Yintoni likratshi nendlela iyahluka ukusuka nekratshi?

Ngamnye wethu uyazazi izono ezisixhenxe eziyingozi. Kungakhathaliseki nokuba likholwa okanye hayi, akukho nanye iziphene akayi kuza kukhokelela ukuba nantoni na elungileyo. Kunye nomona, umsindo, nokubawa likratshi ixabisa. Abantu abaninzi siphambanise le ngcamango ngebhongo, bekholelwa ukuba akukho umahluko phakathi kwabo. Zama ukuqonda njani kwaye yintoni umahluko phakathi kwala magama mabini, ukuba umahluko inkulu. Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba yintoni ikratshi njengoko unako kuchazwe ukuba.

Ukutolikwa amagama

Ngokutsho isichazi-magama, ikratshi inokuchazwa:

1. Self-ukuzithemba, nokuzixabisa.
2. Obanelisa naliphi na inyathelo.
3. Eqolo ukuzithemba, Ikratshi nokukratsha.

Njengoko ubona, kwelinye icala, oko - yimvakalelo HIV ukuba amava umntu ngokunxulumene ngokwabo nabanye. On the enye - loo nto ingqiqo ezimbi, njengokuba umntu onekratshi uyaziphakamisa, wehlisa naleyo yabanye abantu. Ngoko ke yintoni ikratshi? Elungileyo okanye embi? Kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba wayibiza ingqondo elungileyo okanye embi? konke kuxhomekeke koko ngundoqo kombono. Ukuba le italente yabantu, umsebenzi wakhe nzima nempumelelo, ukukhukhumala kufanele. Oku kuzisa uvuyo neemvakalelo ezakhayo njengoko umntu ngokwakhe kwakunye nabanye. Kodwa ukuze wathi imvakalelo bakuththa ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngokomzekelo, amantombazana amahle badla baziphakamise na, nibadanisa abo kulo mba abangathathi ntweni. Idatha kumgangatho uhlobo akufuneki ukuba bazive ngathi nekratshi. Intsingiselo yamagama kule meko negative.

ukuqonda ezahlukileyo igama

Ingcamango efanayo ngamaxesha ahlukileyo kunokuba ukuqonda kuzo ebezintle nezo zingentle. Umzekelo iphawulekayo woku likratshi yesizwe. Kwiimeko ezininzi, le ukuziva wamkelekile. Libhekisela uthando lwabantu kunye nomsa kwilizwe labo, ukuzimisela lokukhusela izinto ezifanayo. Imbali, Noko ke, kungakhokelela imizekelo ngokufanelekileyo ngokubulawa kwale ukusetyenziswa kolu luvo eJamani imi--30-40 (ingcamango ukongama "uhlanga awongamileyo"), i-British uBukhosi ngenkulungwane ye-19 (ingcamango "umthwalo abangaziqhelanga" i) njalo njalo. Yintoni na neqhayiya kulo mzekelo, kodwa imvakalelo ukongama nabameli besizwe mnye, uhlanga phezu kwabanye? Njengoko lubonakalisiwe amava abuhlungu kwisizukulwana ezidlulileyo, oko akuthethi ukuba nantoni na elungileyo.

Ikratshi kunye nabo babekunye nalo

Intsingiselo Ikratshi nekratshi ziyafana, kodwa ke umahluko omkhulu. Kuluntu mihla, ingcamango "ikratshi" lisetyenziswa kunqabile kakhulu. It kufakwa amagama ezizalanayo: ikratshi, amabhongo, uburheletyo, amampunge, self-uthando. Ngenxa yoko, siyabona ukuba ngengqiqo yegama akukho nto positive. Mu kuya kwa nshita ikratshi, iye kombala ezimbi kuphela. Phakathi iimpawu yekratshi, sinako uqaphele: uhanahaniso, amampunge, moodiness, yenkani ikratshi. Nokungathembani, ukungabikho kolawulo, iveze, imbi-uphando, ukuzingca yozingiso. Ngaphezu koko, umntu kalula lo kufayo sono semvelo enengqondo nephuku, amabhongo, utyekelo ukuba ukugxekwa, umona ingqumbo. Unako kwakhona kubiza loo mikhwa mibi njengoko intransigence kunye nenkohlakalo, impoxo, ukulahlwa nesithethe jikelele negunya.

Yintoni ikratshi, ukukratsha into?

La magama mabini babe intsingiselo eyahlukileyo. Kwathi ngelo xesha ibe mibi ngokulinganayo. Ukuze uqonde, kufuneka wazi ukuba yintoni eyabangela iimvakalelo neminqweno ezithile:

• Ikratshi, ikratshi, uburheletyo, amampunge, ikratshi - konke oku kubonisa ukuba umntu uyakulangazelela ukufumana amandla nokudelelwa kubantu asezantsi iwonga ekuhlaleni.
• Amabhongo namabhongo iimpawu ukuba umntu uzama ngandlela zonke ukuphumeza inkqubela engakumbi leri omsebenzi.
• Indelelo, yozingiso, ukuqaqadeka, yozingiso nokuzingca zibonisa nokulungela umntu awokuya nangaliphi na iindleko, ngaphandle ujonge kwi abanye.