Unxibelelwano Non-ngomlomo - oko ikutshoyo?

Kala onke amandla, nto leyo iphatha unxibelelwano non-ngomlomo, endinceda yokuba ngokutsho bengqondo, uninzi ulwazi, ezizezi, 90%, sifumana evela Imiqondiso non-ngomlomo. Ne-10% kuphela kuyo onokusinika ilizwi. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Ngenxa yokuba abantu bazi ukuba unxibelelwano non-ngomlomo luqine, ngoko ukuthetha, kuba nzima ngaphezu ngomlomo. Ngapha koko, ukuba unxibelelwano ngomlomo - oku amagama nje, namagama balawulwa ingqondo zethu yaye siya kucinga izihlandlo ezilishumi kunokuthiwa yaye yintoni esimele ubuncwane ukuyifihla interlocutor yakhe.

Impela enye into - unxibelelwano okunye, eyenziweyo ukuthumela imiyalezo lenta iingcali kuphela naye, ukuqonda le - bengqondo, iiarhente inkonzo ngasese kunye nabanye ngendlela enye okanye omnye kunento yokwenza iisayikholojisti yobungcali. Kodwa ke, uyabona, hayi kangako. Kakhulu zesiqhelo ngakumbi ebantwini, abo baveze iingcamango neemvakalelo zabo lokwenene izijekulo kunye nezinye izinto.

Ngoko ke yintoni na unxibelelwano non-ngomlomo? Zithini izimvo zakhe, uchaze ukuba iqulathe ntoni na?

Khumbula ukuba non-ngomlomo unxibelelwano - ayikho kuphela izijekulo babesima: isandla edolweni okanye ingalo phezu esinqeni, njl It is a iseti lonke lwemiqondiso ethwele ulwazi malunga into - le sihlale sithatha xa uthetha nomntu, nezijekulo, nembonakalo yobuso, kunye nobukhulu abafundi, yaye umoya wethu - okukhawulezayo ekhululekile, yimincili, kwakunye nethoni yelizwi xa sithetha ngayo.

Cinga umzuzwana, ufana nendoda eqiqa phantsi Oluma umlomo wakhe, ubanga ukuba wenza kakuhle ebomini yaye ovuyayo. Ningakholwa nguye okanye nangengqwalasela nokuhlola iziboniso zakhe mpawu? Ndicinga ukuba esithi baya kukholosa kwabancinane kwenu. Kufanele kube njalo.

Kodwa nje ke umdla kunxibelelwano non-ngomlomo. Inyaniso kukuba kukho iimpawu ezisisiseko, ezo okufanayo bonke okanye uninzi lwabantu. Umzekelo, ukunqwala okanye amagxa - ebonisa ukuba interlocutors ekuvunyelwene okanye badidekile. Kodwa kukho iimpawu olwahlukileyo ngabantu ezahlukeneyo, nto ngokwesithethe sabo.

Umzekelo, ukuba abahlali kummandla Asia ingakumbi kuba Japanese kubalulekile ukuba alawule, ukuba ukubonisa intlonipho omnye umntu kuthetha - ukuba ukujonga naye emehlweni. I-Japanese liza kucokisa naphi - entanyeni yakho lapels, kodwa hayi emehlweni. Kuba yaseYurophu okanye waseMelika ukuphetshwa lweliso zoqhagamshelwano kuya kuthetha ukuba omnye umntu uziva ungakhululekanga, okanye ukufihla into, okanye uxinezelekile nje okanye akanamdla kwi miba kuxoxwe. Nokuba ukwahluka yenkcubeko kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo.

Kodwa ezinye Iziboniso non-ngomlomo, ezifana: abafundi inimba, imilebe igubha, ukuphelelwa umoya ngabom ukutshintsha kwakungenzeki kwaphela. Ukuba yaseJapan ukumangaliswa, kwakunye yaseYurophu, abafundi baya zombini ukwandisa.

Kwaye omnye umbuzo ukuba Iyandonwabisa iingqondo: kutheni na kufuneka ukwazi kwaye ngakumbi ngabom ukufunda Iziboniso mpawu? Ewe, inxenye sinako ukuqonda ukuba ungaziva. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu emi phambi kwethu, izandla ezinqeni, oku kuya kuthetha ukubusa. Kodwa ezinye iimpawu kufuneka bazi ukuba, Isimanga ngokwaneleyo, ukuze abe nako ukusebenzisa ukuba inzuzo yakho. Ukuze oku kuyimfuneko ngexesha thethwano okanye xa ethengisa, okanye nokuba kubalulekile ukuba abo ngokwenene abafuni ukuba akucele.

Umzekelo, othengisayo ngu ukushukuma kunye nabafundi inimba kubona ukuba umthengi unomdla imveliso, oko kuthetha ukuba sikwazi ukwandisa kancinane ixabiso. Kwelinye icala, xa abafundi umthengi lowo iingqameko, ixabiso leempahla kufuneka isantya noko.
Kwaye enye into. Khumbula ukuba iimpawu non-ngomlomo ukuba zihlolwe kwi entsonkothileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu olurhexe impumlo yakhe - oko kuthetha nje ukuba wenza ngobuqili. Ngokomzekelo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unalo mngundo banal, yaye kunzima nokuphefumla.
Neverbalistika - yinto inzululwazi, yaye ukusondela kuyimfuneko ukufunda ngokubanzi.