Wayebhula. Njani ukuchitha?

Wayebhula inokuchazwa inkqubo apho umntu ubiza phezu oomoya ukuba babuze imibuzo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu abanomdla kwezinye ehlabathini, yena bamazwe nabo iimfihlelo zayo namaqhina. Abaninzi ngoku ivuyela imfihlelo ezinamacandelo yawo yonke.

Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukubamba wayebhula ekhaya. Kodwa ke unobangela linamafutha akukho lula. Ukuze oku kufuneka balungiselele ngokucokisekileyo bonke baya kakuhle. Ukuqalisa kunye nalowo isigqibo kule seshoni, kufuneka utsalele omnye kubantu abane okanye abahlanu nabakulungeleyo ukuba ampheleke. Kuphela i medium onamava iyakwazi olunye-handedly ukubamba wayebhula. Imiphumo, kulo mzekelo, akayi kuba ezimbi ngokungathi lo mfundi waqalisa eli shishini wedwa. Ngoko, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba ukhethe kwinkokeli - lowo ubuncinane eziqhelekileyo intwana encinane kwemimoya. Ixesha imfuneko ukhethe ngokungqongqo phakathi 00:00 ne 4:00. Ukuze kuphuculwe umsebenzi oomoya uyakwazi ukulindela inyanga le igcwele.

Akukho inventri, Kakade, ngeke akwenze. Kukho kufuneka esosini kunye nebhodi, ekufuneka isetyenziswe ezilishumi amanani, iincwadi kunye neempendulo "ewe" yaye "hayi." Ukwenza umoya mfihlelo inkulu, singazalisa gumbi, nto leyo baba wayebhula, isiqhumiso, amakhandlela, baphembe umlilo. Kufuneka ungalibali ukuthatha zikhululeni izivatho zenu, ukuze ndilumkise nabanye.

Ukususela kabani umoya ndinise kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi. Umzekelo, ukuba isalamane ongasekhoyo, kufuneka ibekwe into lakhe isithuba. Kwaye ukuba yinto enye kubantu abaziwayo, umzekelo, umbhali, kufuneka ubeke etafileni enye yeencwadi zakhe okanye ngobude.

Iqala nto ibalulekileyo. nxaxheba Iseshoni kufuneka bahlale itafile. Inkosi wabeka yeplastiki kwiibhodi yeOuija kwaye uqale ukubangela umoya. Kuba oku silingane binzana: ". ... uMoya, kuza" Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka uphindaphindwe amaxesha amaninzi, de kube lelo xesha ekuthiwa umoya no-show. Kwaye ukuba baqonde indlela oko sele kuza? Yinto elula: kufuneka esweni ngenyameko imeko kunye esosini. UMoya sele wavela xa uhamba isosara, ukuba ikhandlela kuhluthe ukuba mpepho wabaleka ... Abathathi-nxaxheba kulo mzekelo nga ivumba phandle, nokungcangcazela encinane eyabangelwa ukubalasela imeko yabo.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba uyithathele ingqalelo into yokuba, mhlawumbi, umoya ayikho ukulungele ukuphendula imibuzo. Unako nomsindo, ufuna ukuhamba. Ngamanye amaxesha imimoya ngabom elele. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuchana kwale impendulo, kufuneka uzibuze umbuzo wokuqala, impendulo yaziwa kakuhle. Ukuba uvavanyo lubonisa ukuba umoya wobuxoki, kungcono nje ukuba simbulele kuye kuthi ndlela-ntle, njengoko kungenjalo kuya kuba ndlongondlongo.

Kukho umxholo bhetele ningayichukumisi - oku kokufa. UMoya uya kancinci ukuhambisa esityeni ukusuka unobumba omnye komnye, yaye wayisonga ilizwi lakhe yaye uya kundiphendula. Kuba imibuzo jikelele kufuneka ukuhambisa isosara amagama athi "ewe" yaye "hayi."

Ngoku kufuneka ukuba kuthi ndlela-ntle umoya. Wena kuqala kufuneka ukuba simbulele ngenxa ndlebe, uze uvule yeplastiki ndinkqonkqoza kubo ebhodini kathathu. Kule wayebhula iphela. Musa ukulibala ukuba le nkqubo kufuneka kuhlala ngaphezu kweyure. Kufuneka kakubi ngumoya amaxesha. Mhlawumbi ezininzi uya kuvakalelwa emva neseshoni komzimba. Kodwa emva kwexesha elithile ukuze abuye amandla.

Kutshanje, izazinzulu Yu. A. Fomin wavakalisa umbono wakhe, eli leyo ukuba kwiminyaka yakutshanje, nemimoya abaninzi baba ngumlinganiswa abaninzi, ezo ke eyona ndlela ingcono luchaphazela umntu kunye noluntu ngokubanzi. nefuthe elibi ebonakaliswa kukwehla imeko yabantu - zombini engqondweni nasemzimbeni. Imbali igcwele neemeko apho wayebhula yaphelela nesimo enkulu. Ngoko kakubi Iiklasi ezinjalo kuba zililize ekungekho nzuzo ngayo. Kungenjalo kubonakale iingxaki ezinzulu.