Ngaba wakha eliphantsi ukuba nabanyisayo

Ukuzalwa komntwana - ukuba isiganeko esithile ebomini yonke mfazi, kodwa ke ngelo xesha a amava umama oselula kuphela uvuyo, kodwa kananjalo okukhulu. Emva kweenyanga ezisithoba, xa kulinde imbonakalo umntwana wabo, yena sibona ukuba ephuhliswa kakuhle, njengoko kudlula izizukulwana, yonke into ihamba ukuba kulungile kunye nosana. Kwaye emva kokuzalwa ebusuku uze ukhathazeke ngokugqithiseleyo nokufumaneka imikhosi ubisi lwebele umama sele added. Ibhinqa kokujamelana engqondweni, nto leyo ke kaninzi iba ibe waba noxinezeleko. Oku kuya kunceda uphephe sine xa uncancisa oomama.

Ukuba nje ndiye ivenkile?

Ngaphambi kokubhenela ukuba amayeza, kufuneka azame ukusebenzisa iindlela ezingekho iziyobisi. Indlela elungileyo ukuze amkhulule lidiniwe uxinzelelo - iphumle bath amakhambi. Vumela usapho kunye nabahlobo abantu baya nizithathele ishwangusha ukuba umama oncancisayo akwazi ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi wena nosana lwakho, kuba maxa wambi nkqu imizuzu emihlanu kunye ikomityi yeti ukunceda kubuyela ezingqondweni. Ukuba umntwana akhulile kwaye ukulawula isibini iiyure ngaphandle unina, unako kuyishiya nomntu ukusuka usapho kwaye lixesha ukwenza into yabo: hamba ezivenkileni okanye ukuhlangabezana abahlobo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ukulayisha ngokwakhe kunye nemicimbi zendlu, baye kulinda. ukulala ebusuku ngcono kakuhle na umntwana, qaphela movie ozithandayo, funda incwadi, ahlale computer - ukwenza nto uyithandayo. Ukuhamba emoyeni lutsha yayisakhasa - oku kwakhona i "liyathandeka" okulungileyo nabanyisayo.

amayeza anti-ixhala

Imithi - enamandla nadlamkisayo (xa kuthelekiswa iindlela ezilula ukuphumla). Nokuba umfazi uthe wagqiba ukuba uqale ukuthatha kubo, kufuneka balumke xa kukhethwa la machiza kuba banokubenzakalisa umntwana, nkqu ngokwakhe. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uqale ufune icebiso oyingcali, ngubani na oya kuninika yonke imiyalelo eziyimfuneko. Ingaba eyenzwe iti sine ezenziwe ngokusekelwe ngamalungiselelo esintu. Kodwa inxalenye enkulu kubo, kukho inxina, nto leyo echaphazela ukuncitshiswa lokwaphusa, ngoko ke umama oncancisayo kufuneka silumke kakhulu xa ukhetha le iti. Kwakhona ukunceda athobe zakho zonke valerian ezaziwayo, kodwa oku kufuneka kube elucwecweni unabo, kungekhona tincture utywala. Ngokuqinisekileyo Ungasebenzisa umthomalalisi mihla ngakumbi koomama uncancisa, umzekelo, isitshixo i "namaPersi" okanye "Novopassit", leyo balahle jini. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uthathe amayeza ezinjalo, kufuneka udibane nogqirha wakho uze ufunde imiyalelo ichiza, kuba ukuze Izimo kunye neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga.

Akukho mfuneko yokuba isijwili - yonke indlela phambili!

Akunamsebenzi nokuba oko kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kunzima ukuba bonke isiphelo embi nokuba kunini. Phambili iya kuba nzima kodwa okumnandi yaye ngendlela emangalisayo - ngumama. Kakade ke, ngoyaba zizigulo zemithambo akakwazi, kuba baye bakwazi ukuba ibe ukudandatheka elide, kwaye ke ngoko kukho sine xa uncancisa oomama. Simele sikhumbule ukuba onke amava nangokweemvakalelo kuchaphazela umntwana, nto leyo nzima kakhulu, kuba uqala kuphela ukuvavanya ihlabathi. Ke kaloku umntwana kufuneka inkxaso umntu osenyongweni abathandayo - unina wakhe. ngoncumo A umntwana wayeza kuba iyeza ilungileyo lokunyanga zonke izigulo!