Ingxaki enkulu ubungakanani obuncinane - uloyiko zabantwana

Kutheni abantu besoyika? Lo mbuzo kuthathelwa ingqalelo buciko, yaye ezithile. Uloyiko - eqhelekileyo xa ufunyansiwe ukuba kwiimeko ezibangela ezifuna vivo eliphezulu. Ngelo xesha xa kwinqanaba ngokweemvakalelo, siye sizive uloyiko kwinqanaba komzimba kokuba owenziwe eziliqela ngeendlela, ukulungiselela umzimba wethu ukuya isisongelo kunokwenzeka. Yonke le mvelo olulungiswe nezona nkcukacha zincinci, kwaye ngoko azuze kolu hlobo sifo ngokuqinisekileyo apho. Oko kukuthi, kusebenza njengendlela yokhuselo, ukugcina kakuhle umzimba wonke. Ngoko ke nje ukuchaza: ingqiqo ka "uloyiko zingenasihlahla" ukuxhomekeka kakhulu - esoloko yonke kunxunguphala isizathu sokuba imbonakalo yakhe. Enye into kukuba le sizathu unako ngokungenasheyi zisuswe kakuhle ukuvela imvakalelo yoloyiko.

Ndiya achaze oko busengozini. ibinzana Common ukuba "sonke sivela ebuntwaneni" emehlweni abadala, kamsinya nje iimeko apho zingemnandanga. uloyiko A bantwana - oku kanye oko uhlala ienjini yomntu iminyaka emininzi, ukuba akukho ebomini. Kwaye ufumana ixhala umntwana kwi sihlandlo ethile ngenxa yesizathu, kwaye zisekelwe kumava zabo kokubona inyaniso ezingqongileyo. Umzekelo, uloyiko eziphakamileyo zinokuba ukusilela ngexesha imenyu yokoyika yobumnyama - ekubeni ebuthongweni embi, bephelelwa - ukusuka kwindawo kakubi oyimisele pryatok (iKhabhinethi sigadla). Konke oku kubonakala kwi ienjini umntwana waza waqhubeka apho ixesha elithile de nayiphi na imeko xi ayiyi koyika ukuba bazibonakalise sisebenza ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uloyiko zabantwana wabethelela yi abadala. Ezi obungunaphakade "Musa - obozhzhoshsya", musa ukuhamba - uwe "njl ukwakha ekufumaneni umntwana syndrome kwindawo niziintshaba kwaboyikayo - ngoko- oluthembekileyo, kuba ilumkisa ingozi. Abantwana sinjani ukwesaba ngelixa ebukele umabonakude, kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba olungalawulwayo kwi "shooter" igrah-, yaye xa ndiphulaphule abadala bethetha ngeengozi zehlabathi ngaphandle.

Le ndlela yokugqibela yi umhlaba ochumileyo uphuhliso iziganeko ezifana uloyiko lwentlalo. Oku Ukwacinga malunga amaxabiso ukufukuka, ukwandisa inani abagrogrisi, izibonelelo nedovyplat, ukwanda kokungazinzi jikelele ubomi. Ukwesaba zentlalo Russian sele ihamba ibe psychosis mass - kuba ukuba umntu uthi ukuba wenza kakuhle, ngoko nangoko nazhivot iqela iintshaba, ayikwazi maxesha izinto azihambi kakuhle. uloyiko Social aphazamisane kuphuhliso eqhelekileyo oluntu, ukwakha abemi babe sengqondo ukuzithethelela. Dala ixhala ekuhlaleni igalelo eendaba, mhlawumbi ke kuwatya kubavoti yayenzekile ubomi abadumileyo (kwaye ucinge kutheni umntu esempilweni uphela Ungakhathazeki malunga iinkcukacha kakuhle ubomi bomntu, kuba ngumphambukeli ngokupheleleyo?), Okanye zibaliselane amabali eyoyikekayo uhlobo lolwaphulo-mthetho ezenzeka ngokuphindelela isimanga kwizikhewu ethu lakubo. Apha yaye ukulungele ukoyika kwezentlalo: kwisitrato alunako ukuphuma - kukho ulwaphulo-mthetho eqinileyo; baphile kakuhle nje ezimbalwa, kodwa thina phakathi kwabo, ukuze yonke into esiyibonayo okubi yaye kuyimfuneko ukuba silinde kuvuthelwa elandelayo ukusuka kwekamva.

Kwaye konke oku ubuhle: Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo izinto, uloyiko zentlalo zivela kwinto yokuba abadala zibizwa ngokuba "uloyiko abantwana." Kufuneka wenze ntoni, ukuba sele unayo?

Okokuqala, ukudala eliphilayo bume esempilweni friendly zombini abadala kunye nabantwana ngokufanayo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba afunde amaphephandaba (I sithetha ngalo kodwa, uNjingalwazi Preobrazhensky - khumbula ukuba "Intliziyo Dog"). Ndikholelwe, iindaba kunye nani eli hlabathi ezinkulu baya kufunda njalo - una- wekhusi iindaba elifutshane, i-Internet, ekugqibeleni, abamelwane! Kodwa inshorensi wena ukuba atye isixa esikhulu ulwazi olungeyomfuneko ezothusayo. Kwakhona, icebo lokucoca kufuneka sibekwe kwi TV: iindaba ulwaphulo-mthetho, iinkqubo inkundla - hayi ukubona umntu esempilweni. Kwaye uya kulawula xa kwikhaya lakho indlela engqondweni (! Kangangoko kunokwenzeka, Kakade), uzinzo kunye nokwanda iimvakalelo ezintle, uloyiko baqala baleka - azikuthandi imeko elungele kuphuhliso ubuntu iyavisisana yonke. Kwaye isixhobo esinye ngaphezulu ukulwa uloyiko buchazwa kakuhle kwincwadi ethi "Harry Potter": ukuba woyike into, uyabahleka kuyo - nabantwana, le ndlela isebenza nge-95% (ipesenti eseleyo - iimeko zonyango). Ngoko ke ehleka, manenekazi! Smile!