyuri, xa kwathi lokwamkelwa ngamazwe, yaye akazange acinge ukuba ukonwabela uzuko, uxhalabile kakhulu ukuba yokunikwa kaRhulumente Laboratory yalibaziseka unyaka nonyaka ngenxa yokungabikho kwemali kunye uyilandela. Xa iNtloko yeCandelo Faculty of Sciences Natural, Pierre wathi wayefuna ukuba bazichaze ukuba uMyalelo, ISAZINZULU wathi: "Ndiyakucela, ukuba nceda unokwazisa kuMphathiswa ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba umyalelo, kodwa kunokuba ekhangela elebhu." Kwaye xa ngowe-1903 i-Curie efunyenwe imbasa yegolide Royal Society, ngoko wendisela intombi yakhe nje yokudlala. Izazinzulu musa nokuba sele elilodwa lomenzi indlela yokufumana Radium, bekholelwa ukuba indlela a yorhwebo enjalo ukufunyanwa echasene nomoya yenzululwazi.

Isakhono wokuthobeka ukuphulaphula uve omnye umntu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubuhlobo. Ukuba amaqabane mamela izimvo zomnye, oku kuthetha ukuba intsapho yakowenu wonke emanyeneyo, ngoko, ukuba sisekelwe phezu nokuhlonelana. Egoist uyamphulaphula bani, kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukuphulaphula. Hayi indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba ngumpolitiki ukumamela izimvo zabanye, ukuqonda nokwamkela izimvo nabacebisi bakhe.

Uvavanyo wokuthobeka ukudunyiswa. Ukungcola, elinde honours kwanwenwa adunyiswe, kuba phezu koseko, amehlo bronzoveet. Lakwazi ukufihla reaction yakhe indumiso hayi, kuba kunjalo wayefuna babedla ikratshi lakhe. Smoothie usoloko ufumana kwikona entliziyweni yekratshi. Ukuthobeka, phezu koko, akakukhathalele udumo.

Ukuba uninzi abaqambi ebomini babo bathandana wafuna uzuko, i Debussy - phezu koko. Akazange ebomini bakhe phezu ngemise- benzi yazo opera kunye bazitshitshisela uzuko wezayo kuye emva kwexesha ebomini. Kulungile, ngomculo wakhe, wayesoloko ngokuthozama wathi: "Ukuba uThixo akazange ukuthanda umculo wam, andingi ndingazibhala ..."

Ukuthobeka sisichasi nakratshi. Ngaba wakha weva a titsongahata eqhelekileyo kakubi okanye ehenyuzayo? Kakade ke, ngenxa yokuba izibonda ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Ezi mpawu zimbini zenza isikali, "Ukuthozama - Chutzpah", apho umntu ngexesha elithile. Xa umntu uba iqela babonakaliswa titsongahata, siyakholwa umntu onjalo othobekileyo. Ukuthobeka Ngokuqinisekileyo umgangatho umntu engcwele. Njengomntu oqhelekileyo - into iqhezu ogama kwinani apho ukuthobeka, kunye nenani elingaphezulu - nesibindi. Anatole France wathi: "Xa umntu kufuneka athobele umlinganiselo, nkqu ngovuyo." Abantu wamphulaphula icebiso lakhe, ukunciphisa kubuncinane elingezantsi. Ngu titsongahata umntu uya ukuze: "Mna ezingenakho umntu. Ndingu mhlawumbi wayethozamile. Mna umntu othozamileyo kakhulu. Mna, Kakade ke, le ndoda uNothozamile. Mna ndingumntu oqhelekileyo. " Dzhuzeppe Verdi wakha wathi: "Xa ndandineminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo, ndacinga ukuba mkhulu waza wathi:" Ndinguye. " Xa ubeminyaka imashumi mabini anamihlanu ezelwe, ndaqala ukuthi: ". I and Mozart"
Xa ndandineminyaka mane, ndathi: "onjengokaMozart kum". Ke ndithi: "Mozart". Yiloo ndlela siya ku titsongahata.

