Narcissism - ntoni na? ezimbi zabantu. Narcissism

Umntu ngamnye ngendlela enye okanye omnye iyazithanda. Kufanele, omhle. Noko ke, izenzakalo ezinjalo badla-sikhokelo ethile kunye nelo lithi "daffodil." Ntoni na kule ngxelo, ibinzana elithi "Narcissism" - ntoni na xa ukulusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo - konke oku kwaye ufuna ukuthetha ngokweenkcukacha kweli nqaku.

Ukonyulwa elithi

Into yokuqala ukuba baqonde isigama. Ngenxa yoko, Narcissism - ntoni na? Ekuqaleni Ndifuna ukuthi ukuba eli gama livela amakhwenkwe Greek - Narcissus (ngokwe kwiintsomi), ngubani wayechukunyiswa kukuba ukugqiba bethabatheke wafa lolu thando (njengophawu lesohlwayo ngenxa yokuba ulicekisile uthando a Uphunguphungu omhle). Ukuba ugqithele ulwimi lwenzululwazi, ngoko eli state - yinto ethile inkalo yobuntu (kubhekisele negative), uzele Narcissism. Kufuneka ke ukuba kwengqondo akukho ngqo, isikhundla esinye echanekileyo yale meko, ngenxa yokuba kaninzi kubhekwa kwiiyantlukwano ezimbini ezahlukeneyo:

1. Njengoko yokusabela ngoyaba nxamnye ubudlelwane ezimbi umntu.
2. Njengoko wabona ubumpi kubantu ngeenxa zonke.

izifundiswa

Oko izazinzulu ziye zafunda isenzeko of Narcissism? Freud kunye Abraham - aba ngabantu kwi imisebenzi le ngcamango kuthiwa ngaphezu kanye. Kuthiwa ukuba wafunda oko ngaxeshanye, ngokuthi siqinisa imbalelwano, nokuthetha kamva ngokusondeleyo ngakumbi omnye nomnye ngayo. Ngoko ke, uFreud (ngubani waboleka kota kuPawulos Nakka kunye Heveloka Ellisa, nokulijonga imbono yomntu umzimba wakhe njengento ngokwesondo) wathi nayiphi sisibonakaliso Narcissism - na imbuyekezo zaneleyo unina ngamnye uthando (unina-uthando), oboniswe apha efana narcissistic ezimangalisayo.

Wenza ntoni uAbraham malunga ngqikelelo njengoko "Narcissism" enjalo? Yintoni na ngendlela yakhe imbono? Ngenxa yoko ke, ingqalelo le meko xa izigulane schizophrenia, ubuyeleyo kude nasiphi na uthando ngokupheleleyo swi ngokwayo. Le meko yaba kodwa igama autoerotism, leyo mnandi kakhulu Freud. Wagqiba ukuphuhlisa oko ngakumbi, echaza zonke iingcinga zakhe kwinqaku "Kwi Narcissism," umsebenzi "Intshayelelo Narcissism" njalo-njalo. D.

A kabanzi Freud

Iyafuna esithi ngento Freud wakhetha Narcissism eziziprayimari nezizisekondari. Kuthetha ntoni oku? Ngokufutshane, uhlobo iphambili kurhulumente - liqonga yendalo kuphuhliso ngamnye, nto leyo eyenzeka ebuntwaneni kwangethuba kwaye yindlela eqhelekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kobudlelwane into (ngenxa Freud ngayo). Secondary narcissistic efanayo (ngokweengxelo lo mzobo lwezenzululwazi) kuchaswa, t. E. Man njengoko ethanda uthando ngokwayo.

Kwiifom

Ukuhlalutya ingqiqo ka "Narcissism" (ntoni na kwaye usebenzise njani), kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo into yokuba kukho iintlobo ezininzi kule meko. Ukongeza, kukho ukuhlelwa eziliqela ezingeniswe ngabaphengululi ezahlukeneyo ngalo mbandela. Eyokuqala kwezi wenziwe zeGestalt therapist Elinor Greenberg:

1. Narcissism Healthy. Xa umntu ngokwaneleyo tirhandza, le meko ayilwamkeli umgca ethile, kwaye ayikho Narcissism. Olu hlobo ukuzithemba, umnqweno namandla, inkolelo yeyam. Kulo mzekelo, isiseko i ebuntwaneni eqhelekileyo uphilile ibunjwe-kakuhle ixabiso izigwebo malunga ngokwabo nabanye.
2. Narcissism kukhuseleko. Sinokuthi le ingqondo ukongama ukuba ayingqinelani yokwenene. Ngokomzekelo: umnqweno namandla nanini na iindleko, utshintsho rhoqo yeenjongo, kufakwe siseko. Xa intliziyo kangangokuba "mpilweni" ebuntwaneni kubuhlungu ukusuka kwindawo engqondweni ngayo.
3. Narcissism yezifo. Amaninzi zifumaneka abantu abanezigulo ezahlukeneyo engqondweni okanye ukuphazamiseka, umzekelo, ezifana sengqondo.

Forms: ngezigaba ezahlukeneyo

Kodwa kufuneka wathi ngokufuthi kweli phephancwadi ludlala indima le zingqondweni, oko kukuthi. E. Oko avela ebuntwaneni. Kwaye kukulawula Narcissism na isenzeko entshabalalo oluthintela uphuhliso "self-uchazo" womntu.

