Yintoni umtshato iqela eRashiya. Group umtshato kuluntu bakudala

Ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni usapho na? Kulungile, oku iseli kuluntu. Akukho sizwe oluphucukileyo ayikho ngaphandle ukudala intsapho eyomeleleyo. Ikamva loluntu ayikho ngaphandle kwayo.

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Makhe sijonge ubudlelwane phakathi ingqiqo ka "intsapho" yaye "umtshato". La magama mabini ezibalulekileyo kwenzeka ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo zembali. Umtshato a imilo ekuguquleni ubudlelwane ezithe zenzeka phakathi umfazi nendoda. Nale fomu yoluntu silawula ubomi ngesondo, kodwa icwangcisa, imisebenzi lwabazali yomtshato kunye namalungelo. Intsapho kuthatha indlela nobunzima kakhulu yonxulumano: oko inomsebenzisi ukudibanisa kuphela indoda nomfazi, kodwa abantwana kunye babo, kwakunye nezalamane. Kunye ekuphuhliseni uluntu kunye nosapho kuphuhliswa phantsi kwempembelelo iimeko zentlalo nezoqoqosho.

Nakule yonke yoluntu watshintsha iintlobo ezininzi kangaka yolawulo ulwalamano lwentlalo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Enoba yintoni na, zonke zihambelana kunye neemeko zoqoqosho kunye nezentlalo. Xa ixesha elide eyadlulayo , abantu bakudala babehlala uhlobo njengongekho iintlobano zesini, ngokuba ayisekho yonke imithetho nezithintelo. Baye zadalwa kamva. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezi amaqhina ziye ukuphazamisa ubomi babantu kwakudala. Xa presociety wabonakala byi: nokuba ukulungela rhoqo kunye nokufa, okanye ukulungela elibujikele ukubuyela endala, ixhomekeke ngakumbi ngobume bendalo. Ngoko ke, ukuze yokunqanda wemvelo yesini isilwanyana esinjalo, baza baqalisa ukuyila nemimiselo entsonkothileyo. Ezi inyala baye banceda abantu bakudala ukuzigcina ngaphakathi sikhokelo lusekiwe.

La madoda namabhinqa ngaphandle iintlobano zesini phakathi kwezalamane (abazali kunye nabantwana). Oku ozakuthathwa umda kwimbali phakathi kwabantu phambi komtshato, xa ubomi babo ngesondo kuxhomekeke kuphela neemvakalelo zendalo, kwaye emva kokuba utshatile, xa nomdla kumntu wesini esahlukileyo babonakaliswa kuphela entsatsheni. Kwaye kwaba nzima ukuba imngene oodade ukuba atshate umzalwana okanye uyise. Kuye kwamiselwa umlomo engqongqo.

Ifomu entsha yonxulumano

Nangona kunjalo, kunye nokufika utshintsho eluntwini, xa baqalisa ukuba imilo kunye uhlobo isizwe, kwavela iqela umtshato. Olu uhlobo lobudlelane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi awayefuna ukuthintelwa iintlobano zesini phakathi kwintsapho kwakudala. It wavunyelwa ukuba angene qhagamshelana kuphela kunye nabameli bezinye wesizwe. Loo ban kuthiwa ngokwenzululwazi "exogamy." Kwaye abanye abaphandi kunika ingcaciso ngendlela eyayingekaphuhli abantu beze kule.

1. Ezizweni apho neentlobano zesini kwenzeka phakathi zonke izalamane kwanto, waqalisa ukuba avele ekukhanyeni abantwana nabakhubazekileyo.
2. Abantu ayikwazanga lokudla kuphela omnye nomnye, xa kwakukho nezinye izizwe. Kwakufuneka ukuba kuza wadibana ngokwesondo kunye nabameli ngohlobo olwahlukileyo, ukuze kuphuhliswe ngakumbi.
3. Inye kuphela indlela onokufikelela imvisiswano noxolo ngaphakathi ngokwezizwe zabo, ngokuba kuthambekela ngokwemvelo kudla kakhulu ukumqumbisa ungquzulwano olukhulu phakathi ngokwesini ngendlela efanayo.