Liyinyaniso elokuba, ukuthozama ubukhazikhazi etsala ingqondo. Ngokomzekelo, ibhinqa eliselula uNothozamile ufuna ukutshata. Akuyi kuba ilokhwe zala maxesha kwaye aziphathe ngekratshi. Yena ufuna umntu uxanduva, abakrelekrele cha emasini of unodoli beqabe, nomfazi nemadlana. Like itsala ngathi. intombazana ehenyuzayo ziya kutsala umdla abantu abanomdla emzimbeni wayo kunokuba kwihlabathi lwangaphakathi. Nabani na onomdla engqondweni yakhe - lo mfo nengqiqo, nalowo wambamba umzimba wakhe kuphela - akayi usinike inkcazelo ecacileyo, kwaye ngoko kuyaqondakala. Ixabiso umtshato onjalo - engange umqadi ngomhla emarikeni. Ukuba intombazana uyala ukuba ingqalelo (honours) kwicala besini esinye, beneentloni okanye akunjalo? No. Ukuba uyakuvuyela ukuba athathe ingqalelo, titsongahata, kusini na? Kwakhona, akukho. Ukuba ithe sinikele ingqalelo yaza into eyindoda, beneentloni okanye akunjalo? Ewe, ukuba sithozame, kuyabonakala ngaphakathi umntu, hayi evela ngaphandle. Ukuthozama ngokwako - yinto ukusulungeka lwangaphakathi kwaye ukukwazi ukugcina nokukhusela nokucoceka. Ukuthobeka - koyena isikhali amabhinqa.

Phakathi ubukrelekrele nokuthozama kukho unxulumano umlinganiselo ngqo. Mind wayethozamile bangabi luxanduva likratshi, ngoko ubona izinto zehlabathi lwangaphandle ngaphandle ikhethe nokuzingca. Ukungcola yi "emdaka 'ingqondo. ego yayo yebhongo yenza ulwazi lokwenyaniso lobuxoki, isinongo isabelo sawo fair ukuzingca. Mind zazibethwa into ngokulahleka, ukuba ngokupheleleyo subordinated ukuya ayilawulwa i ego eqolo.

Ukuthobeka akathandi ukufumana kwabanye iziphene. Le ipropati ebalulekileyo mfanelo leyi. Ukuthobeka Ingaba umntu, ukucinga, "Lo mntu elungileyo." Ukuba isiphene phezu kwamanzi, ukuthobeka uthi, "Kulungile. izinto encinane ebomini. Nangoku andiyi kukushiya, kuba ulungile. " Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Ukususela ukuba ukuzithoba Musa ukubamonela lo mntu. Unga nomona indawo komnye umntu, isibakala ukuba angabi imbeko kum. Umona ibangela ukuluma kunye nomsindo omnye umntu, ebangela intetho ngalo emnyama. Ukuba omnye umntu imbeko, ukungcola luqala ityala, ukuhleba. Ufuna bahlonela, njengoko na ohlonelwa. Emva koko eqala ukufuna ngaphandle ziphene kwezinye umntu. Ngokufutshane, ikhwele - umqondiso ukungabi titsongahata.

Ukuthobeka ophila ngokuvisisana neminqweno yabo izakhono, akukho yimikhuba ukuzibamba. Yena ebukela zemali, obutofotofo kunye nenkanuko yingozi. Ukuthozama, ukuya evenkileni, thenga kuphela oko ecwangcisiweyo. Akunamsebenzi kumphazamisa nawuphi na masela. Zazibethwa, ezele inkanuko, yaye uya kuthenga oko kukwaneleyo ze awudingi. Ngoko ke ukungcola athobekile ngokukhawuleza ukufikelela usukelo zemali.

