BDSM. Ziqonde izifinyezo. Imigaqo BDSM

Wonke umntu namhlanje ijongene ngokuqinisekileyo kunye umba sadomasochism kwaye mhlawumbi Kulisikizi ukukhankanywa zokuziphatha zesini engaqhelekanga. inkcubeko BDSM kugqalwa amaziko ebalulekileyo lugonyamelo, ubunyhukunyhuku kunye nenkanuko, kodwa ngaba yinyani? Ukuba ngenene baseburhulumenteni besazi le subculture?

Yintoni BDSM?

kusetyenziswe ezinye zokuziphatha zesini isoloko wamqonda, ingakumbi phantsi kwempembelelo nemfundiso yonqulo ebekwe ngumntu ongaziwayo naxa amaxabiso. Ukungaqondi kunye kwaliwa kazulu abachaphazelekayo inkcubeko BDSM. Ziqonde izifinyezo yile ilandelayo: yangamakhoboka kulo, Ingqeqesho, inkohlakalo Masochism, bona bubonakala "band, ingqeqesho, inkohlakalo, masochism". Enyanisweni akunjalo ukhetho khowudi yasiwa kumbhalo kuphela - ngokuxhomekeke ukuqonda isigama lempucuko, kwakunye izilangazelelo zobuqu kunye ozikhethayo, abalandeli BDSM atolike isihloko ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukutolikwa elithi "yobukhoboka 'inokuba kakuhle isandi, yaye ngeendlela ezimbini: oonobumba D no C likwathetha ingcamango sengqondo" salo "yaye" nibalulamele "apho i-" ngumqolo "inkcubeko BDSM.

Ingcamango kolwalamano BDSM

Ukuva le BDSM ungayiqondiyo, abantu abaninzi ngobungqola uzoba uhlobo lady nekrwada kwi latex kunye isabhokhwe, kodwa wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba le modeli iquka ubudlelwane azikho ubundlobongela nje engamampunge nxamnye naye, yaye enzonzobila, kwiimeko ezininzi, ulwalamano oluhle. Ewe, abalandeli ezininzi BDSM atshate aze aphile intsapho eqhelekileyo, kwezinye iimeko, bade ukwala imodeli ulwalamano BDSM wakhetha omnye yemveli.

Enyanisweni, lo njongo iphambili inkohlakalo kunye masochism ayikho le nto iphambili BDSM. Ingcaciso kubonisa S & M njengoko omnye kuphela mpawu nezakhono atshize amandla ngokwesondo. Kakhulu ubudlelwane nzulu bunokubonwa ungumzekelo 'ezibalaseleyo-nibalulamele ". Kwakhona, le buhlobo akwakhelwa ukuthotywa "Saba" rhoqo, injongo yabo akazibekanga-Kuluvo kwi ngeendleko eligunya phezu iqabane. Sizithobe nokudluliswa ngokuzithandela onke amalungelo "ekhaya" bakhe ubomi, ngaloo ndlela ubonisa intlonelo enkulu, uthando kunye nokuthembela kwiqabane lakho.

Ziqonde nema BDSM unika kuphela ukuqonda befunda Noko ke oko oxhasa i lempucuko,, xa sijonga le imodeli ubudlelwane phakathi 'ikhaya "yaye" subwoofer ", ingalandwa trends ngendlela yothando. Lo msebenzi ukuba ukubeka uxinzelelo phezu "Saba" elibalaseleyo, kodwa kukunceda ukuba uqonde ebomini ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko eliphezulu kobunzima ukuluphatha nanjengamntu undithatha njengesihlobo oluqhelekileyo onothando. Sizithobe kufuneka ngokukweka tshemba, amve "eliphezulu", eqonda ukuba ukulungele okuhle kuphela. La mabini ukwazi kakuhle oko bebanye. Ekhonyayo uziva inoxanduva "bottom", nevuthisayo, yena uzama ukwenza ubomi "phezulu" kangangoko kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye kube mnandi. Ukuba lubalaseleyo - umntu, ucinga, kungekhona nokuba buhlobo hlobo Ufuna wonke umfazi? It is a eyakhelwe phezu sithembele ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuvuleleka, apho omabini amaqabane ndivakalelwa kukuba omnye komnye. Le ndoda - umniniyo, loo mdlali nomncedisi - ayikho ukuba wonke umfazi Ofuna? Le ntwazana ophembelela, ixhasa kwaye uyakuphulaphula - Akuyomfuneko ukuba wonke umntu?

