Yintoni umfazi uya ethandaza? Indlela ukubuyela usapho umyeni wakhe?

Xa ukungcatshwa umfazi oyintanda dear, abafazi ukothuka. Nganye kuboniswa ngendlela yayo; oxinezelekileyo ukuzithethelela. Kodwa ke ukulwa nayo kuyimfuneko ukuba bonke. Kodwa njani?

Okokuqala - ukululama. Uncedo yokuqala ukuvela umngcatshi - ukuzithemba. Apha ukuba uqeqesho zoncedo eziviwayo okanye umthandazo. Buyela kusapho kwindoda yakhe, lo gama "kumkhombe eyaphukileyo" karhulumente, ngeke isebenze. Man oku kuhlala ulixhoba. Enoba zinzima kangakanani, kufuneka athathe intlungu yabo inqindi ulahle kude. Vumela iintsalela khona. Abuyisele uncedo leNkosi, makabe athathe onke namandla nokubandezeleka ngomthandazo.

Indlela ukubuyela indoda yakhe intsapho: babuthe amandla

Ngelishwa, into yokuqala lwamabhinqa mbandela: "Yinto ukreqo lwam, wafumana ngcono!" Yintoni eya kulandela oku? Injalo loo nto! ukubhabha ngokukhawuleza sokuba thabatha obungapheliyo. Kodwa kuphela osabela ngayo! Ziyafana kwiintsuku ezimbalwa (iiveki, iinyanga) eyadlulayo, ithetha ukuba self-ngokwaneleyo kakhulu kwaye inomtsalane. Kwenzeka ntoni? Umzuzu wacinga, uqonde - nto! Ngoku, xa self-bake phezu, masikhumbule ukuba kukho umthandazo.

Indlela ukubuyela umyeni wakhe ukuba usapho, abantwana, ukuba ngoncedo lukaThixo? Yena nje yaye ukuhlakanipha. Kuye kufuneka ukuba isicelo intlungu yabo (ukuba ucinga ukuba le meko). Iintsuku zokuqala ezimbalwa ukufunda nje uMthandazo weNkosi. Oku kuya kukunika amandla kuwe. Ukuba kube kubi, uqengqa iinyembezi, emva koko ngokuqinileyo kuye minkarhi hinkwayo. Ingaba ufuna ukuzithemba, yaye ndizele oku bahlukane amacala kwidilesi yakhe, ukungaqiniseki kunye nezinye inkunkuma, azinza egeza, qiniseka nje. Xa babona ukuba ukulungele - ukudlulela phambili ngaphandle kokulibazisa. lifikile ixesha lokuba bavakalise umthandazo enamandla.

Indlela ukubuyela indoda yakhe intsapho: sicela uncedo lweNkosi

bit First of cebiso: baphethukela kuThixo, nika ngokupheleleyo isigqibo malunga isigwebo yakhe egeza. Oko kukuthi, musa ukucela umyeni wakhe ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ndibuye. Yonke kuba kuhle ukuba usapho lwakho. Zama ukuqonda ngokwenene yaye abakholwayo: ke wazi ngcono. Nokuba ke umlilo ukutsha buhlungu ikratshi, amampunge bathotywe okanye utyiwa uloyiko samabanga aphantsi, kholosani ngoYehova. Uyabathanda bonke abantwana bakhe!

Yiya endlwini kaNdikhoyo. Apho kufuneka sithandaze phambi icon ye nguMama kaThixo, ukuze achaze oko kwenzekileyo. Phalaza umphefumlo. Mthandazeli ndinihlambulule ekubandezelekeni. Emva koko funda phambi kukaKristu icon amaxesha asixhenxe "Kwi inshorensi Divine. " Emva koko, ngawakho amazwi akho ukugqithisa kakuhle eli isicelo. Umzekelo: "Nkosi yam! Ndinibhalela kuwe ngokubulaleka olukhulu naye! Indlela ukuba abuyele umyeni wakhe ekhaya? umthandazo wakhe Ndiyanibongoza, undincede! Me kunye amatakane walithandayo abathembekileyo. Sasihlala ngolonwabo iminyaka eli-10! Vula amehlo akho nto! Zivuse umphefumlo imfesane! Tindhawu imfuno lwetyala! Ndiyakucela ke! Abantwana Anibashiyanga ngaphandle koncedo uyise! Ukubumba usapho, ukuze abantwana baphile kamnandi emva! Nkosi, "Yaye ekupheleni musa ukulibala ukuba ukongeza:" Konke kwenziwa "!

Izincomo nezilumkiso

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba akayi kuba emva kusasa umthandazo ndiyazingca kwendoda yakho. Nangona imimangaliso ziyenzeka! Izandla musa ukwehlisa. Gcina ukholo entliziyweni yakhe yaye ithandwa! Lindela ukuba iNkosi iya kubonisa uthando lwakhe nobubele kuwe. Elowo umthandazo ngcaciso iya wena. Indlela ukubuyela umyeni wakhe ukuba intsapho ngaphandle ukholo! Yaye nayiphi na imeko alibhekiseli kwiindlela ayimkholisi uThixo! Ngoko onale uncedo kuThixo, sonile. Kwaye oku, njengokuba sisazi, bezonxibelelwano bukhatshwa sisohlwayo. Yaye isibheno nje umlingo, okanye naziphi na ezinye ezinjalo iindlela zingonakalisa kuphela ikamva lakho, kodwa igalelo ebantwaneni.