Ukuba indoda utshintsha ...

Ingaba uqale nini? ukulahlekelwa ubuthongo, ukulindela rhoqo into ayisoze umbuzo: yintoni ukuba utshintsho indoda? Sele kanye oko wazibuza lo mbuzo, asixelela yona utshintsho kulwalamano lwakho kunye nomyeni wakhe. Ngapha koko, ukuba ugcine enye, umbuzo babengayi emi yedwa. Ukukrexeza bekusoloko ngesibetho enkulu zombini, hayi zonke umtshato aze asindiswe. Nangona Mandivume ukuba abo wakwazi ukwenza oko, yaye baya lo mbuzo: Musa ukuphinda ngokwayo kwakhona? manani Nenkani ithi ukuba ngaphezu kwesiqingatha abantu benze ubuncinane kanye wayenolwalamano kwicala.

Indlela ukuqonda ukuba indoda utshintsho? Nehlankomo lokuqala ifikile: kwakukho amathandabuzo. Ngoku jonga lo utshintsho. Ngabantu, kuvela ngempumelelo ukufihla yokungathembeki. Kwaye ukuba ngenene uza ukubamba kwisiqingatha sesibini sale tshintsho, ukufumana ubungqina. Kodwa kuqala, cinga oku: Ingaba ukulungele kulo kwaye kufuneka ngalo na? Enyanisweni, uza bawatyhole ngokungcatsha oyintanda, yaye oku yisisityholo esinzulu ukuba ukunika sibange kwi ubuhlobo.

Ukuba indoda litshintsha , yaye uqinisekile, uqale. Kuphela nje musani ukutyeka ube clinical kunye nentshutshiso. Indlela ukuqonda ukuba indoda utshintsho?

Lala kum umntu. Obubonakala zingafunyanwa kwindlela ngequbuliso waba umzila, ukutshintsha nendlela. Umzekelo, utshintsho lwaqho ilinen emhlophe, sheva, ukusetyenziswa linamafutha, aqala ukuba ahambe kule ndawo zokwenza umthambo, iihambo zoshishino rhoqo. Hi ndlela leyi, kuhambo ishishini ... Kunokwenzeka ngokugqibeleleyo "engalindelekanga" kubiza indoda yakhe emsebenzini kunye ngokungalindelekanga uve ukuphendula ukuba ngoku ikhefu. Sele ubungqina obucacileyo. Uyakwazi ukulandelela mileage kunye imoto (kakade, ukuba kukho enye).

Ukuba utshintsho umyeni, yiMDC kunye nefuthe imali yentsapho. Ngapha koko, izipho, iintyatyambo, kuhlawulwe imali isidlo yothando. Zama ukuba ukulandelela iindleko credit cards umyeni wakho, amatyala, uqhagamshelo mobile. mobile phone namhlanje akufanelekanga ixhanyulwe kodwa into mandatory yobomi bemihla ngemihla. Yena uya kukuxelela ukuba lukhulu. Oku ukrokrela kusenokubonakala yayikukufumana ikhadi elitsha leSIM okanye ifowuni entsha. A ngetyala elenziwe uluhlu ngokupheleleyo angenziwa kumnxeba, ukhangela yonke iminxeba (zombini eziphumayo nezingenayo).

Iya kuguqula ubomi bakho ngesondo naye. Ukuba indoda iyatshintsha lovemaking uya kuba ezinqabileyo ngakumbi (okanye, icala, kakhulu rhoqo). Uze utshintshe abacinga ngayo, malunga abantwana (yaye intsapho iphela). Ukuba zonke iingcinga ziya ekuhlala kuzo inkanuko entsha, linda Unjengokuphola kubudlelwane, ukungabikho ingqalelo, kungekhona kuwe kuphela kodwa abantwana. Nangona ungadlala kwaye uzive unetyala. Kulo mzekelo, ingqalelo kunye unomsa, njengoko bathi, phezu buthelezi. Imiqondiso ukungathembeki kunganxulunyaniswa ukungabikho iringi yomtshato kwi umnwe (ibotshwe kwipokotho) nesiqhumiso (ngokucacileyo hayi wena) kunye amabala "wasemzini" kwi impahla kunye iikhondom xa isikhuseli egumbini emotweni.

Ukuba indoda litshintsha, ngoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kufumana ubungqina lokungcatsha kunye nekhompyutha. Internet namhlanje uye wangena ebomini ngendlela efanayo njenge ngeselula. Usisindise imbalelwano ngekhompyutha (khangela ibhokisi). Umkhangeli kufuneka ukugcina ulwazi malunga umyeni wakhe batyelela amaphepha. Kwaye ukuba akukho imbali, ngoko kususiwe okanye kwenziwe izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo ukuba, musa ukuvumela imbuyekezo ukuya kwiphepha batyelela. Kukho isizathu sokuba ndiyamangaliswa ukuba kutheni kwenziwe, ukuba akukho nto ukufihla?

ngeendlela ezininzi. Kodwa ukuba litshintsha indoda, kanye intuition ndithi kuwe ngayo. intuition lwabaseTyhini esingenakucaciswa, kodwa isebenza esingenamakhwiniba.

Mandingakhe ukuba ukukrokrelana zange kungafunyaniswa. Kodwa ke, ukuba bafumana isiqinisekiso, kusingise ekwazini ezifunyenweyo, uphakamisa umbuzo elitsha: indlela ukuxolela yokungathembeki umyeni wakhe? Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuqhubeka ukuhlala naye, ukuba lomtshato kuyaphula ngoko nangoko? Nje musa sukela. Musa ziqhume ngoko nangoko. Zama ukuvavanya imeko ephilileyo, ngengqondo yengqele, yaye mhlawumbi ukuqonda isizathu sokuba enze oko. Kunzima ukunika ingcebiso. Wena ngokwakho ukuba bahlaziye yonke into kwaye isigqibo.