into yangaphandle ifunyanwa ngokusebenzisa i ekujoliswe lwangaphakathi. Indlela ukuyiqonda le nto? Injongo yangaphakathi ukuhlakulela iimpawu zomntu ezintle yomntu yaye ngoko ke iinjongo lwangaphandle ziyaphunyezwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngokomzekelo, umyeni ufuna umfazi wakhe nabantwana ehlonelwa. Le njongo lwangaphandle. Sinyanzela bazihloniphe, ukunika izipho, ukusola - yonke le ndlela isiphelo ofileyo-. In "Evgenii Onegine" umalume 'ukuba bazihloniphe ngenkani kwaye ayikwazanga benze bhetele. " Kula maxesha ethu, athi, "wanika emterebhintini", "ULuhlu yebhakethi", "qhiwu amaphiko" okanye "azifake juba." Kucacile ukuba olu khetho a alunakulungela kuye. Ukuba ufake ngaphakathi injongo - ukuba umntu onoxanduva yaye uya kuzama ukuya kule njongo, isiphumo ayisayi kuthatha ixesha elide. Abasetyhini ayahlonitshwa ukuyenza loo ndoda. Eqonda ukuba utshintsho ukuziphatha uyise kunye nomyeni, izalamane zakhe uya ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo kuwo ukuba ngcono.

Ukuthobeka akuthethi ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka uhlakulele umnqweno ukufunda into kwihlabathi eziphathekayo. Umgaqo Its - lonke ixesha. titsongahata Unpretentiousness kuthetha ngokuphathelele sicatshulwa kwexesha. Uyazi ukuba uya kuba phezu kwexesha. "Musa ungatsiba ibhulukwe lakhe, ngoko ke akuyi ukufikelela ithagethi, mna ukufumana zonke sifanelwe" - uqiniseke zasekhusini. Yenza umsebenzi ingqiqo yabo ingozi umsebenzi, yaye oko kuya kuza. Ngoko ukuthozama luhlangabezana uxolo. Ibona ukuba ufuna ukuthenga zangaphandle njengendlela ukuya esiphelweni. Ukuba ngalo mzuzu akabanga nako; ngoko, esijolise kuyo enye. Ngomoya ukuqonda le nyaniso, ukuthobeka, kwangaxeshanye, ibona ukuba yena nomnye njongo, uThixo ezinye izicwangciso kuye. Yena uyaqonda ukuba yena luck ngakumbi, akazekeleli ukuba kuseza, ivela ngaphakathi, hayi ngaphandle. Ayizi baqhoboshele ukubaluleka ngokugqithiseleyo izinto zehlabathi wangaphandle, ngoko iinjongo zayo kwiziphumo ngokukhawuleza nangokulula. Yekratshi, ukulwela ukuba baphumeze iminqweno yabo, uya kuchitha zonke izibonelelo zabo luvo, uya kwamkela izihlandlo ezilishumi ndamelwa yintliziyo, ubudlelwane ukuwa nabantu ababathandayo, kodwa zange kufikelelwe kule njongo. Ukubawa ubongoza zazibethwa: "Yintoni na lonke ixesha? Bambani ngokukhawuleza. "

Ukuthozama nomdla kwabanye, ukuhlonipha wavuma ngokwasekuhlaleni imimiselo yokuziphatha kunye neendlela zokuziphatha. Inika inkululeko evela inkohlakalo, inika ithuba lokuba bafunde kwabanye, ukwamkela isidima sabo.

Kuba indoda eqhelekileyo luphawulwa omnye umgangatho zakhayo - ayikho kanti izifaka kakhulu yababini. Xa ebona ukuba umntu ethetha nabo, awukoneliseki, uya kuzama ukufumana kude kumfowunelwa. Ukuthobeka akuthethi ukuba inkathazo kwabanye nokuziphatha kwabo. Ukuthobeka ukuba mazingabhidaniswa abahlelelekileyo ukuthamba. On ukuthozama "kungekhona uloliwe," "musani ahlale phezu kwentloko yakhe." Ukuthozama - kukuthi, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, liphuhlise nemvo ukuzixabisa. kuvela nengcinezelo ukususela kukoyika ukuphulukana nomyeni wakhe, umsebenzi abanye abayiphathi kakubi. Ukuthobeka akunakwenzeka ukuba nantoni na ukuba pick up, akabi ahlale phezu entanyeni, iye injongo yayo kwaye ngoko ke ngembeko njalo inkunkuma. She Ubungenakuzenza into eyaphula intshukumo yayo injongo. Ekuphumezeni injongo ukuthozama ubonisa nokuzixabisa.