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LweMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo - nto leyo uya ndaweni ithile, "xa wonke umzi ulele" (njengoko kuvunywa le ngoma odumileyo). Lenza amaxesha ngokukhawuleza ukwenzela ukuba abazali abanalo ixesha ukuze, njengokuba umntwana ukuvuthwa. Yiyo loo nto uMama noTata zinyanzelekile ukuba benze abantwana babo ubuntwana bonwabe. Ngezantsi - tips ezimbalwa eluncedo.

Yintoni ebuntwaneni kwaye amafuth njani?

LweMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo - ingqiqo evakalala, yaye amaninzi amaninzi. Yinto nje kweminyaka engama-14, kungekhona nje indlela yokucinga. Eli lixesha elikhethekileyo, nto leyo ukonwaba. Ngoko ke, i iingcebiso ezimbalwa kubazali.

1. YaBantwana - ukumthanda umama kunye notata. Ngoko ke abazali kufuneka ubonise ukuba uthando olufanayo umntwana rhoqo. Elowo ke uphiwa ukubonakalalisa ndiziva kufuneka zibalulwe ezininzi zokudlala kunye nokusebenza nawuphi na umnqweno. Chad ebalulekileyo abazali inkxaso, ububele, isisa kunye nokhathalelo. Ngoko ukwanga umntwana wakho rhoqo kangangoko, kungekho sizathu. Sihlala sithetha umthanda kangakanani kuye. Kubalulekile kwakhona ukubona umntwana uthando lwabazali babo. Ngoko ke yenza inkathazo kwaye kufuneka Ningafungi abantwana.
2. LweMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo - ahlula encinane. Yintoni umntwana va impumelelo yakho? Kakade ke, ngenxa yodumo. Ngoko xa umntwana unento kuvela, kuyimfuneko ukumxelela into ayenzileyo yena. Ukuba kukho into engaphumeleliyo, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza nokuxhasa ukuba ukukholelwa ngokwakho na yena kucinywa, yaye umnqweno bathole linyukile.
3. LweMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo - a ezifunyanwa. Ngako oko yithi rhoqo umntwana into entsha, ambonise izinto ezimangalisayo nelula. Ngaba enkulu ukuba nonke niya kuqhuba kwi sisikhanyiso engaqhelekanga, usana wamangaliswa nangehlombe wamphulaphula amabali. Umzekelo, uyakwazi ukuqhuba imifuniselo ezincinane.

Happy Childhood kufuneka ibe akakhathazeki. Ngoko musa ukuzama ukukhawulezisa inkqubo ekukhuleni komntwana, lonke ixesha, yathi rhoqo ixesha lokuba ube elizimeleyo kakhulu. Ukanti incinane, makube singenamandla kwaye kuxhomekeke kuwe, awugcine. Ngapha koko, kuya kuthatha iminyaka, yaye uya khumbula kakuhle indlela wafundiswa ukuba udle yokunxiba. Musa sukela izinto!

Yintoni enye nenze abantwana? LwaBantwana kufuneka ibe nemihlali. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana nje kuphela, kodwa kufuneka romp, Siyathandini ngeenxa zonke, dlala, xhuma, ukutsiba, kuhleka! Hi ndlela leyi, umdlalo zingafumaneka iitalente bakhe notyekelo kunye nento ukumfundisa. Ke ukuba umntwana ufuna atsibatsibe ngaphakathi kuqokobhe, musa kumkhanyela ukuba ubumnandi. iikawusi bokuhlamba kunye neethayithi - yona nto kuthelekiswa ukuhleka umtsi ukuba kuviwa ngethuba le seshoni.

ABasaqalayo ukwenzela umntwana - oko kwihlabathi lakhe encinane apho ahlala Santa Claus, oothikoloshe, brownies kunye nezinye izidalwa kumnandi. Kwaye nokuba ukholelwa kuzo elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuvumela umntwana azi ukuba nantoni na, nenomlanga elungileyo ukumkhusela kwiingozi nonxunguphalo. Ixesha liya kufika - konke oku zanyibilika njengomsi. Kodwa lo gama ihlabathi enjalo, musa balonakalise.

We ungadibanisa kuphela ukuba ebuntwaneni bakhe - oku yinto abazali kunye nabanye abantu abadala kufuneka uthathe kude umntwana wakho kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Makhe bonke abantwana baya kuvuya, ngokubenza ikhululekile ebuntwaneni! Emva kokuba ebuntwaneni elahlekileyo - le yingxaki enkulu kakhulu kwixesha elizayo.