Umthandazo abo banithiyayo thina nokubi ngumzekelo uthando lobuKristu kunye nokuxolela

Bonke abantu ehlabathini bayazi ukuba uthandaze ngayo. Kwanabo alelwe ngoku ubukho bukaThixo. Imithandazo kakhulu. Bona bathetha imihla ngamakhulu eelwimi ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ubuntu babo yenye - indoda isibheno ukuya emandleni aphezulu.

Esiza kuxubusha ngayo kweli nqaku lifutshane kuphela elinye izicelo umthandazo - umthandazo abo banithiyayo thina engalunganga.

Kutheni lo mthandazo kubaluleke kangaka ubuKristu?

Xa sijonga imbali yabantu, siyakwazi ukubona ukuba zonke iinkonzo yehlabathi omfowunelayo ukuba nibathandazele abo banigxekayo bantu.

Yinto nkqu isebuYudeni, leyo eyakhelwe imfundiso lwangaphambili ubuKristu. Uze umthande abahlobo, kodwa siyiphaphamele iintshaba zabo - umthetho isixelela. Nkqu Confucius libonisa ukuba ububi akakwazi ukuphendula ebubini, kuphela ubulungisa.

Kwakutheni UKristu ubiza ukuthanda iintshaba zethu?

Enyanisweni, oku ubamba isitshixo nokuqonda ukholo lwamaKristu wangena iintshukumisa wothando noxolo. Ukukwazi ukuxolela iintshaba zabo, yaye musa ukukhumbula ingqumbo, eneneni, ukuba unqwenela okulungileyo kwabo netyala, lo abaphambili ekuguqulweni komphefumlo womntu, alihlambulule.

Ngoko e ubuKristu kukho inkolelo yokuba xa umntu onako ukuxolela iintshaba zakhe, nibathandazele kubo, yaye uYehova uya kumxolela ngenxa yezono zakhe, yaye uya kunika ithuba lokuba babe ebukumkanini bamazulu.

Umthandazo abo banithiyayo kuthi nokubi: kufuneka ibe yintoni?

Kukho isicatshulwa umthandazo, nto leyo inokufunyanwa na Nomthandazo Orthodox. Lo mthandazo ukufunda ekupheleni kusasa nangokuhlwa umthandazo mthetho.

Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba iintshaba zethu athandazele ngamazwi akho. Ngaphezu koko, imfuneko yokuthandaza kuphela ngamazwi abo, kodwa nje xa sivakalelwa ngathi ezintliziyweni zethu inzondo kunye ukuluma.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ngawo lo mzuzu akavumeli umsindo kuthungwa iziqalekiso ezikrakra eloyikekayo okanye - nangakumbi - ubudlova ecacileyo, kodwa uthandaze ngokuthe cwaka nje umphefumlo umntu ndinixelela amazwi ububi okanye uniphethe kakhulu ongabekekanga.

Ayiphengululeki iindlela zeNkosi, mhlawumbi kanye ngalo mzuzu, nje wathandazela ukuba umntu banigxekayo, uya uze ugcine wena ukusuka kuxwebhu embi, kwaye ukusuka crisis lwangaphakathi.

Kutheni kusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuba uthandaze?

Ukuba nikhunga kwaye yonke indawo. Ngokubanzi, umthandazo umntu amnandi unika amandla angaqhelekanga angaphakathi. Esithi amagama alula: "Sixolele, Owu Nkosi, aboni yethu, bawathume uvuyo, impilo, umbane, engqondweni nasemzimbeni," - ngaba woyise njani buthathaka lwakho ngokomoya yaye babe somelele ngokomoya umntu.

Emva angemi amagqubu abantu - ke ayinanto. Njengoko bathi, bakhutyekiswe - abantu ulusizana, lanyanzelisa ukuba bonke ubomi ukutsala umthwalo iingxaki zayo kunye nezikhalazo. Bakholose ngawe abalaziyo ukuxolela, naoobort Ungahamba ubomi lula nangokukhululekileyo. Abayi ube nenqala nabantu, nemeko enzima kubo, kulandele ezidimazayo yamashwa, nangona olo, ngokuba babona iintsilelo zabo, zama ukuxolela idlelane lakhe.

Vuyani maxa onke, nikhunga, yaye - ukudlulisela kuthi abangcwele enkulu belizwe Russian. Kwaye ukukwazi lokuxolela iintshaba zabo ezibathimbileyo, bathandaza kubo ngomnye iimpawu ezibalulekileyo zamaKristu zonke. Ngoko ke, ukuthandaza kwabo abasithiyileyo nokubi kufuneka umthandazo ukuba ukuphinda yonke imihla entliziyweni yakho.

Ixabiso kwalo mthandazo ukusuka ngembono kwengqondo

Namhlanje inzululwazi psychology, yona into sifundo ingqondo yomntu, likwancedisa izigqibo kwiinkalo ezininzi, nto leyo inika sibe imfundiso. Ukususela ngokombono bengqondo, isidima amaKristu ukuxolela, Zithandeni iintshaba zenu ivumela umntu ukuphuhlisa ngemvisiswano, ekufezekiseni iwonga, nto leyo iisayikholojisti kubiza self-actualization.

Kuphela oku akwenzeki kunye Ngoncedo amandla ka ngamnye ngokwakhe, kwaye kunye nenkxaso imikhosi kaThixo.

Man, njengoko kunjalo ngaphaya kwemida i "Mna", ihlaba imimango ubukho ngamnye, sifumana ulwaneliseko "allness" ezithile, ukuba sonke esilulangazelelayo.

Akukhathaliseki, ukufunda njani umthandazo, ngokuvakalayo, ukuba mna okanye uqhagamshelane ingqondo yakhe kwiimeko ezinzima. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba nje ukuyifunda kwaye ucinge ngoko uKristu wayalela abafundi bakhe ukuba ukuxolela izikhalazo nibathandazele abo benza ububi.

Sindiso abo balandela indlela yobuKristu

Eneneni, amaKristu okwenyaniso - kubantu abonwabileyo kunene, bayazi ukuba banandiphe ubomi, benethemba kumkhawulela uThixo emva kokufa, yazi ukuba umthande uze uxolele ngayo. Bayazi ukuba iNkosi isebenza ngeendlela ezingaziwayo, kwaye nkqu utshaba ngephanyazo othile ube ngumhlobo wenene, ukuba baguquke baze baxolelaniswe kuthi.

AmaKristu ayakwazi ukukholelwa imimangaliso, kuba umthandazo ngokwalo - lo mmangaliso yokwenene, nto leyo esinika amandla ukuze siphile.

Ngoko ke masitsho ngongazenzisiyo amaKristu okwenyaniso, siyakholwa, sithandaze kunye nothando, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ncwadi umthandazo kukho amazwi emangalisayo ukuxolela, ezo zibizwa ngokuba "Xikhongelo abo banithiyayo kuthi nokubi."

Makhe sithandaze kwaye ukholwe ngenceba kaThixo iintlanzi yakhe engcwele ngenxa us!