1. Narcissism eyakhayo. Sinokuthi ukuba ukuvunywa ngesiqu sakho njengomntu, ngokusekelwe ubudlelwane obushushu phakathi kwayo nabanye. Xa sithatha ulwahlulohlulo ngentla, njalo-ebizwa Narcissism eqhelekileyo okanye usempilweni.
2. Kuyabulala. Le ubugqwetha Narcissism zophendlo lwezifo eyakhayo ekhokelela yokuba umntu nje engalunganga okanye ngokwaneleyo assess ngokunxulumene kwabanye.
3. Ezikweletini. Iyafuna besithi ukuba lo Narcissism eyakhayo ezisezingeni karhulumente. It is a ukungakwazi ethile ukuze ngokupheleleyo nokwanela, ukuzimela, ukungakwazi ukwenza, imbono epheleleyo ngokupheleleyo ubuntu babo. Isizathu sale meko rhoqo ezibandayo okanye akanankathalo umoya entsatsheni ngethuba ngexesha lokusekwa umntu , kwaye amanyathelo kuqala ukuziqhelanisa kuluntu.

amacandelo daffodils

Iyafuna esithi ukuba ngokutsha iincwadi ezahlukeneyo komxholo othi "Narcissism" yaveliswa zizazinzulu Ukukhuthaza kunye Campbell ngo-2007. Iimpawu zobuntu narcissistic - yiloo kucalulo umdla kakhulu ebonelelwe izigqibo zabo:

1. Abantu ukuphazamiseka engqondweni bacinga ukuba ngcono kunabanye.
2. Aba bantu ukuhlola ngokwaneleyo bona ngokunxulumene kwabanye, umbono wabo ayingqinelani yokwenene.
3. Daffodils badla zazi kakhulu ulwazi lwabo kwindawo ethile.
4. Abantu lesi sifo bona ngokwabo kuphela nje ngabantu ezizodwa zemfundo eneemfuno ezizodwa.
5. Ukuba kukho ukhetho phakathi komdla, Narcissus qiniseka ukuba bakhethe ezabo, ebafaka ngaphezu kwabanye.
6. Amaninzi ekupheleni lulodwa a daffodils yimpumelelo.
7. Daffodils bakholisa ukuba babonise noludumileyo zabo phezu kwabanye.

iimpawu ezinjalo ezimbi

Iyafuna besithi Narcissism kwindalo - isisifo, unxaxho kwi psyche yabantu. Nangona kunjalo, zikhona ithi ukuba ezendeleyo abantu ngendlela eya sigulo. Ngoko ke zintoni na iimpawu negative efanayo kwesi sifo? Ngoko ke, okokuqala ukuba ikratshi. Enye yezono kwezidumbu kwefom yonqulo, xa umntu uyakwazi baziphakamise kakhulu, impumelelo yabo kunye impumelelo. A umgangatho ofanayo yesibini - Narcissism. Eli linyathelo lokuqala Narcissism, leyo, Noko ke, ukuze zihlale omnye kuphela. Umntu uyamthanda yena kakhulu kangangokuba nje ngokwaneleyo masihambelane ubuwena bakho nabanye, ngobuchule kusabiwa yena kuphela.

Ziziphi ezinye iimpawu ezimbi kungathathwa? Ngoko ke, ukuba azithembe. Imithamo eziqhelekileyo kulungile, kodwa zophendlo lwezifo ukuzithemba - yinto urhulumente ekufutshane ukuphazamiseka psyche. Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kaninzi ingqikelelo Narcissism correlates ncam ezi mpawu ezimbi sizalwa ngumntu othile.

Impembelelo ubomi

Kufuneka ke ukuba Narcissism (njengoko kwinqanaba lokuqala ikhona yaye kamva) nempembelelo ngokupheleleyo ubomi babantu. Kubalulekile ukuba eli ubuntu disorder (njengoko, eneneni, kunye nezinye izifo ezifanayo) luphawulwa iimpawu ezintathu:

1. Ichaphazela ngokupheleleyo onke amacandelo kunye iinkalo zezinto ezenziwa luluntu.
2. Esi sifo ukuba uhodyasche-uyeza, yohlala ezinzileyo ngokuhamba kwexesha.
3. Narcissism ngomlinganiso esisinyanzelo ihamba maladjustment lwentlalo.

Izizathu

Njengoko kakuhle kukho Narcissism? Iingcali zengqondo, yengqondo bathi oonobangela belele lwabantwana abaselula womntu, oko kukuthi, ulwalamano lwakhe kunye nonina. Sifuze, Kakade ke, ukuze babe yemfuza, kodwa ke ebaluleke kakhulu kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi. ubunzima Various, iimvavanyo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo washiya uphawu nzulu kakhulu entliziyweni zosana kwaye ikhokelela deformation ongundoqo 'self-nesazisi ". Ngenxa yoko, ukuzithemba lo mntwana uhleli amathupha, yonke ekhokelela kuseko yofakelo ongenathemba, kunye nenjongo oluntu elizayo ulondolozo rhoqo ukuzithemba (ubuntu ithe ayakhekanga). Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka wathi unxibelelwano yokuqala kumama nomntwana - nkqu Esibelekweni - le yenye kwinqanaba lokuqala ukuyilwa of Narcissism ezimbaxa komntwana (nokuba umntwana unqwenela, njengoko unina entle wamitha, njl ...). Ukuba umama nosana zimanyene uthando lwabo, abazali kwiimvuthuluka ixesha elaneleyo kunye nokhathalelo, ukunceda ukuba baziqhelanise "ihlabathi enkulu", singatsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu akunakwenzeka ukuba naziphi na iingxaki kunye "self-Isibonakaliso".