Indlela zicele mtshato?

Njengoko umthetho, kwiimeko xa inqanawa ntsapho sendela, abantu bakufumanisa kunzima soyise ezi mvakalelo. Kwakhona, bambalwa abantu bazi nantoni lwezomthetho inkqubo-mtshato. Fumana eyona ndlela leyo enokubangela ukuba ukusombulula ingxaki enzima ukunceda igqwetha zobungcali, kunye eli nqaku liza kubalaselisa ezinye iinkalo malunga nobhaliso kwaye kufakwa ibango for umtshato.

Indlela elula ngokusesikweni kuyasa ubuhlobo benu ukuba ndibhenele-arhente rejista. Apho ezingagrogrisa kakuhle-ntle abantwana okanye abantu bakwazi ukuba bavumelane ukwahlulwa kwepropati, inkundla bafaka ibango zokuchithwa umtshato.

Ukuba indoda nomfazi awakhe wahlulelana yedwa, akazange abe nexesha lokuba ubomi ngokuhlangeneyo ukuba babe nabantwana okanye abantwana babo babe abadala, isiqinisekiso soqhawulo-mtshato amaqabane zangaphambili bafumana ngaphandle tape okungeyomfuneko ebomvu kumbutho omnye ukuba irejista umtshato. Ikhondo eliqhelekileyo inkqubo kukuba amaqabane zangaphambili ngokudibeneyo wakhonza isicelo-mtshato, eyabangumzekelo apho kwi kuNobhala zincwadi wesithili. inyanga enye emva kokungeniswa kwesicelo, indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka beze kwakhona kwaye uqinisekise isigqibo sakho. Le ncwadi-yobhaliso iya kwenza ungenelo olungqamelanayo, yaye ngamnye uya kufumana ikopi isiqinisekiso soqhawulo-mtshato.

Noko ke, maxa, nkqu ezininzi ezibonakala iimeko ezilula iingxaki ezingalindelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, omnye wabalingane, ngomlomo yokuveza imvume kwabo umtshato, enyanisweni kuphambuka amaphepha esemthethweni. Kulo mzekelo, akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle ungenelelo lentendelezo.

Isuti ye mtshato - ubhaliso

Ukuba igqwetha, ukuze aphumeze kakuhle onke amaxwebhu uze ugcine ixesha lobuqu, kungcono ukuba uqhagamshelane ligqwetha. Uya kukuxelela malunga awohluke inkqubo yeengxoxo mtshato kwimeko yakho ngamnye yaye iya kunceda ubhale isuti omhle mtshato, umfuziselo yayo nayiphi na iingcebiso zomthetho. Kubalulekile ukwazi indawo awayehlala iqabane ngexesha lokufaka. Isenzo umtshato uye kulawulo lwezobulungisa lwengingqi, nto leyo ithetha ukuba kufuneka abe khona xa entendelezweni yesithili apho ummangalelwa ahlala. Nangona kukho iimeko ezizodwa, kuthathelwa ingqalelo into yokuba lo mthetho uvumela ukuba ifake amaphepha komtshato kwindawo yokuhlala lommangali. Umzekelo: ummangalelwa wagwetywa ukuba isigwebo seminyaka emithathu-ngaphezu okanye wafumana yanto, ukuba ummangali ohlala abantwana, ngokunjalo kwezinye iimeko. Ukuba abo batshatayo uyakwazi bavumelane kuyo namnye kubo abantwana bahlala elizayo kunye umyalelo wentlawulo yemivuzo, banelungelo lokuba ifayile ekhoyo kwinkundla-mtshato, kwakunye Yokubhala kwisivumelwano nendlela yokunxibelelana umntwana. Eso isivumelwano kufuneka ngokusesikweni kwaye xa omnye wabazali ayithandabuze into yokuba emva komtshato, akayi kuyiphazamisa ekuphumezeni amalungelo asemthethweni lwabazali. Loo xwebhu amiliswe ngaphakathi kwinkqubo kunye kubameli ezingezizo ezenkundla. Ukuba imiqathango yesivumelwano akayi kubulawa emva komtshato, kuyenzeka ukuba ukuphumeza ukuthotyelwa ngokusebenzisa iinkundla.

Kuthekani ukuba indoda okanye umfazi akafuni umtshato?

Akusoloko umnqweno ukumisa ubudlelwane yosapho efanayo. Xa engekho kokuba kungokuvumelana ukuba ibango sokuqhawula umtshato umtshato inganikezelwa kwaye usebenzise unilaterally. Ekuqwalaseleni Kwiimeko ezinjalo, inkundla kufuneka wanelisekile ukuba kuqhutyekwe ubomi joint nzima ngenene, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno kuphela indoda nomfazi, kodwa abantwana kuqala. Kuthathelwa ingqalelo zonke iimeko, inkundla linakho ukuyichitha umtshato, elinye iingxoxo ngenjongo kuluxolelaniso amaqabane, okanye ukuphika ibango.