Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wawa ukhuko

Kamsinya nje umntwana efunda ukuhamba, uza kwenza loo nto lonke ixesha. Ngexesha embi kunokwenzeka, xa umama wam ubuyile okanye wahamba, yena uyakwazi ukuya elunxwemeni kwaye ufumane ngokwakho phantsi. Enoba high umntwana wawa ebhedini. Ezinye iintsana ezifunyenwe mala emva kokwehla, kunye ukuphakama sisiqingatha semitha kwikhaphethi. Kodwa i "moya" ezinjalo iphela yokothuka kuphela, elila ngaphandle imiphumo. Omama kunye oyise, musani ukuphakuzela ukuba kwiimvuthuluka bakho bawe kwenzeke. Kufuneka wazi ukuba benze ntoni xa umntwana wawa ebhedini.

Isenzo yokuqala abazali emva kokuwa usana

Cinga ngemeko apho wawa umntwana ebhedini, ukukhala intliziyo-wawudiliza okanye waquleka. Njani na ukuba uphile, kungekhona ukwenzakalisa umntwana uze ujonge imeko yakhe? Nantsi isikhumbuzo kancinane:

1. Okokuqala hlala ukulawula. Akukho mfuneko ukulila, ukumemeza, okanye uyihlukuhle umntwana. balumke ngeyona iyafuneka, unonophelo.
2. Ngobunono Beka wosana kwindawo olusithabazi ebhedini okanye ukutshintsha itafile. Hlola ngenxa naziphi nemivumbo, ukusikwa, ukuphatheka. Ingakumbi ngokucophelela intloko yakho, kuba oko kukubambisa umthwalo.
3. Ukuba umntwana akakho zingqondweni, musa ukothuka. Khangela ukuze ubone ukuba omphefumlo, yima umzuzu. Imele uyavuka bakhale ngokukhawuleza. Kwimeko ilahleko elide sezingqondweni kufuneka ubize inqwelo yezigulana okanye uthathe umntwana esibhedlele ngokwabo.
4. Ukuba akukho balimala ebonakalayo, uthathe umntwana ezingalweni zakhe, uthobe. Unako luphe into etyiwayo; bacule ingoma, into yokudlala oyithandayo ukonwabisa. Qhoboshela esigingqini phezu kwentloko yakhe i pack ice uyisongele ilweyile. Musa kudlala mobile, musa imkhathaza umntwana, ukukhusela ngokuchasene iingxolo elikhulu. Qwalasela ukuziphatha kwiimvuthuluka.
5. Ukuba ngaba wafumana umenzakalo, ukuqinisekisa umntwana ekuphumleni ubize inqwelo yezigulana. ugqirha kuphela ukuhlola ingozi iziphumo ukuwa.

iindlela bendalo umzimba usana ekujongwe ukunciphisa imiphumela trauma. Fontanel, umzekelo, uyakwalela ukuba isiphumo PIN, kuthintela Abokuhlunguzelelwa okungephi. Kodwa ke, ukuba usana wawa ukhuko - nto isifundo ukuba afundise abazali ukuba bathathe uxanduva usana ekhuselekileyo.

Indlela ukuqaphela mala

Kukho iimpawu ezingancumisiyo ngawo umntu Laqonda mala emntwaneni. Akukho mba yawa nyanga ubudala usana ebhedini kid seminyaka emihlanu okanye nge emthini - zizinto ezibonisa efanayo. Uluhlu Iimpawu:

• ukwazi othile ;
• nentetho engekho mgaqweni;
• ukozela;
• yintloko ebuhlungu loo nto kuhamba ixesha elide;
• neziqephu uyagabha (imini ngaphezu kwesinye);
• yombono;
• ukutshintsha ubungakanani omnye abafundi;
• amabala ezimnyama kwi inwebu emehlweni, emva iindlebe;
• ukopha okanye ukwahlukana lolwelo ezingenambala evela iindlebe kunye nempumlo;
• nemibono zombini ezibonwayo kunye ukuqgiba.

Kakade ke, itakane kuya kuba nzima ukudlulisela abazali ukuba waba umbono kabini. Kodwa markers eziphambili ezifana nokugabha, bedanduluka ziintlungu ziya kuba esiveza. Ukuba usana wawa ukhuko, bamlinde iintsuku ezimbini.

Indlela ukuba sibalekele ukuwela ebhedini

Eyona ndlela ibhetele ukukhusela usana lwakho - hayi bemlalele bona. Kodwa xa kusenziwa kunqabile ukuba kwenzeke. Abazali kufuneka batye, balale, besenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Oku kuthetha ukuba usana kuyimfuneko ukuba indawo enjalo imidlalo, nto leyo iya kukhuseleka khona. Ukuba umntwana lo ukukhasa, ngoko le ndawo ibe phantsi. Yinto yokunceda umntwana ikhaya lakho ofudumeleyo kude nomoya kunye nempahla. Nika zokudlala imvuthuluka. Ngoxa umntwana idlala elukhukweni, engqongwe yi phantsi kwentloko yakhe enkulu macala. inshorensi olunjalo luya nimbongoze ngesibetho, gcina lusana ngenxa yokwenzakala. Kwakhona luncedo ekhuselekileyo ukuzonwabisa arena iya kuba imvuthuluka. Uya ukunciphisa intshukumo umntwana. Ngoku ukuphazanyiswa kwenziwe umsebenzi ongxamisekileyo, bade bakushiye ngokufutshane igumbi.