Umntwana uyakhala: kutheni?

Umntwana omncinci athalala, ukuya kungena limfiliba, ihlabathi ukubanda enomoya, akukho mathandabuzo, uziva "wonwabile." Abeyenzile nje umsebenzi omninzi, ukunceda umama ekuzalweni, yena elambile, yena Kuyabanda, kuba nzima ukuphefumla. Ngoko ke into yokuqala oogqirha kunye unina kwetyala usana - na ukukhala, ngokuthe ngcembe ajike abe ikukukhalisa. Kwaye ukususela ngaloo mzuzu ilizwi ecacileyo usana iba yinto yemihla ngemihla abazali abatsha. Kulo mzekelo, izizathu zokuba kungani na umntwana ezizibikayo, inokuba kakhulu okuninzi.

Ekuphela kwendlela ukuveza

Usana alikafiki nako ukuthetha, ngoko ke nokukhala kwakhe - iindlela eziphambili ebonisa iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno. omama abaninzi ngephutha bakholelwa ukuba umntwana uyakhala kuphela xa unento kubuhlungu. Kodwa enyanisweni, iinyembezi ezinokubangelwa yimiba eyahlukeneyo:

• Indlala (ukuba unobangela lokukhala kulo, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukondla kwiimvuthuluka ngoko nangoko).
• ubushushu emoyeni ephantsi kakhulu okanye phezulu kwigumbi (amaqondo obushushu avareji kwigumbi apho usana - 22-25 degrees).
• Yokulunywa (izifo wamathumbu ukunceda yokuthanjiswa okanye amalungiselelo ezizodwa zoxubo).
• Ubuhlungu kuba zisaqala.
• amanabukeni ezimanzi okanye ezimdaka, kunye amanabukeni.
• Unqongophalo ingqalelo.

Ukongeza, umntwana ekhala xa awukwazi ukulala. nosana inkqubo luvo amalungiselelo ukuze umzimba angakhululeki ngexesha ukudinwa olunamandla, kodwa kunokuba overexcited. A Isangqa ukhohlakeleyo - odiniweyo ngakumbi mixture, kuba nzima ukuba balale. Kulo mzekelo, umama ukuba angcangcazelise usana, yitsho lullaby cwaka, yenza umyalezo ukukhanya irobhothi.

omama badla qaphela ukuba umntwana wabo ukhalela ngelixa lusidla. Le meko ibangelwa kukuba engeyiyo uncancisa usana ubisi uginya umoya. Ngenxa yoko, mixture lifumana ubuhlungu xa iinxalenye ezintsha ukutya. Ukuze uncede umntwana, ngokwaneleyo ukuba wenze umyalezo gentle le isisu, okanye sebenzisa ityhubhu engumphunga - emva kokuba umoya esindile emathunjini, pipsqueak kwakhona ndayinyuka unamathele esifubeni. Kwaye uphephe eliba kunye neemoto ndingaz, umama unako ukufunda ngenyameko ubuchule isicelo (Umgaqo yayo ephambili - umntwana makafake kuphela ingono, kodwa yonke areola). Hi ndlela leyi, oku kuya kusinceda siphephe ukuyilwa neentanda phezu ingono.

Indlela yokunceda umntwana ekhala?

Enoba kutheni umntwana bedanduluka, into yokuqala ufuna - Ukuthantamisa lukamama nenyameko. Musa ukoyika ukuba umntwana ekhala ezingalweni zakhe. Akukho mfuneko landela icebiso ukuba 'umntwana ukukhala "okanye" musa niyifundise izandla. " Ukuncancisa ibele kids Ndisakhumbula ixesha xa babengamakhoboka esiswini sikama, singqongwe beendawo ethambileyo olufudumeleyo kunye fluid. Lusoloko isandi kwentliziyo sikama, kwaye kukhuthaza wabo kunene. Ngoko xa umntwana ekhala, kufuneka ukuba amnike ithuba ububele umva sikama, thetha naye ke kuphela iqala ukufuna unobangela ekhala.

Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana ekhala kuba yinto nje uyithande - nangakuthandiyo ukudada, nangakuthandiyo umoya esitratweni, ukwazi, umakazi engaqhelekanga yamvusa, okanye esoyika. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kubalulekile ukuzama ukuphelisa unobangela ukunganeliseki kwaye wenze konke pipsqueak alibale isiganeko lilishwa - kuyimfuneko ukuphambukisa ukuya into ezinomdla kakhulu kwaye kube mnandi.

Ukuba ukukhala iyaphindwa rhoqo kakhulu ihlala ixesha elide yaye akukho senzo musa kunceda balahle loo nto, kufuneka udibane nogqirha wakho ngoko nangoko - mhlawumbi kukhala sizathu linzulu kakhulu, yaye kuphela uchwepheshe abaqeqeshiweyo uyakwazi ukuchonga ukuphelisa nto.