Kwenzeka ntoni?

Iqela hlobo umtshato mhlawumbi ngenxa yezi zizathu kunye apho. Kodwa Iimanyano abanjalo kukhokelela ekudalweni iintsapho. Kwenzeka ukuba abantwana eqhelekileyo, oko kukuthi, kuba yonke intsapho, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, imfundo yabo lwaqhutywa yonke Thethani. Abantu bakudala babekholelwa ukuba amadoda awo zihlobene eziphilayo abantwana abazelwe abafazi babo.

Baqiniseka ukuba umfazi ekhulelwe ukusuka ukufika kumoya waphefumlela umzimba umntwana wakhe. Kunye alo umntu wesithathu akujongwa ewolo, ukususela, ngokoluvo babantu, xa engekho zabo, kweza umfazi umoya yaye buzane naye.

isiqhamo somthi

Siye safumanisa ukuba umtshato qela - uhlobo lobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abavela kwiintsapho ezahlukeneyo, clan okanye isizwe. Umzekelo, abasetyhini kunye namadoda ukusuka isizwe esinye baluhambise ngokwemigaqo neentlobano zesini kunye nabameli ngohlobo olwahlukileyo, kodwa phakathi kwabo - ngonaphakade. Kwaye bonke ngenxa yokuba umtshato iqela kuluntu abangekaphuhli wawukwalela abafowunelwa ezinjalo. Kakade ke, xa ulwalamano olunjalo kunzima kakhulu ukufumanisa azalwa kuyo abantwana. Ngoko xa kukho umtshato iqela, abantwana wavuma kuphela umgca ababhinqileyo. Njengomgaqo, Bathotyelwa up umfazi umzalwana wakhe. Kwezi ubuhlobo edidayo ayikwazanga ukudala intsapho izinzile.

Ngokwemeko ekuyiyo ngoku namhlanje?

Group lomtshato eRashiya, kakhulu, khona kwaye mhlawumbi ikhona unanamhla, kodwa akukho namnye othetha ngayo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, la nobudlelwane baye nezingamkelekanga eluntwini lwethu. Group umtshato indawo a guy xa umntu otshate nomfazi omnye, ningabaphambukeli phakathi kwabo. Lo mkhaya. Ooyise noonyana babo, kwaye konke okubhalwe eqinisekise. A ukuhamba mfazi "kwicala" uthathwa ngokuba imbuka.

Iqela umtshato kuluntu lwethu mihla - kodwa into engaqhelekanga, yaye kulihlazo - ezi ntsapho awuzamkeli ezam. Ke kaloku bonke abantu abatsha abafane ukubopha yi amaqhina entsapho yaye ngokukodwa ukuba babe nabantwana. Bathi ukuba umtshato - kunzima kakhulu nenenkathalo.

Ekugqibeleni Group umtshato yabangela ukuba matriarchy, eyathatha iminyaka emininzi. Kodwa ke indawo ezi maxesha kufika enye ... i Pope wayefuna ukwazi kakuhle abantwana babo, yaye olu hlobo lomtshato ufile. Namhlanje, kulo lonke ihlabathi, mhlawumbi kukho abanye abantu, abenza le ndlela yokuphila. Kodwa matriarchy kunye neqela umtshato watshintsha oyedwa, kwaye kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuba bumsulwa ngamadoda. Kwiintsapho mihla zikhokelela umntu, ukuba ezi iintloko, emagxeni abo oba lonke uxanduva iintsapho zabo.

Ekuphetheni

Ngaphambili, ukutshintsha ikhonkco omnye ngokufanayo, kodwa kwindawo eyahlukileyo, kulula kakhulu. Abantu Awabotshwanga omnye komnye. Kodwa ngoku, ukuze umtshato, kufuneka zidlule eziliqela kwiimeko, ukuba asayine oluninzi amaxwebhu, kwaye xa kukho abantwana, inkqubo iya tsala ku iinyanga. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngoku lo umthetho ngqo kuphela sigcine usapho. Ngoko ke, xa isibini ebeka nganye amanye amabango macala, umthetho ufuna ukucinga izinto ngokusebenzisa benze uxolo kunokwenzeka.