Indlela ukuba ube yinkokeli. Amanyathelo ukuba impumelelo kuqala

Ukuba unayo umnqweno ukuba ube yinkokeli, ngoko Kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ekubeni ubunkokeli sele elungiselwe ienjini yethu. Musa ukukholwa ndim? Ubuncinane, ngoko thetha iisayikholojisti, kubhaliwe kwathiwa kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo Psychology Impumelelo. Oku usixelela iBhayibhile. Sele kwisahluko sokuqala, enikelwe lingekadalwa ihlabathi, ithi umntu wadalwa ukuze alawule nempumelelo ehlabathini.

Qhubeka ukufunda, uya kufunda malunga amanyathelo okuqala benkokeli elizayo, malunga nendlela ukuba ube yinkokeli kwinkampani, noko ukuqala milo enjalo. Kakade omnye akakho ulwazi ngokwaneleyo. Le ngxaki kukusilela kungekuphela nje kolwazi kwiinkalo ezithile zobomi, kodwa kungekho isicelo sezi ngcebiso. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu nokuba ucinga ukuba wazi zonke ukufunda kwaye uzibuze ukuba wakha akazange ugqibe izinto ezilula ezinjalo.

Noko ke, abanye bethu ngamanye amaxesha, efana kumzekeliso kaYesu, apho imbewu iza phezulu ngokukhawuleza kanye njengokuba ngokukhawuleza siyaphela. Ukuba unomdla ngokwenene njani ukuba ube yinkokeli, yiba nomonde. Ukuba iziphumo ezihle aqinisekisiwe. kakuhle kakhulu ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuze bafundise abantwana babo ukuba bazalwa kwiinkokheli kulo mhlaba. Kukho incwadi elungileyo, "Encyclopedia ukuba amakhwenkwe", "Encyclopedia for girls", nto leyo wabancina umbuzo - njani ukuba ube yinkokeli.

kunikwa ingqwalasela kufuneka udelyaetsya ingqondo zabantu abatsha. Sele kwisahluko sokuqala Encyclopedia ukuba amakhwenkwe ebizwa "Indlela ube playboy." Xa ibinzana elithi "playboy" kule meko uthetha:

• umfana banembeko.
• Silk.
• Enomtsalane.
• ngokomzimba.
• Eziphambili.

Kwaye lo mfana kufuneka abe namasu, ukrelekrele yaye elungileyo izinto ezihlekisayo. Kakade ke, lo guy kulula ukuba abe yinkokheli nayiphi na inkampani. Oku kulandelwa iingcebiso ukutya, izindululo umzimba kunye ikarati, uphuhliso ingqondo, self-care, njalo njalo.

Ngoko ke, njani ukuba ube yinkokeli nanini na ubudala? Mhlawumbi kukho iprogram ukuba unako ukulandela ukuze uphumelele? Oko kulungile, kukho indlela ethile yaye akukho namnye. Nje ukhumbule ukuba ukongeza ulwazi oluyimfuneko nesicelo zazo zepraktikhali, kwaye ke kufuneka bonke aphume.

I "Indlela ukuba ube yinkokeli," kungekhona kakhulu kwaye kulula, kodwa kule meko umvuzo mkhulu. Oko ukwenza: Okokuqala, kufuneka wenze isigqibo ukuba yintoni na oyifunayo. Ngokomzekelo, ndandidla zibonisa ukuba iinjongo ezinjalo:

• Ukuze azalisekise ikamva lakhe.
• Kokuba bazive bezithembile eluntwini.
• Ukuze kufikelelwe kwimpumelelo esithile kuyo nayiphi inkalo umsebenzi, njalo njalo.

Inyathelo elilandelayo kukuba ukugcina idayari impumelelo yabo kunye uloyiso. Ngaloo ndlela hlengisa ingqondo ienjini ukudala inkqubo entsha - inkqubo yobunkokheli. Eli nyathelo kwakhona i unendlela ebalaseleyo yokukhulisa nokuzixabisa. Enyanisweni, ukuba ube yinkokeli nokuba ke, xa uqala ukuphumeza ezi ngcebiso.

Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo abantu abanomdla kakhulu kwindlela ukuba ube yinkokeli yile: ukutshintsha indawo yenu! Ewe, bakholelwa ukuba ibinzana elithi: 'Ukwazi ngubani abahlobo bakho, ndiyazi mna ndingubani na ", oko phantsi isiseko esiqinileyo. Qala ukwenza abahlobo kunye neenkokeli ebomini, chitha ixesha kwindawo yabo kwaye uya kubona ukuba senze utshintsho ebomini bakho akayi kuba kade ivele.

Xa bengqondo, kukho nkqu gama ezifana "Mbumbulu zezakhono." Abantu abaphumelelayo, iinkokheli kukunceda amacebiso aluncedo, ezinye iingcebiso eziphathekayo.

Icebiso ilandelayo kukuba uqale ukwenza into! Indlela ukuba ube yinkokeli, elele phezu kwesingqengqelo? Ewe ndlela! Kufuneka uthathe uxanduva, ukwenza imisebenzi ethile. Mhlawumbi lifikile ixesha lokuba ukumisa ishishini lakho? Okanye mhlawumbi unayo umnqweno inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yasekuhlaleni? Kaloku, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane ikuba, nto leyo uzive ngathi inkokeli, inkokeli.

Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukwenza indlela ekhethekileyo yobomi, ukuhlalutya izenzo zabo, amazwi, amandla kunye nobuthathaka. Xelisa izakhono zabantu abaphumeleleyo, iinkokheli kunye bakholelwa ukuba sele ungomnye wabo. ithamsanqa!