Ukukhetha isipho ukuba umntwana kunyaka 1.

Oko kwenzeka kusapho lwakho sisiganeko wena nqaba ivuyelelayo - wazalwa umntwana. Ukususela ngalo mzuzu wena ngeye akusayi ngokwayo sase ngokupheleleyo ehlabathini uxhalabile iseyeyona kobuxhakaxhaka kunye neengxaki. Njengoko nafundayo indlela ayina macala omabini, ukucupha nje kuphela, kwaye nkqu iikawusi kunye imitya, aziwa kwimfezeko umbane rhoqo behlamba imigangatho, impahla sijinga, uhamba kunye nomntwana iiyure ezimbini ngosuku, Impontshelwa up izihlunu iingalo, vkatyvaya kunye thaca kwizinyuko ekungeneni enzima pram. Ngoku sele emnyameni yi va, amisele uhlobo pacifier kufuna ukuba umntwana wakho, ndiyazi intsingiselo yegama twisiseka "cookie" ngaphandle naziphi na iingxaki zibandakanya imfuno ngalo mzuzu "na-na-na," yaye nabangekhoyo ngokwakhe ngaphandle fane "phezu unqiyoyo."

Ngoku, abe emana ekhangela kokusemva, ngesiquphe ufumanise: bekunjalo kunyaka wonke! Kungekudala umntwana wakho kakhulu yokuqala Birthday ebomini bakhe! Kulo nyaka, wenza ukumatanisa nawe feat - ukusuka ezinencasa, squinting kancinci izinkcwe chap encinane egezayo ongakwaziyo ingabamba intloko yakhe, wajika waya zokweyelisela, okrelekrele, umntu ebukekayo kunye imbonakalo eyodwa kunye nobuchule. Le feat, ifanelwe ngokuqinisekileyo isipho. Kodwa yintoni isipho umntwana ukwenzela unyaka-1 kuya kuba ngcono?

Ngesizathu esithile, abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba isipho umntwana, kodwa incinane kakhulu, akukho konke nzima, bathi ukuba bathi cwaka kweli phakade aqonde? Kaloku, lo yokudlala ethile, kuhle, mhlawumbi yinto encinane ... ke bambalwa abantu baqonde ukuba unyaka - oku ke obu xa umntwana ukususela ebuntwaneni ingena kwabantwana abaselula, iqala eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe - ifomu nokuphuhlisa ingqondo, iitalente izinto ezisisiseko kubomi mna. Ngoko ke, isipho umntwana unyaka-1 kufuneka libe kwinqanaba elenza ukuba kuya kunceda ukubonisa uhlobo kwimfuza nobukrelekrele. Kwelinye icala, isipho makube koko uya kumkholisa umntwana kumenze inkxalabo. Ukuba uphawula ukuba umntwana Ukuthanda imidlalo ongaphandle, incwadi yemibongo - hayi isipho kakuhle umntwana kangangonyaka, kodwa ibhola okanye nayiphi yokukhwela iqokobhe, ukukhasa into oyifunayo.

Mhlawumbi usana lwakho - azalwe nomkroli? Yena uhleli iiyure kwaye kwakha iphiramidi of iityhubhu, abantu endandinomdla kwaye kneads izinto zokudlala ezitofotofo na? Intlama for befaka, udongwe, abayili kunye iiphazili - ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyithandile abantwana. Hi ndlela leyi, ootitshala zemfundo pre-school ingqalelo, kungekhona ngaphandle sizathu, ukuze isipho kakuhle umntwana unyaka omnye - omnye ukuvela izakhono motor entle. Xa zeminwe lo mntwana linani enkulu kwalapho unoxanduva lokuphuhlisa ingqondo, ingqalelo ngakumbi ziya kuhlawulwa intsebenzo entle isandla-eyenziwe sakhe - ukukwazi ukuba inzululwazi wenu omncinane. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana banomdla ukuyila, ngumzekelo, befaka, ukuzoba, ngokusika iphepha amanani.

isipho esilungileyo kakhulu baby ukwenzela unyaka-1 - incwadi enkulu eqaqambileyo picture kunye iileta okanye iibhloko, apho omnye edge ingqalelo ikhathuni ngomlinganiswa okanye isilwanyana, kunye nezinye kakuhle - koonobumba namagama kunye nokusetyenziswa kwayo. izipho ezinjalo ngexesha elifanayo ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokusebenzisa amalungu omzimba (umntwana Tyhila amaphepha okanye yongeza iityhubhu), kodwa lwenza umsebenzi memory ebonwayo associative (ngehloko itakane ikhangeleka ngathi isilwanyana ethile, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba igama lakhe iqala elinonobumba efanayo).

Kwaye enye into: nawe phantse yonke imihla athenge usana into entsha, indlela ndicacise ukuba esi sipho - ekhethekileyo? Ndinokwenza njani ukuze namhla phakathi kwabanye? Songa isipho zokubopha eqaqambileyo, bathi kuye kuyimfuneko ukwandisa (oku emehlweni akhe phantse ngaphezu isipho ngokwalo), kwaye ninikele iqela uneebhaloni ezinkulu - aya kukunceda ukhumbule oku namhla, xa umntwana ibhaluni iza kulindela iholide kunye ukulungiselela kuyo.

Kodwa ke iingubo, pacifiers, ezityiwayo - hayi isipho kakuhle umntwana kunyaka 1. Yiloo nto ke kufuneka yonke imihla, akakazi ukuba yintoni na fashion, kunye novuyo uya kwenza ibhulukhwe entsha - lebhokhwe kunye zamaqhawe uvuyo plyuhnetsya esantini okanye kuqokobhe iimpahla evela fashion abayili, into eninzi akuthethi ukusindisa, imali echithwa, akukho uvuyo ....

Ekugqibeleni, ndithanda ukuthetha oku: ukuba umyili kakhulu nendlela, le ipeyinti intle kwaye unodoli intle akayi kwenza umntwana owonwabileyo, ukuba abathanga bahlale khona, akuyi ukudlala naye. ixesha lakho, isisa yakho, ingqalelo yakho, nothando lwakho - yiloo isipho eziya kusoloko kufuneka umntwana. Ukuba nithanda umntwana - onokulwenza kuye iityhubhu, ukuthunga unodoli umfundise ukuzoba kunye namalahle. Kwaye esi sipho uya kubukhumbula ngonaphakade, ngenxa yokuba umama wakhe, wamnika ...