Esikolweni umntwana kusembizeni - kwibakala ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso wosana

Kid wena uyakholiswa igama lokuqala, kwaye sele wenza amanyathelo yayo yokuqala. Kwaye kubonakala ukuba omdala-up ezizimeleyo, apho ilungele kwibakala ebalulekileyo yophuhliso, ukuba accustom njani umntwana embizeni. Apho kanye omama bethu kanye oomakhulu bazama ukufikelela kweli nqanaba ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze ukuhlamba imfumba iingubo mihla le, ukuba abazali banamhlanje ngakumbi elinde ukuba xa umntwana uyayazi ukubaluleka kokusebenzisa embizeni ngokwayo. Oku akothusi - siphila kwixesha ukucupha ezilahlwayo, kunye oomatshini bokuhlamba, ngoko musa ningadinwa yonke imihla ukususela iimpahla zabantwana.

Ngokwemveli accustom ndingusisi imbiza kuqala kwiminyaka engama-1.5. Kodwa xa phezu - ukuqikelela akekho. Bonke abantwana ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo: umntu kuqeqesho nepoti iya kuchitha iveki yonke, yaye umntu uya ube neempawu entsha iinyanga eziliqela. Eyona nto kukuba ubudala xa abazali bafundise itakane ukuya embizeni, ukuba ngokuthobela ngokupheleleyo kuphuhliso lwayo. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa ezibonisa ukuba habituation eneneni ixesha ukuqalisa:

- itakane asafa, elomileyo ebuthongweni;

- umntanakho luyakwazi ukuhlala owomileyo iiyure 2-2.5;

- kwenza imiqondiso ethile nto leyo ebonisa ukuba lixesha lokuba ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese;

- umntwana uthanda ukwenza yonke into "esikhulu."

Ukuba nayiphi na amanqaku 3 ithotyelwe, ngoko ke umntwana kakhulu ukulungele ukuhlola eli nqanaba entsha lophuhliso kuye.

Okulandelayo, kufuneka amisele ndlela uya kuphumeza accustom ndingusisi imbiza:

1. indlela ukutyala ngexesha elifanayo (malunga omnye nonyaka).

Ifanele kuphela ezo ababantwana isitulo rhoqo, nomama uyazi emva koko iinkqubo kwaye nkarhi lowu kufuneka yena yangasese. Umzekelo, kubalulekile ukwenza oko emva kwesidlo okanye kube lixesha lokulala. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yeyona nto efanelekileyo kwabo abazali abanabantwana yesisu ezitenxileyo ezinokwenzeka.

2. Indlela yokutyala for 5 - imizuzu eli-10 (iminyaka enye enesiqingatha).

Kwakhona ezifanelekileyo kwabo azikhulula rhoqo kwaye ngeendlela ezininzi ifuze ndlela ichazwe ngasentla. Kodwa ukuba kunjalo kuqala, umntwana ayikho kusembizeni ixesha elide, apha ayigqiba imbiza 5 - kwimizuzu eli-10, yaye ngoku umsebenzi wakhe kusincede ayikhuphi umchamo okanye ngendle, Ndiyiqonde into ntoni abadala.

3. Indlela yesandi isaziso (ukuya kwiminyaka emibini).

Le ndlela, mhlawumbi, kuba inkoliso yabazali nomonde. kubume bayo usendleleni yokuba umntwana ingxelo yokuba kwakufuneka imbiza ukusebenzisa nayiphi isandi okanye igama elula. Kufuneka lingasetyenziswa ngokubambisana kunye indlela yokuqala, kunye umahluko ngaloo mini ngalunye emva kokutyala cela umntwana ukuxelela kwixesha elizayo, ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Kule minyaka, umntwana sele ukwazi ukuqonda ezininzi, ngoko uyakwazi kumxelela ukuba yena uya ipoti, itight phezu iya kuhlala owomileyo.

Indlela eqhelekileyo indlela ngokukhawuleza ukufundisa umntwana embizeni, nto leyo ifanele ngokulinganayo kubo bonke, ayikho. Yaye simele sikhumbule malunga nokukhuthazwa - emva konyaka umntwana uyayiqonda indumiso abenqwenela ukukholisa nomama wam.

Kukho iimeko apho lwakukhula oye wafunda ukusebenzisa ipoti, ngesiquphe uqalisa ukwenza phezulu, okuveza iyasuswa iqala ukuhamba kwakhona ezi bhulukhwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali kule meko lidubadubekile ngokupheleleyo kwaye abakwazi bana phandle eyabangela ilahleko izakhono. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukukwazi ukuba ukulahlekelwa, kwaye ngxaki igutyungelwe kwezinye esinye isizathu, umzekelo, endleni okuqinileyo. Ukuba defecation yabangela intlungu mntwana, uya kuzama kubaphepha kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba umntwana mdala ngokwaneleyo, ungazama ukuchazela kuye ukuba intlungu kungabi sabakho kufa, kuba babesela iyeza. Kulo meko, kuya kufuneka nomonde, baze bamemeze zakho ezingalunganga "Kulungile, uyazi njani!" Andzise kuphela meko.

Yaye nayiphi na imeko, accustoming umntwana bembiza kufuneka ibe ekhululekile, hayi uthethe kwaye baniqalekisayo, maxa wambi khohlwa yena bazifake panties. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqinisekisa ukuba usana owawubumbela embizeni neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo.