Ukunconywa - ukuba ubuxoki elungileyo okanye etshabalalisayo?

Intsingiselo yegama elithi "Ekugudeni" kuyo nayiphi na eziqhelekileyo. Umntu ngamnye usebenzisa le ndlela yonke imihla, yaye maxa wambi sithetha mnandi, nangona akuyonyaniso ngokupheleleyo, amagama musa ukucaphukisa umntu, kwezinye kunjalo, sifuna ukuba ukukholisa kunye ukuchukumisa, kwaye kuyenzeka ukuba la mazwi sele isixhobo iphambili ezandleni elinamandla kunye lilinono.

Ukudibana abahlobo ubudala, kunoko, siyazi ukuncoma oko siza kujolisa ezingalunganga imbonakalo okanye ezinye iimpawu ezimbi. Ngelishwa, Ekugudeni - nanjengokwesimo le mihla. Noko ke, ukuba, le meko waqala ukubonisa uluvo lwabo ungcikivo ngenxa iintsilelo uya kucinga, makayixhome ngokuzolileyo, njengendoda boorish. Kubonakala ukuba uluntu ngokwawo umisela phezu kwethu imilinganiselo zonxibelelwano "ethical" kwaye yenza ubuxoki wawuhluthisa iqela ingamampunge.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba umntu kamnandi ukukholisa, ukuze azuze. Oku kube ngenxa yokoyika yokuba ulicekisile okanye ngokukhawuleza ukungena kwindawo yomnye umntu. Amaninzi, le ndlela ayikasebenzi, ngokuba ukunganyaniseki iyabonakala. Yobulwelwe ngomlinganiswa okanye ngosukelo lokuzingca musa mzobi esona sixhobo kubalulekile ukuba abantu abaninzi. Ukuba qhubana nalo mkhwa, ixoki kungekudala uza kukwazi ukuba zendalo nobuyinyaniso. Ukunconywa - yinto kumgxobhozo, nto leyo kuqinisa ibe edamini. Okukhona umntu usebenzisa la ezimdaka tricks, kokukhona uyalibala ulwalamano olunyulu nencinane bakholelwa ngokwabo. Ngamnye kuthi bahlangana endleleni yakhe owabuza baphulaphula intetho, uze emva koko "Bacula" ode kubo. Abanye nofefe ngabantu abanjalo, abanye okruqulayo, ngoxa abanye nomtsalane ukuba wena, yaye kumnandi, Tesha wabo nokuzixabisa.

Ihlabathi uyabakhumbula ngamagorha adumileyo kunye nabantu abafana Sonya Hand Golden kunye Ostap Bender. Babetha ngamnye ngokukwazi kwakhe ukukhohlisa baqhathe. Akukho mntu mnye Ubanjwe ku kwintetho elithozamisayo aferistki Sonya, kodwa uyakuhlala ilivo kwaye nabalandeli yayo. imilebe yakhe ukunconywa yaba okulungileyo kunye nobugcisa nobugagu. Ngokuba kuye, ubuqhetseba kunye ukukhohlisa intsingiselo yobomi kunye nemisebenzi yobugcisa kuphela. Ukuba isipho sakhe yayisetyenziselwa okulungileyo! Enye indlela amele kuphela zingaphi okulungileyo kunye nezinto olukhulu ndingakhange ndenze.

Linxulunyaniswa nebinzana ezifana yakucengacenga, ucaphula iinkulungwane ezininzi kuhamba ngomlomo, ngenxa yokuba abantu bakugqala isono apho kukho ukuba sicele uxolelo kuThixo. Kodwa ukusuka ndawo kuye, uzimela. iziganeko Social, abafowunelwa zoshishino zicwangciswe kwi Ekugudeni kunye 'bencumile' unxibelelwano.

Ukunconywa - okubi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni eyabangela ukuba abantu ukubhenela kuyo, siba impendulo kuphela ngokwabo. ishishini wonke - anyaniseke yaye eyomeleleyo okanye sycophant. Ukukhetha bathi amazwi ahlabayo, unako nje uthule okanye ukugxininisa a plus ngokwenene. Kubonakala ukuba kubhetele ukuba ukuvula umlomo wakho kunokuba elixoki ofuna ilizwi ukuba ibekwe kuloo mntu ngokwakhe. Wonke umntu kufuneka azame ukuba ukugqwesa - ukuze nomelele, uyinyaniso, uthembekile kwaye unobubele. ubomi bethu akufunekanga kuqhutyelwa nokufuna uxolo, kwaye kukukhangela okulungileyo ngokomoya. Ukuba umntu uthetha inyaniso yaye ngokwenza njalo rhoqo, kufuneka ucinge ekukhuleni kwakhe ngokomoya. Ubomi bufutshane. Ukususela oko siye "ze", yaye kuphela memory of ahamba emhlabeni. Wonke ukhetha indlela yakhe yonke mhla nelo lixa zonke, kwanokuba indlela eliqaqambileyo kwaye ucocekile, yaye hayi wakha phezu ubuxoki. Ukunconywa - usekela, ekufuneka iqwalaselwe.