Yintoni ulonwabo?

Mhlawumbi ngamnye kuthi wacinga yintoni na ntsako. Yeyona umbuzo obungunaphakade abantu umphefumlo utyiwa. Xa yaxoxa abantu ezilikhulu izinto ukufumana ulonwabo, bakholelwa, ziya kuba yiminyaka elikhulu elinamanci iimpendulo ezahlukeneyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntu ngamnye ubona undoqo ulonwabo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngendlela yabo. Ngoku sizama ukuphendula umbuzo yintoni na ntsako.

Wonke umntu kweli hlabathi onwabe. Kodwa yintoni na ntsako? Ewe, unako ukuba oku akunjalo. Kodwa cinga ngalo mbuzo, ukuba nithethe nto-nye. Yintoni ulonwabo, ungacela, ngokuba umntu avareji? Kukholelwa ukuba unoyolo lowo imfundo, intsapho eyonwabileyo-gingxi kunye uxhulumaniso okulungileyo eluntwini. Le nyaniso ivezwe kutshanje zizazinzulu yaseMelika. Kodwa xa ucinga ngenyameko yaye ucinga kuphela, ujika ukuba ulonwabo kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ubuxoki. Wena musa ushiye umbuzo wokuba yintoni na ntsako? Emva koko, sizama ukucacisa kuni. Ulonwabo - likuxhoxhela ebhedini enye imitha eqaqambileyo yaye begcakamele ilanga, elijongeka kwi window yakho wakho omthandayo. Ulonwabo - ukuba bundle phezulu ngengubo kwi ngokuhlwa Ubusika obubandayo, ukufumana iifoto ezindala ubutiza. Ulonwabo - sele yonke yakho amaphupha, amaphupha nga engasoze kuzaliseka, kodwa uya kusoloko kuhlala amaphupha. Ulonwabo - ukuthanda ngaphandle kwinkumbulo, uthando zingqondweni, anikane ngothando kwaye ucinge ngayo nantoni na enye. Ulonwabo - ukuba ukukholisa abazali ukunika izipho, tyelela xa sisaluphala. Ulonwabo yokuba abantwana bephuzana iminwe babo abancinane ubaleke phezu ingca eluhlaza. Eneneni, kusenokwenzeka ukuba udwelise onke amaxesha ebomini, ukuba ukukhumbula ukuba yintoni, kwaye Ndinephupha uya kuba yintoni. Leyo ulonwabo.

Mhlawumbi, abo balahlekelwa ukholo ukuba wonwabile, cela, yaye phi na ukufumana ulonwabo? Kwaye akukho mfuneko ukuba bakhangele, oko lisondele kakhulu. Kodwa abanye musa isaziso okanye awufuni ukuba uqaphele. Xa wonwabile, ubomi bakho lujika lube umculo, oko ayiyeki ndivakala ngathi zange ngaphambili. Kwaye yintoni umculo izandi ubomi kuwe, oko kuxhomekeka kuloo mntu. Ukuba umculo eqaqambileyo, fast, elikhulu, nto leyo eyenza ukuba danisa nans crazy, ngoko ngokucacileyo, wena zezona umntu onwabe ehlabathini. Kodwa ukuba udakumbile, udandathekile, umculo wakho cwaka, uyadika, kade. Kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuba ukuhlala ulinde okuthile, nje akukho endorphin ulonwabo okanye, njengoko zibizwa iihomoni zovuyo. Yintoni na, wena ukubuza? Kuba ukuveliswa kwezi iihomoni abonwabileyo idibana ingqondo yakho. Izazinzulu baye baqala ukuphanda le nkqubo ixesha elide. Kwi imali iiendorphin kuxhomekeke imo yakho, isimo, iimvakalelo. Ukuba akukho ngokwaneleyo kubo, uziva Xawuxakane, wadinwa ngani nonke, ndifuna ukufihla ekoneni yaye akazange ukubona okanye ukuva. Kodwa kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuba ukulungisa, ukuba badle ukudla ezithile ngokwaneleyo, kwaye inqanaba ka emzimbeni ulonwabo luya kuqalisa ukukhula ngokukhawuleza, yaye ngenxa yoko, nomxhelo owonwabileyo, ukuba abe namandla ngakumbi yaye uphilile, ufuna ukuhleka, ukubaleka kwakunye nabakonwabelayo zonke iinkcukacha. Ngoko ke zintoni ukutya, uya kusivusa ngeenyawo zakho na? Oku Iirissie ebomvu kunye neebhanana, itshokolethi emnyama kunye ice cream, nokhula lwaselwandle kunye neeamangile. Ukutya imveliso ubuncinane enye kuluhlu, uya kuziva ukudubuleka amandla, isimo, amandla. Musa ufuna ukutya, iqhuma emqaleni akayi kuhamba - kukho sisisombululo! Yiba ngesondo wakho omthandayo. It is sex Ayikho enye ekuphakamiseni izinga nolonwabo ekhulwini ezilikhulu. Kwaye kukho enye indlela ukufumana ukukhululwa elungileyo zamadlala kwabasetyhini - abakhulelweyo. Ngexa lokukhulelwa, yavelisa abaninzi hormone ulonwabo, yaye ifikelela incopho yawo kanye ukuzalwa. Kodwa ke kukho enye ethile - inqanaba buyehla xa ukukhanya kuvela itakane, yaye emva koko uya kufumana Kukudandatheka. Kodwa ukuze njani ukususa ngayo kwaye kuphuculwe umgangatho iiendorphin, nto zikhankanywe ngasentla.

Ulonwabo - oko lixesha emangalisayo ebomini wonke umntu, esenokuba enye ngomzuzwana, kwaye ubomi obude. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ulonwabo ibisoloko kunye nathi. Oku ifomula sempumelelo. ndokufunela phi ulonwabo? Ujonga macala kwaye jonga, kwaye sisingise ukuyifumana.