Thanda ummelwane wakho. Uthando lommelwane womntu lubonakalisa ngaziphi iindlela?

"Thanda ummelwane wakho." Lo myalelo owaziwa kuwo onke amaKristu, oqondakalayo ekuqalekeni, awunjalo lula. Ziziphi iimpawu zokuthanda ummelwane wakho? Kuthetha ukuthini "ukuthanda ummelwane wakho"?

Ngubani ongabizwa ngummelwane?

IBhayibhile neCawa inika impendulo epheleleyo kulo mbuzo. Okukufutshane ekuqondeni abantu abaninzi yintsapho, izalamane, abahlobo kunye njalo. Kodwa uthini iOrthodoxi ngale nto? Ephakathi, iCawa yama-Orthodox iyaqinisekisa, ngaba nawuphi na umntu odibeneyo endleleni kwaye ngubani ofuna uncedo lwakho, ingqalelo, inkxaso.

Uthando lommelwane womntu lubonakalisa ngaziphi iindlela? Ngubani phakathi kwethu olungele ukuza kunceda kuqala nje ukuba wayengumzalwana phambi kwakhe? Le mibuzo enzima kakhulu. Kodwa zama ukufikelela enyanisweni.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuthanda wonke umntu?

Qonda kwaye wamukele ukuba ngokwecebo likaThixo ngamnye kuthi alungcono kwaye akukho mbi ngaphezu kwesinye, kunzima. Kwaye ukuthanda ummelwane wakho kunzima nakakhulu. Kanti kunjalo. Ubungqina bokuba bubomi bukaYesu Kristu emhlabeni, ongazange aphephe umntu onoqhenqa, ihenyukazi okanye umphangi. WayenguNyana kaThixo owabonisa abantu ukuba kunokwenzeka kwaye akunzima ukuthobela imiyalelo yoBawo waseZulwini ngenkathi ehlala kwiplanethi yethu. Omnye uya kuthetha ukuba kwakulula kuYesu, kuba unguMesiya. Kwaye ke, njani, iidonks, abadala, abangcwele, abathandana nabamelwane babo kwaye babonisa ngoku ngezenzo?

Uthando lommelwane womntu lubonakalisa ngaziphi iindlela?

Kubonakala kungekho nto elula kunokuba uncede ugogo wommelwane uyise isikhwama okanye athathe imali ethile kummelwane osweleyo. Mhlawumbi lo yiyona nto isenzo? Mhlawumbi uthando lommelwane kukuhlala linyamekela uluntu olungapheliyo nolusisigxina lomnye? Oku akuthethi ukuba iinjongo ezijoliswe kuncedo ziya kuba mnandi. Wonke umntu uyazi: iluncedo alisoloko lumnandi, kwaye ngokulandelanayo, into oyithandayo ngezinye iinkxwaleko. KwiZibhalo Zingcwele kukho umgca othi wonke umntu makamkholise ummelwane wakhe, ngokufanelekileyo, ekuhlaleni. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuthanda ummelwane wakho kubonakala ngaziphi iindlela? Kulabo abaphosiweyo kwi-prism yentlonipho, umnqweno wokufundisa kuphela okulungileyo, ilungisa. Ukugweba abantwana kunye nokwenza abantu badinga izimvo, kodwa ngothando. Akunzima ukwenza okulungileyo, kungabandakanyeki nakwimfuneko ngamanye amaxesha okungafunekiyo kokwakha. Kwaye ukuhlwaya okanye ukufundisa umntu ngaphandle kwemizwa engathandekiyo, ukugcina uthando kuphela entliziyweni, oku kubonakaliswa okwenyaniso ngommelwane wommelwane.

Kwimibuzo yezenzo zibonisa uthando kummelwane womntu, ukuphendula Akunjalo. Into eyona nto kukuba izenzo zijoliswe kumntu womntu, kwaye kungekhona ukulimaza. Uxolo kuwe kwaye luhle!