Kutheni bakubetha ngoyaba xa kiss?

Ngokuphindaphindiweyo uyasiva umbuzo wokuba kutheni ngokumanga uvale amehlo akho xa ukuqabula okanye kutheni bakubetha ngoyaba?

Umbuzo akuyona entsha, kodwa impendulo ecacileyo ukuba kuba nzima ukufumana, ewe, kwaye uvale amehlo abo ngelixa bephuzana ayikho bonke. Enye ingcamango kutheni Bewacima namehlo abo xa bephuzana - ukuba ngumkhwa okanye reflex nokomzimba. Mhlawumbi uvale amehlo kiss mnandi nangokweemvakalelo. Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba banalo ilungelo lokuba uvale amehlo akho xa bephuzana, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka esweni imeko, nkqu ngexesha ngokwanga. Olu seto ngokuqhelekileyo abantu yokuphila asebenzayo, umisela neemfuno aphezulu kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi kunye neziphumo zazo, kwakunye nabanye abantu kwaye ngokwam buqu. Enye inxalenye abantu bakhetha ukuba kunikwe izimvo zakhe ngokupheleleyo, Ndoniphumelisa phantsi kwamandla iimvakalelo, ngoko bakhetha ukuvala amehlo abo ngelixa bephuzana. Kwesinye nomntu omnye kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo amange okwakuphandle, yaye ngamanye amaxesha ngamehlo akhe ivaliwe.

Ngoko, emva koko, kutheni, xa bephuzana iliso?

Oku zichazwe ngokwemigaqo zomzimba. Ukwanga Bewacima namehlo akho kuba ingqondo unika lomyalelo ukususa ezintweni zangaphandle yokuthintela ukuba ufumane iimvakalelo ezakhayo ukusuka ngokwanga. Ngokwamanani komzimba, lo msebenzi ubalulekileyo omzimba womntu, ke amandla okuzala kunye ukwanga eyandulela kwaye yenza oku. Ngoko ke, ingqondo unika umyalelo kwi yokwenene. Ngelo xesha linye ngexesha kiss yenyama, kukho buthathaka kweendlebe, mhlawumbi ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo.

Ethetha zobugcisa.

unjingalwazi Singapore wazama ukuba aseke impendulo kumbuzo - kutheni, xa bephuzana iliso? Ngokutsho kuye; kuba le nto kukho izizathu ezithathu. Omnye wabo, ngamazwi akhe, yinto nokubonakaliswa ezenzekelayo. Ngokuzenzekelayo Neenkophe ubuza, ukukhusela ingqondo yomntu ukusuka intsalela iimvakalelo. Oku kungenxa yokuba ngawo lo mzuzu ingqondo kakhulu sensory overload. Ukuyisusa okanye ukuququzelela umzimba wethu ngethuku lemvelo isebenzisa ukuvalwa amehlo. Kwakhona lubonisa ukuba sivale amehlo ethu, kuba abafuni ukubona ubuso bakhe shinyi naye ngenxa umfanekiso walo-ntathu akukho baqonda ngexesha inkanuko. Sikwazi ukubona i ukufiphala, akusoloko kumnandi ukufunda, imisele iqabane ubuso kunye ngethuku lemvelo amehlo am ivalwe ukuze uphephe oku. Enye indlela, ngokutsho uprofesa, kutheni, xa bephuzana amehlo close - ukuthobeka kwabantu banal. Wokuvala amehlo akhe ngexesha wamanga, asiyi musa ukubeka iqabane lakho kwiimeko singaxineki; musani ukundinyanzela ukuba ukulawula ku vangama ka mintlhaveko bakhe yobuso.

Ebuzwa kutheni, xa bephuzana, uvale amehlo zabo. Ngamnye kuthi iqulunqe indlela yakhe. Kodwa ke, ekuqaleni, sithetha ngokuphuzana, sicinga luthando kunye ubuhule. Zengqondo sincoma Akuvamile kuphela kiss neqabane kodwa kuhlola kuye ebudeni wamanga, njengokuba kwakunjalo ngoko, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe, ukuba ufunde lukhulu ngaye. Kwangaxeshanye, iisayikholojisti inyanzelise ukuba kiss ngamehlo akho ivaliwe, njengoko umthetho, yothando kunye nohlobo edlulayo. Ukuba bakholisa lokuqhawula ngokupheleleyo abakuso, uziqhube ehlabathini iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ngaphandle yokucinga ngekamva. Ngokutsho manani, ezo ukwanga, ngaphandle sivala amehlo akhe, abambalwa, kwaye, oko kukuthi,-10% kuphela. Iingcali zengqondo ixhobise abantu abanjalo ezi mpawu zilandelayo: ukuthembeka kunye authoritarianism, ngenxa yokuba engakwazi naphantsi kwazo zonke iimeko ukulawula imeko, yaye ngoko basabela utshintsho incinane kuye.

Iingxelo ebekwe yaye ngamnye kubo, ukusa kumkhamo othile impikiswano. Njengoko kusoloko enye into: ukuba amange ngokuba thina kubaluleke ukutya okanye ukuphefumla. Kufuneka ube nomhlaba omkhulu, yaye ngokufuthi bephuzana, njengoko zinamandla emvelo anti-nokudakumba.