Ukungathembeki umfazi wakhe Islam izolo nanamhlanje

Unqulo kunye nenkcubeko Muslim kakhulu ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, ukusuka lobuKristu okanye dha. Kukwasebenza kwanjalo kuyo ubudlelwane usapho. umntu Modern yaseYurophu abantu Muslim emfazini wakhe, baze abafazi ngokubanzi, ukuze kubonakale naidichayshim. Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene? Kusenokwenzeka ukuba lo mfazi Islam ukulinganiselwa ezithile amalungelo abo, kunye umntu usoloko ingqalelo intloko-ntsapho. Nangona kunjalo, xa sijonga le manani, siyakwazi ukubona ukuba ukukrexeza mtshato phakathi amaSilamsi amakholwa zinqabile kakhulu, namakhaya kumazwe kubekwe iphantsi kakhulu, singasathethi ukuphazamiseka ukukhulelwa, nathintelwayo ngokomthetho ngumthetho. Isizathu, Kakade ke, ukuze silandele izithethe zamandulo wookhokho babo kunye nokugcina engqongqo nezithintelo lusekiwe.

Indima yamabhinqa Islam kunye nomfazi kutshintshe kangangeenkulungwane. imisebenzi yayo ziquka ukuzalwa bekhulisa abantwana, abanye basebe-, ulawulo ufumene iqabane kwempahla. Umfazi yamaMuslim unyanzelekile ukuba ahlonele inkosikazi yakhe simhloniphe olandelayo yakhe inyama. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba loo nto njenge "ukukopela unkosikazi" in Islam kunqabile kakhulu kwaye akukho ngenxa yokuba isohlwayo esiqatha anokuba kuye ukuyilandela. Amantombazana kumazwe Muslim balungiselela ukuba batshate besebancinane, ukuba esikhuliswe ngokungqinelana izithethe zonqulo wooyise, leyo ukuvala amathuba uyakrexeza.

Licebo in Islam kuthetha ubukho naziphi na iintlobano zesini azikho mzuzu kwayo abantu abatshatileyo ngokusemthethweni. Ngokutsho Koran, ukukrexeza nto kodwa, njengokuba isono inkulu onokufa, impindezelo ngenxa loo afike kwaoko. Ukungathembeki umfazi wakhe e-Islam kunqabile kakhulu. Kwamanye amazwe Muslim ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho olufanayo kangangeenkulungwane yi isohlwayo ezinkulu - isohlwayo sokufa okanye kokubethwa yoluntu. abafazi Muslim Modern unqwenela ukutshintsha abayeni babo kwenzeka oko kungeyonto ayenza rhoqo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, isibakala yokukrexeza ngazo kukho igqwetha, kwakunye abasemzini amane igama lihle ekuhlaleni. Umntu okrexezayo (ukukrexeza), uya kuphindezelwa - kubethwa ngezabhokhwe - kodwa kuphela xa kukho ubungqina ngokupheleleyo ityala lakhe. Ukuba nangasiphi na isizathu amangqina zahluke, ukuze nabo babe phantsi imivumbo ngenxa lokuxoka phantsi kwesifungo kunye culo abafazi.

Ngokungqinelana unqulo, umfazi yokukopela Islam - isono esikhulu, esinika isohlwayo esiqatha. Noko ke, Islam ayinikeli ngenxa vigilante ubulungisa, oko kukuthi, ukufunda malunga abafazi ukukrexeza indoda akanalo ilungelo lokuba ukohlwaya zalo. Xa kunjalo, ukuba umntu baya kukholiswa ukungcatshwa umfazi wayo; kodwa abayi kuba nako ukunika ubungqina bokuba kukho ulwaphulo-mthetho olo, uya kohlwaywa (imivumbo engama-80). Kwamanye amazwe Muslim, imithetho kuvumela abathandi sentambo nokuba ingqalelo ngokuzithandela isenzo ntlondi. Kwezinye iingingqi, isohlwayo sokufa siwiswa ukuba neentlobano zesini phakathi kwabafazi abangatshatanga, nangona isenzo kwaye akukho tshintsho.

Namhlanje, enye injengeminyaka eliwaka eyadlulayo, ukungcatshwa umfazi wakhe Islam iquka ukuqaliswa umfazi otshatileyo ukuba babe neentlobano zesini nabantu bezinye iintlanga. Isigwebo abafazi ukuba unetyala okanye omsulwa owandulelayo inkqubo yoviwo ebandakanya ubukho okugunyazisiweyo kwejaji (Mufti, Imam). Xa kungekho amangqina kunye nokungakwazi ukungqina wakrexeza yi umfazi yenza isigqibo malunga umtshato. Ukususela kupheliswa umtshato umntu eyeka iziqulatho owayesakuba ngumlingane. Namhlanje kukho ezininzi nabaxhasi ezifana kwiinkqubo mtshato, ephakamisa ukuba izibini Muslim, ukrokrela ngamnye nezinye ngokungathembeki, kodwa abakwazi ukuba ubungqina ulwaphulo-mthetho, ukusombulula imbambano egqubayo kweli ngoxolo.