Indlela ukuxelela ukuba umqhathile guy?

Enyanisweni, zonke iisayikholojisti ngazwi linye ndivakalisa ukuba akukho imvakalelo etshabalalisayo ngaphezu nekhwele. Kwaye phambi abanomdla umbuzo ka ukwazi njani ukuba lomfo u bakhohlisa, kufuneka ukubheka ngaphakathi wena, "na Ufuna?" Ngapha koko, xa kwimeko impendulo elincumisayo Ibhinqa elindele ukuba eyoyikekayo, maxa wambi ukhetho nzima phakathi ikratshi kunyathelwa kwaye uzive ubunini lowo ngesandla kunye nolwalamano lothando - phezu kwezinye. Kodwa xa sinomnqweno inyaniso zinkulu kakhulu, apha ezinye iindlela ikuxelela ukuba ngokufumanisa ukuba babepasa nokuba kwi mfo okanye unqulo ethembekile.

Email - oncedisayo ogqibeleleyo

Phantse wonke umntu namhlanje inophawu yeposi ngekhompyutha, yaye akukho namnye. Olu uhlobo isekelwe phezu ukusetyenziswa kwe-e-mail - indlela elula yokufumana njani ukuba isoka lakho umqhathile lweholide okanye iqela. Ukuze ufumane impendulo kulo mbuzo yokuthuthumbisa umphefumlo, wena nje kufuneka ufumane ngokwakho enye ye-imeyile mfihlakalo. Ukuba cwaka ngayo, nkqu kunye nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni - ngubani owaziyo ukuba bakwazi ukuba ukufunda ngomnqweno wakho khangela oyithandayo? Ngoko ke, omnye ngokuhlwa, ukuba isicelo onyuliweyo, weza phantsi umbuzo, i-imeyile ngale Umxholo: "ndisakhumbula ngexesha lokugqibela sadibana ... Kwaye wena?" Okanye "miss kakhulu izandla zenu namehlo, makhe Masidibane?" Ukuba umfana kuqhuba incoko, musa xelela nantoni na malunga umyalezo intombi yakhe, ngoko ke i-50% esinokulifumana isandla sakhe yaba ukungcatshwa wokwenene, yaye ukunqaba ithuba enjalo, nawo nencasa.

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Ke ukuba ndithe kwindodana leyo akukho ikhompyutha, akukho Internet? Isimanga, kodwa olu khetho kungathatha indawo. Indlela ukukhangela mfo kutshintsho kule meko? Kulungile, inzima, kodwa kuyenzeka! Kuyimfuneko ukuba athenge ikhadi elitsha leSIM, cela umntu okanye ngokwawo ukutshintsha ilizwi lakho uze wenze ibe ucingo no kunikezo ukuhlangabezana. Ngasekupheleni kwexesha revnivitse elimisiweyo kufuneka 'eme kwisithuba, "khon' ukuze babe nako ukubukela ekufikeni kwakhe. Ngoko ke wazi njani ukuba mfo ukukopela kuwe, ngokupheleleyo awukwazi kuba kule meko, intombazana sabuya sabonakala ubuncinane kunokwenzeka ukuba ukubala ukuba ulutsha umnqweno benze ubuqhophololo ezinjalo.

Iimpawu ukungathembeki oyindoda

Ngaba kuba apha uluhlu yonke imiqondiso akhomba yokungathembeki eyindoda. Makabe kuzixhalabisa abantu abaselula ekungekho ezinxulumene ngomtshato kunye nokugcina ikhaya eqhelekileyo. Yintoni, ke, ezi mpawu?

1. Ukutshintsha umfana ukuyenza inkangeleko yakhe.
2. Ukutshintsha abacinga ngayo, malunga intombi yakhe emi mbi (inattention: yena ngaphantsi ixesha echithwa naye, ngokufuthi ukubonakalisa, cwaka, izipho intsimbi kuboniswa ngaphantsi yaye baba ngaphantsi umdla), kwaye ukuba ngcono (ingqalelo ngakumbi njengoko ekulweni ukuziva unetyala).
3. Ukutshintsha imikhwa kunye nembeko.
4. Rhoqo iintlanganiso ezingenziwanga ngeengxaki zengqesho emsebenzini okanye uhambo ukuya uhambo, wayengekho apho ngaphambili.

Kodwa ke waziva yiMDC, ayisoloko ikhefu elibukhali off lobudlelwane. Ngapha koko, le ndoda - ukuba isithembu, bafuna ukubonisa ukubaluleka kwabo kuloo ukoyiswa nabanye abafazi. Ngoko ke, le ndlela engcono na impikiswano, na enokuthi ikhokelele komsipha, kwaye utshintsho ngokwalo. Mhlawumbi kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kwimbonakalo yabo, ukuze ihlabathi yakhe ngaphakathi, ukuba babe nomtsalane, umdla, ngomdla. Okanye nje - ukutshintsha wena ngokupheleleyo! Yiba wavele evela blonde, esuka "botanichki-ezigqwesileyo umfundi" uNothozamile - vamp abaveza kokutshaya - Ukutshaya Amagumbi, ka okuchwayitha, kunye nokudlala - filosofiney oluziindleko kuye ... Makhe bhetele uya kwaphula intloko yakho phezu izizathu zokuba intombi yakhe yatshintsha ngesiquphe!