Kufuneka ibe yintoni isifungo somtshato?

Kwi-West, kukho lisiko elihle; ngexesha lomtshato, umbingeleli izibandakanya izandla iintliziyo zabantu abatsha abangena emtshatweni, banikela omnye isifungo. Xa oku inkolo kunye nathi, kodwa ubeke kumsitho phezu komlambo kwiofisi lobhaliso hayi kakhulu ophethwe ngomzuzwana touchingly ezibalulekile. Kodwa, uyabona, kukho kolu into ekhethekileyo!

Kungani isifungo

Kutheni wanikwa le sifungo yomtshato? Yintoni kakuhle eli yesithethe? Kwaba wayekhe wacinga ukuba imitshato nje naphi na, kodwa ezulwini. Yaye ebudeni msitho abantu abaselula indlela uThixo aza ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyayamkela isigqibo sakhe, ukuthanda kwakhe elungileyo babe nosapho. Wedding isithembiso waba intsingiselo enzulu, zingcwele. Umtshakazi nomyeni wanika ilizwi leNkosi, akayi ukuba nibuye umva enye kwenye, uya kwaphula umnqophiso wakhe. Bakulungele ukuba enye kwaye ukuba baxhasane kuphela ngamaxesha uvuyo, uxolo, inkqubela.

Nawuphi wedding isithembiso kuquka - yinto isithembiso sokuba singenakwaphulwa. Oku phambi kwesibingelelo, yena wagxininisa ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni benze eli nyathelo ngabom, bafuna ukuba kunye ndibuhlungu, ukuxhasa nye iimvavanyo kunye nezifo kwaye ukuba ngesandla ubomi ngesandla de impefumlo yakhe yokugqibela. Lovers ngokubanzi ube kuphakanyiswa, akabaxwa kwaye kakhulu sublime ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo. Bacinga ukuba ukuthanda njengoko zinjalo, akukho namnye owakha kodwa abashiya ebomini. Kakade ke, loo impulsiveness ekhoyo kwisicatshulwa, apho lomtshato isifungo. Noko ke, esi sibini ayinike amandla aphezulu nje kuphela, kodwa omnye komnye, njengoko kunjalo, kwakhona elalibhalwe uthando, yaye oku elinzima iintliziyo incoko. Yoku- njani kwaye yintoni bathi, ukuchola "kakhulu-ezininzi" amagama afanelekileyo, inkwenkwe nentombazana (nokuba yeliduna, nokuba yelithokazi) hlola kubudlelwane babo, baphinde bavavanye ukuba wena kunye neqabane zahlalutywa. Kungenxa yoko le nto isibhambathiso lomtshato, umbhalo walo - a uzazi kunye nokuqondwa ngokuvakalayo kuphela umntu abe avumelana isiqingatha esinye. Mhlawumbi, le ifuthe kunye nentsingiselo ephambili yale Isiko.

Isifungo kwivesi kunye iprozi

Waba yintoni abe isifungo somtshato? Kwivesi kunye iprozi, ukubamba, theka, amisiweyo, zonqulo nezehlabathi. Avamise kakhulu sesi silandelayo: "Mna, ke ngoko, ndiya kukuthabatha ndenjenje, umfazi, kwaye ndiyathembisa ukuba nditsale, ukuba umthande, lixabise ubomi kuwe. Ndiyathembisa ukuba sithembeke kuwe, ube uncedo ngenyameko nonobubele ekhaya, inkxaso yonke imiba nenkxalabo. Ndiyathembisa ukuba ngutata olungileyo kwaye nje ukuba abantwana bethu, ukuba athathe inxaxheba ekukhuleni kwazo. Ndikuthanda nje inkazana, bakumbona, bangamhlonela yena njengomfazi wakhe, umgcini of Iziko intsapho yethu, continuer uhlobo. Makube njalo njalo "okanye isifungo somtshato kwivesi:

"Ndiyakuthanda, sithandwa sam,

Ndiyathembisa ukuba kufutshane,

Ukunceda zonke, kuba ndiyazi,

Njani ubomi nzima ukuze baphile!

Kubomi bemihla olungekho zonke:

Kwaye ke izifo kunye neengxaki.

inkathazo kuphela ozuza,

Ngubani na onamandla, neenkani, ukhaliphe!

Ndiyamthanda sakho esinamandla,

Ndimema, kuba ngoku - usapho!

Ndiya konwaba kunye nam,

Kwaye nawe - ndonwabile "!

isibini ngasinye iza kunye ngokwayo, oko okubhaliweyo nesifungo sakhe. Nje thembeka, yaye uthethe ngokusuka entliziyweni, ukunika igama elinye, balibambe ukuya ekupheleni!