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Njengoko neentaka ziphaphazele: flight uqeqesho phuphu
Andizange ndicinge malunga nomba wokuba iintaka ndifunde ukubhabha? Le omangalisayo ngokwenene yaye kwangaxeshanye emehlweni kuhlekwe xa kakhulu got baby ngokomelela okokuqala "liphuma" kwi iphiko. Noko ke, asingabo bonke iintaka moya yokuqala ithatha indawo kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo, kwaye kaninzi ngaphezu zonke intshontsho uvakalelwa intlungu ukuwa ubukrakra ukungaphumeleli, ngoko ke sibalulekile kakhulu ngumama kuye. Yaba yena ebonisa kuye kuqala, njengoko neentaka ziphaphazele, accustoming tsheri yakhe phantse ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya zomhlaba ophezulu. Ngapha koko, ngokupheleleyo zonke iintaka iindlwane zazo phezulu emthini, kwaye akukho kuphela ukukhusela siyinzala, uxolo nenzolo. Uninzi zisendaweni nomphakamo enkulu kunye intshontsho ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya bakuqhele imvakalelo engaqhelekanga kwamashumi ubude ukusuka emhlabeni. Ngapha koko, ukuba akunjalo, le ntaka ayinakuze iphumelele, kuba oko asungule ithuku yendalo.
Abaninzi kuthi ndibonile indlela neentaka ziphaphazele. Umsebenzi wabo - into umdla, kungekhona enika angazikrazuli amehlo akhe kude. Ngaphezu koko, intaka nganye inayo isimbo engaqhelekanga xa lithe laqhenqetha amaphiko ayo ebhabha aye phezulu esibhakabhakeni. Kwaye lo moya waya kuba mnandi yaye bekhululekile, iintaka bafunda maxa wambi iiveki okanye iinyanga.
Ekubeni neentaka zasendle baqeqeshelwe ukuba ukubhabha ngokwabo kwaye bathethe malunga nokufunda yabo ekuthinjweni. Masithi nakancinane ukuba intshontsho ukhula, ufuna ukufundisa yonke: moya, ukutya ekhobokisayo, yokuzifihla ezintshabeni. Yaye kuye neentaka ziphaphazele ngayo, nguwe kuphela, hayi kanye mandithi, ukuba bayiqhube eli nyathelo libalulekileyo.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ubale ngenyameko ubudala amantshontsho, xa kuya kuba ngengqondo ukulungele ukubhabha. Amaninzi, kucacile, njengoko sele ngeentlobo yena uzama ukufumana phezulu phezu iphiko. Nokuba akayi akuwubona neentaka ziphaphazele, nethuku bakhe sixelele indlela ukwenza noko ukwenza ntoni.
Lo moya wokuqala kufuneka uthathe indawo kuphela kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Kukhethwa ukuba ukhethe indawo ebiyelweyo kunye nemithi ezimbalwa. uncedo yokugqibela intaka bazive bekhululekile. Kulo mzekelo, musa ukuzama ukwenza nawuphi na umsebenzi, njengoko bathi, "ngenduku." Oku ngathi nantoni na elungileyo uya kubakhokela, ngokuba intaka yakho ungafundi ukubhabha ngayo, musa ukuba lo.
Xa wafumana indawo efanelekileyo kusa, kufuneka uthathe unonophelo malunga nayiphi na imiqobo ephantsi, apho uya kubeka usana lwakho. Amanyathelo okuqala ukwenzela uphuhliso ephakamileyo kufuneka kwenziwe kuphela (!) Ekubeni umphakamo encinane. Ube itafile yekofu okanye isitulo - isiqalo, yaye loo nto ngokwaneleyo.
Xa intshontsho bafunda endiza i "ephakamileyo eliphantsi" Umgama nga ngcembe ukwanda. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo - lokuphosa emoyeni up. Ekuqaleni kusenokuba lukoyikise, kodwa ekugqibeleni bafunda ukubhabha yaye uya kuba kude kuwe.
Ngoko ke, ngokuthe ngcembe uya kubona inkqubela kule nkqubo, aze ekugqibeleni abe 'utitshala' yokusabela le ntaka. Jonga ifoto neentaka eziphaphazelayo unako ukwenza into, kodwa ukufundisa ngeentlobo nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe - hayi bonke abantu!
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