Kakade ke, kukho ezinye iindawo sesikweni ngokwenene BDSM. Intsingiselo iquka ingqikelelo inkohlakalo kunye masochism, kwaye ezi ndlela adla zisetyenziswa sisohlwayo kokuba yenze "Saba", okanye nje nje sex fun. Noko ke, nalapha, esazi umlinganiselo kunye umbekela imithetho ecacileyo, uyakwazi ukubona romance, kuba zonke intombazana ofuna ukuba ngokupheleleyo umntu endalo BDSM kwaye kakhulu ezinqabileyo ngeendlela zakwaNtu, apho kukho ukungathembani, uhanahaniso zengqondo etshabalalisayo yabalinganiswa bayasokola.

Imigaqo ezisisiseko BDSM

Abantu abaninzi baqhelene ne, yaye ukuba zokucazulula esoqobo BDSM, oko kungacacanga kakhulu, njengoko nkampani ikholelwa ukuba abalandeli bale subculture ugula ngengqondo kwaye abadinga ungenelelo ngoncedo lonyango uncipha. Ngelishwa, le mbono ixhaphake ehlabathini lonke ngenxa kwinqanaba eliphantsi erudition abantu kunye ntetho wazo yolwazi evela zosasazo.

Kukho imigaqo ezintathu ezisisiseko, wabhekisela yezoKhuseleko ungayiqondiyo, elandelwa ngabantu bonke "abalandeli 'of BDSM. Ziqonde ukuba ilula: ukhuseleko, engqondweni, ngokuzithandela. Njengoko ubona, BDSM ngeseshoni ukuba zisetyenziswa ubudlelwane BDSM, unengqiqo kakhulu nekhuselekileyo omabini amaqabane. Makhe sihlolisise umgaqo nganye ngokweenkcukacha.

Umgaqo zokhuseleko

Lo mgaqo esisiseko mababakhokelele kwamagumbi (zimbini) in BDSM. Ziqonde ngayo: zonke abaphezulu kufuneka bazazi iziseko komzimba, amayeza, amalungu, physics kanye chemistry ukuya flegallyatsiya kunye nezinye iindlela BDSM bakhuselekile impela ukuba i "bottom". Njengoko ubona, ukuba babe 'kumgca isihloko, "kufuneka ivenkile enkulu ulwazi kunye nezakhono, ukwenzela ukuba buhlungu iqabane lakho.

Umgaqo ingqondo

Kwakhona ingqiqo ebaluleke kakhulu BDSM, xabiso lazo elo ke, kunokuba nzima ukuze ubone. ingqondo siseko uthi ukuba lo mkhwa kufuneka ibe kuphela ezo ndlela apho omabini amaqabane zazi kakuhle, kungenjalo kunokukhokelela imiphumo ebuhlungu. Nayiphi mvakalelo isitampu ngokugqithiseleyo, lo mgaqo kufuneka kusoloko kuqala.

ukuzikhethela

Lo mgaqo usebenza kakhulu ngoncedo lwamagama stop. "Lower" idlulisela ngokuzithandela ilungelo ukuze banqande yena kunye, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba i "top" angenza nantoni na ayifunayo. Zonke iindlela elungileyo logama nje awuyolise ukuba omabini amaqabane, kungenjalo iseshoni BDSM ezingenza abe ubundlobongela basekhaya banal. Misa igama kunceda ukuba "ngaphantsi" ukwenza kucace ukuba "inkosi" yakhe, ukuba umda sele kufikelelwe kuzo kwaye ngoku lixesha lokuba ayeke.

Misa-igama kunye nentsingiselo yalo e BDSM

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, igama stop isiqinisekiso sokuba "bottom" aziyi phantsi kubundlobongela ngokuzenzekelayo. Kukho izimvo eziliqela malunga amagama stop kwi BDSM: ziqonde ukuba ezinye ithetha uphawu ukuba kufuneka ayeke, kodwa le ndlela engalunganga malunga "bottom".

Ukutolikwa kuphela amagama ngendlela eyiyo stop ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: oko, "eliphezulu" kufuneka ngoko nangoko zonke izenzo CM kunye ukukhulula ngokupheleleyo i "asezantsi". Ukuba wenza umzekelo enemibala, lo gama i-analogue le inkuku stop kuloliwe, kunokuba isicelo ngentlonelo ukuze sime, kuba nokuba i "eliphezulu" ukholelwa ukuba sigcine kusasa, iqabane lakhe ukuba izimvo ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo, yaye oko kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo.