Ikratshi and Ucalucalulo: qhinga ubomi osisiyatha

Yeyona igama imisebenzi elungileyo uncwadi IsiNgesi kuphela. Le isihloko sisifo yoluntu, kwaye ezi zifo ecaleni kwenye, waba bekusenzeka rhoqo kuluntu lwethu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nokuba kwinqanaba ukuthandana, singathanda ukuba ucingo ngokwabo angabikho umntu. Ikratshi ne Ucalucalulo ilinywa uluntu kunye nesimo sengqondo kwakhiwa. Kodwa, nokuba abantu bonwabile ukuba baye nokuqukuqela lube ngakumbi kwaye snobbish ngakumbi?

Okokuqala, makhe sithethe ngoko ikratshi. Ikratshi akulolize kuthathwa ukuba ibe yeyona ezoyikekayo isono ofayo. Kutheni wafumana kwisithathu zezulu ikhokelwa yi ULusifa abe izidalwa kuyoyikisa? Hayi ngenxa yokuba bethanda bona, ukuzeyisa uthando bendalo eqhelekileyo yonke indalo. Eneneni ukuba bashiya ngenxa kuThixo. UThixo ukuba inqanaba priori eliphezulu. Oko kukuthi, bayeka i "review peer". Kwaye bona babengakwazi ukwenza yonakele.

Masithi ubona umntu oza kungena kwinkqubo, umzekelo, iqela umsebenzi erivaleni utsho ukuba yingqondi, waphi naye 'ukukhanyisa, "yaye imithetho jikelele engabhalwanga. Kuya kude kube nini kuhlala kule nkqubo? Akunjalo, inkqubo kukucekisa, ukuba asebenze ngaphambili okanye emva agxothwe. Ingongoma ukuba yena uyixabisa gqitha into yokuba akukho mntu aqonde ulwalamano phakathi iziqalelo nkqubo. Oku emxinwa kwentliziyo likratshi gordost-.

Ucalucalulo - lazy kakhulu ukuba ndicinga ukuba uhlobo nokukhuselwa kweenkcukacha. Noko ke, ukuba ulwazi akayi kuza mali efanelekileyo, umntu akakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwaye umgangatho wayo wehlile. Ngoko ke phantsi abantu yodwa. Khumbula le "ndoda ityala." Ikratshi nekhethe ziye watshabalalisa ubomi abafundileyo kwaye ngokubanzi umntu entle.

Kakade ke, xa imizekelo ubomi lonke babungelulanga. Ikratshi Uyazifihla ngaphantsi iimaski ezahlukeneyo. Iincwadi bazama ukuba uhlakulele iimpawu ezifana "ikratshi ababhinqileyo", kubonakala ngathi, sithetha nokuzixabisa. Oko kukuthi, ixabiso. Kodwa umntu yena akanako kuhlolwa ngokwaneleyo ukumisela ixabiso abantu ukuba umntu othile okanye uluntu na omnye umntu okanye inkampani apho zovavanyo senziwa. Ukuba sikholelwa ukuba imfuneko phantsi ukuba bakhangele amanye amaqabane okanye ukutshintsha uluntu, iya nyenyisa ukuzithemba kwaye uzive ukhululekile. Umfazi xa athe akukho ithuba kokuba atshate, kodwa umtshato ukuba ube embi, kufuneka ulahle kude ikratshi uzame ukunceda intsapho yakhe.

Ucalucalulo - nto ifana lenkawu, nto leyo ibihlaba uthembele. Nayiphi ukufaka udla nzulu kangangokuba akukho kwakhona, uze udale uhlobo lwe filter labona. Akasivumeli ukuba ngokwaneleyo kwaye kakuhle nokuvavanya ihlabathi, sinako pre-kuba badla ukubona abantu ngaphandle kwimfundo kakubi ngexesha elinye, abagula ngengqondo - yingozi, namakhosikazi - ofanayo. Yinto nje iseti abasephantsi ethandwayo. Kuphela emva kokufumana amava esahlukileyo, omnye uqala kuqala ngesiquphe ukuze ubone ngokucacileyo ukuhlaziya iimbono zabo.

Ikratshi Ucalucalulo ingaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ezehlela bonke abantu, yaye musa akuxhomekekanga ubume ekuhlaleni. Kwaye phakathi kwabantu iiklasi ephezulu ezi emibi, echasene uluvo othandwayo, hayi kangako. Ingakumbi abantu abaqhelekileyo abaye Siphumeze lukhulu ngokwabo. Abanamali ukuziphatha ngebhongo, oko asibobulumko. Ngoko ke, ukuzingca nekhethe phakathi kwabo zinqabile. Ke abemi indawo odityanelweyo inokuba ujongo ekhethekileyo thina kunye nehlabathi, ikratshi lakhe - kwaye ngenxa yokuba abakwazi ukuvana.

E IsiNgesi, kukho iqhalo umdla, ngokoqobo, ikratshi uza phambi kokuwa. Kwakutheni ukuze bonke abakhukhumali zohlwaywe? Ewe, oku akusoloko ubunzima yobomi, oko kwenzeka, le lixakekile okanye lilolo. Inyaniso kukuba ngoyaba inkqubo super iphela kakubi, lo ngowona mthetho ulawula, hayi nje kuphela kweli hlabathi njongo, kodwa oluntu. Maxa wambi, yonke amava abuhlungu ifundisa ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kunye neenkqubo ngoyaba sisizuza zethu. Kwaye ke yangaphambili webhongo uxolo ekukudala ilindelwe lwengqondo, eqonda, ekugqibeleni, ikratshi nekhethe - sisifo umoya nengqondo. Abayi musa ukuvumela ukuba kumkhawulela, ukufunda kunye nothando.