Formation ubuntu - kumnandi!

Phakathi kwabantu abatsha ngenxa yezizathu ezithile kulindeleke ukuba umlinganiswa bomntu - yinto uhlobo engumkhenkce, kwasekwa ngoqobo kwabaNtwana abasaKhulayo.

"Le ekuthethwa wam!" - Okubuhlungu kukuba, abantu abaninzi bathi, ukubhala off kuneengxaki zawo ukuba akhuliswe ngokungafanelekanga izityholo ebuntwaneni. Bayalibala ukuba ukuyilwa umlinganiswa kwenzeka ubomi, kwaye umlinganiswa komntu akuxhomekekanga ekuzithandeleni ubuzwe okanye iimpawu yokwakheka okanye nokomzimba.

yempahla wakhe eziphembelela izenzo, ukuziphatha, Outlook, aneliseke ezininzi. Kodwa bambalwa na abo bazama ukuguqula ezi mpawu zenza ukuba ukuyilwa umlinganiswa njongo ephambili yobomi. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba umntu onwabe-gingxi, ukuba onganelisekanga rhoqo kunye naye? Ngaba umntu unako ukuphumelela, umsebenzi, okanye ukwenza i intsapho yonwabe ukuba ubuvila zabo, passivity okanye, phezu koko, ubukrwada kunye nobuhlanga, uya lunokusolwa 'umlinganiswa'?

Umsebenzi kwi kunokwenzeka yaye kuyimfuneko, kwaye ukuyilwa umlinganiswa kunzima nje kuphela, kodwa umdla kakhulu ukwenza.

Masithi umntu akayithandi nazigqibo okanye ukubawa ezendeleyo yobuntu bakhe. Ukuze ngokukhuselekileyo ukusombulula ezo (okanye nayiphi na enye) features ukwenza uphuhliso umlinganiswa uphumelele, kufuneka kuqala sihlolisise oko onika olu phawu. Wena bayathandabuza ngenxa yokuba besoyika ukuba abe kwiziko ingqalelo? Ngaba woyika ukuba ube yinkokeli? Kodwa ke amaxesha amaninzi kakhulu kuthintela impumelelo iinjongo. Ukuba kwiqokobhe ekhululekile, hayi isibindi ukuba baveze izimvo zabo okanye athathe isigqibo ezimeleyo, uyakwazi ukuhlala bonke ubomi kuphela kwabo bangenazimvo zihoyiweyo wekamva. Zama oku kanye boyise nazigqibo, kwaye uya kuqaphela ngoko nangoko siwuphucula njani na umgangatho wobomi. Ngaloo ungafumana nje kuphela, lahlani zonke iimpawu ezingafunekiyo, kodwa benza ukuyilwa umlinganiswa inkqubo umdla.

Noko ke, nje ngokuba reflection kunye nomsebenzi phezu iziphako kancinane.

Kwisigaba sesibini kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba umgangatho ngokwenene ukuba Ndimnike, enyanisweni wena azalwa. Mhlawumbi nje ibonisa uluvo ngaphandle. Eneneni, kudla ngokwenzeka ukuba nkqu intombi, efuna khangela ngempumelelo ngakumbi, badla zama ibukele abanye abantu ukuzithemba, ezikhawulezileyo isidima abanye. Ukubuzisisa? Formation ubuntu uyaqhubeka.

Ukuze wenze oku, khangela uxwebhu lwephepha kwaye ubhale phantsi omfutshane likhankanya ukuba ezo iimpawu ofuna ukuthenga. Yinto elula. "Ndifuna ukuba obunenjongo. Ndiye ndaba (a) ngenjongo (eish). Ukuba ummiselo ngeendlela ezimbini, ukwandisa ukusebenza lomsebenzi a ubukhulu becala.

Ngokubanzi, ukuyilwa psychology ubuntu, okanye mandithi bale inzululwazi kugqalwa kuyimfuneko yobomi kubantu abadala. Ngapha koko, elivisayo sele eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala bakwazi ukuhlalutya indlela yabo nezigqibo malunga nezizathu ukuphumelela okanye ukungaphumeleli. Ngoko ke, abantu ningafuni ukutshintsha ngokwabo ngenxa ngcono, ngonaphakade wanamathela xa ufikisa, abantu bangaphandle.

Zakuba utshintsho ayinqwenelayo umlinganiswa Wamitha olushicilelweyo, isigaba esilandelayo ukusebenza phezu komnye.

Khawucinge uTshawe, ababefuna ukuba njengaye. Sisisebenzise kunye ndlebe ngengqondo, cela ukuba babelane ngamava abo, zabo iimpawu umlinganiswa. Mna, kuba mnye, ayiphucukanga kakhulu yiForrest Gump. Ukungazi (ngenxa babenobuchule) ukuba impumelelo nzima kakhulu, wenza kanye oko wayecinga ukuba kuyimfuneko. Ngaphandle kokuthandabuza okanye kwamathandabuzo. Kwaye eye kakhulu ngaphezu bakuthi bakhe kuphuhliswa ngengqondo.

Yinkalo yokugqibela umsebenzi wakho uya kuba nzima, uya kuhlala ixesha elide. Ngapha koko, umlinganiswa - lo imikhuba efanayo. Kwaye ukuba bahlukane nemikhwa emibi, kuyimfuneko ukujongana nawo. Siya kusetyenziswa ukuba pick up iqhekeza kakhulu esimnandi wena? Ulunike omnye umntu. Uthando ukuba kuzilungiselela njengoko uninzi ezikrelekrele kwi-ofisi? Esidlangalaleni Ndilidumise nezakhono yakhe asebenza. Ukoyika ukuvakalisa uluvo? Cinga isisombululo ozvuchte neyakhayo le ngxaki. Makhe oko akuyi kuba kulungile. Kodwa akusayi kuba nendawo mouse bubugwala, uya kuqwalaselwa. Ngaba woyika ukuba uqhelane? Yenzani kwi ungowasemzini, zama ukuthetha naye.

Qhubekha, yaye emva kweeveki ezimbalwa ubomi bakho buya kuba mhlophe ngokuba ukugcwaliswa ngakumbi.