Teenage Alcoholism: ukulwa njani?

etywaleni elivisayo yingxaki eqhelekileyo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Noko ke, abazali abaninzi abakho bazi ubukho besi sifo kubantwana babo. Ngokutsho manani, kule minyaka ingama-50 idlulileyo, lo mba iye ingakumbi ezifanelekileyo njengoko inani labantwana kakubi utywala, ubukhula ngokukhawuleza.

Izinto ezibangela butywala bakholisa ukuba likuloo umnqweno walo mntwana abe umntu omdala kungekudala. Ngapha koko, abantwana besebancinane ukuba ukubukela indlela abadala basele into ekhethekileyo ukuze kungabi. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo idlala into esalelweyo iziqhamo, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka bazame. Phakathi ontanga elivisayo uziva lebyi ukuba ndingasela bolshespirtnogo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, oko kunokwenzeka yaye ukuba uqaphele njani ukuxhomekeka utywala, nto leyo kule minyaka iya kuba nzima kunene ukuzoyisa. Emva iziselo koko iguqulelwa injongo eyodwa yaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini.

Amaxesha amaninzi, etywaleni elivisayo iqala nge beer ebonakala omsulwa. Abazali abaninzi bakufumanisa kakhulu kulula ukuba basele, ngoko ukuvumela abantwana ukuba uzame. Kodwa ke kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba oku ubudala wabumba imigaqo esisiseko kunye iziseko yokuziphatha kwabantu. Emva ibhotile umntwana yotywala uziva mnandi, kwaye emhlabeni kubonakala lula ngakumbi. Ngaloo ndlela, ukwazi ukuba kuphela emva ukusela ubomi uzuza intsingiselo, ibe lula kwaye kuphole. Kodwa amaxabiso ayinyaniso - ukuba usapho, izalamane kunye nabantu lweenkobe, uphuhliso lobuqu. Nantso indawo yemboniselo kufuneka ukuyibethelela abantwana besebancinane.

Ukongeza, xa elivisayo kukho utshintsho iyintsika emzimbeni ezichaphazela imo nokuziphatha kwabantwana. Ezininzi ezinxulumene kunye neenkampani ezimbi, kwaye ukuswela ukuqonda lwabazali ezama ukulibala mayihlale kwisangqa, abahlobo 'othembekileyo' kunye ibhiya okanye iglasi yevodka. Kakade ke, eneminyaka intokazi enjalo andifuni ukucinga ngemiphumo, kuba bonke ubomi phambili. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba sifo kuyingozi ngokukodwa amantombazana, njengoko oomama elizayo, kunye notywala kungaba yingozi kwimpilo yabafazi. kakubi utywala kukhokelela neentlobano zesini ngaphambi kwexesha, ngokuqhelekileyo ungakhuselekanga, kwaye ke ukukhulelwa kunye ngoko kwezisu. Idla ngokuba inqanyulwe ukukhulelwa esemncinane kukhokelela nenzalo, kwaye uyakwazi ukutshintsha ubomi bakho elizayo yonke. Ukongeza kule sex ngokungakhethi ngotshintsho rhoqo iqabane kunokukhokelela efumanise isifo ezoyikekayo - AIDS. Oku ukuba ukukhumbula nokuxabisa umntwana wakho okuthandayo kwimiphumo ebuhlungu.

Ukunakana ubukho iingxaki ezifana butywala elivisayo kunzima kakhulu. Ngapha koko, abazali ndinyamalale iintsuku emsebenzini, esazi ukuba ngelo xesha abantwana babo benza ntoni. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana baqala yokutsiba rhoqo esikolweni, ukuba iinkampani kwiindawo esitheleyo "yehlisa" encediswa utywala. Kwaye ngoko ke ukuthetha krwada okanye ukwala ngokupheleleyo ukunxibelelana nabo ngabazali. Abaninzi sola phezu utshintsho hormone, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na intandabuzo, khumbula ukuba kufuneka aphathe butywala kwangoko, kuba ixesha ukuqinisekisa ayikwazi ukuba uqikelelo.

Nceda kuphela alikwazi ugqirha kule meko. Iingcali bazi ukuba iindlela zonyango lwe elivisayo zahlukile abadala, njengoko abantwana bayaqhubeka ukuphuhlisa, kwaye imizimba babo kwisigaba formative. Ngenxa yoko, iziyobisi esinamandla banokubenzakalisa kakhulu kwimpilo. Ukuze ukulibala ngalo ukugula ngonaphakade, kufuneka babuyele ukuya kwikliniki eyodwa yaye baye e-izigulane unyango, apho kwenziwa khona umsebenzi ezintsonkothileyo. Indima ebalulekileyo eyadlalwa ngengqondo njengoko unako ukufumana indlela ekunene ukuya elivisayo kwaye akwazi ukuchaza indlela mkhulu umonakalo lokuxhatshazwa kotywala kwi igagasi lobuhlobo.

Kakade ke, ukuze aphumelele butywala kolutsha akubi phantsi amandla. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba ningethi hayi lithemba. Ukuba umntwana uzakuva inkxaso kunye nothando lwabazali, uya khetha enye indlela yobomi - ngaphandle utywala.