Iingcebiso kwi ukunxiba ngendlela usana ehlotyeni ukuba uhambe.

Emva kokuzalwa kosana kudala lilindelwe phambi ngumama mncinane, uthambile basajongene iqela lemibuzo. Njani ukuba alahleke? Kubonakala ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa wayefunda eninzi eziphathekayo, funda iincwadi luncedo kunye neemagazini, ukuphulaphula icebiso sisilumko, kodwa kwacaca phandle, eneneni, ithiyori nokwenziwayo - izinto zahluke kakhulu. Indlela ukondla usana lwakho? Indlela kwisimbo ebuthongweni bakho? Indlela ukunxiba usana ehlotyeni ukuba uhambe? Nazi iingxaki eziphambili ezikhathaza oomama abaselula.

Ukuba umntwana wakho azalwe ehlotyeni, ngoko ke kufuneka ukwazi ukunxiba njani, kangangokuba akukho lumiswa okanye, icala, musa shushu ngokugqithisileyo. Kwimeko nobushushu kungenzeka sudamen. Siqulunqwa inkqubo thermoregulatory wosana ayikaqondwa, ngoko umama kufuneka sazi ukuba indlela onxiba ngayo usana ehlotyeni ngumoya, ngoko kakuhle.

Musa ukulindela ukuba umntwana, njengoko umntu omdala, baziqhuba lakubalela, ukuba sisale ze. Kodwa kakhulu coddle kakhulu, kufuneka ukuba, emva kokuba onke, ihlobo eyadini. Iimpahla umntwana owenza imisebenzi zokhuseleko kwaye nobushushu kunye emzimbeni. Ehlotyeni kukho ingozi yokuyifumana kubanda, kwaye kukho ingozi, kwaye lishushu ilanga ide andabikho zingqondweni. UMama ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukwazi ukunxiba ngendlela usana ehlotyeni ukuba uhambe.

Kuthiwa ukuba imbono ecacileyo ngalo mba no. Wonke unina isigqibo ngokwayo oko kulungele umntwana wakhe. Kodwa bezifo kunye nabazali bayavuma ukuba iimpahla zasehlotyeni ukuba usana kufuneka zenziwe bomqhaphu, ukukhanya kakuhle nomoya. Kunqweneleka ukuba izinto eliqaqambileyo njengoko sibonisa imitha yelanga. Kubalulekile ukuba kwiblawuzi kwakungekho beentanda zangaphakathi kunye nezinto nokuhombisa, oko kukuthi kakuhle umntwana.

Musa ukuvumela izinto ukuba iqine kakhulu okanye umntwana, phezu koko, ngamandla free. Khetha iiseti ngobukhulu. Ukuze ukuba ime kwi kwigunjana kunye lonke ixesha ibuhlungu ukucinga ukuba eyona - okanye ukunqongophala ikepusi, kwiblawuzi enemikhono emide okanye elifutshane, umama oselula kufuneka ukwazi kakuhle indlela anxibe kuzalwa. Eyona nto inokwenziwa usana lwakho: Body enemikhono emifutshane okanye iseti eyodwa kwehlobo (kwiblawuzi kunye abatyibilikisi), ikepusi okanye panamochka, iikawusi. Ukuba umntwana mzimbeni mnye apholileyo, asisibeke ngengubo obhityileyo okanye ilweyile, ukuba, phezu koko, kushushu, uyakwazi ukususa le chap. Kodwa qaphela, ukuze umntwana esitratweni hayi proskvozilo intloko ngenxa ndibile. Ngoko logama nje ukuba ubunzima ukusuka ukhetho iimpahla kwaye baziva ngathi banxibe usana esitratweni, sicebisa ukuba ubeke phezu kwayo iphakheji obhityileyo kunye uhambe ukuthatha izinto ezifudumeleyo kunye ilweyile. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ndibhe-, ungasoloko utshintsha iimpahla zomntwana.

Ngoko ke, ukuba awusebenze indlela usana ehlotyeni ngumoya, wena uyazi. Enye icebiso: ukuchonga eshushu okanye ebandayo usana lwakho, ungenza khangela phezu emphethweni entanyeni. Ukuba ke ukubila - mntwana eshushu xa kubanda - kubanda kangaka. Kuthekani iikawusi kunye neminqwazi, abazali abaninzi phikisana omnye nomnye malunga nokuba banxibe kubo. Enoba kunjalo, kuyinto nje nguwe isigqibo.

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