Ukuba umntwana abe nako kuyo iinyanga ezi-2?

Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba ingqondo yomntwana ukusukela ekuzalweni de umntwana kwiminyaka emithathu okanye emine, uyakwazi ukusebenza ukubuyisela iiseli zemithambo-luvo, owenzakeleyo ngexesha xa umama wakhe wamzalela, okanye sele kwinkqubo inenimba ngokwayo. Amanyathelo ezithathwe ziingcali kunye nabazali kweli thuba iza kuba yimpumelelo gqitha. Kodwa ukuze uncede umntwana wakho, kufuneka ukwazi malunga amanqanaba uphuhliso emzimbeni, emphefumlweni kunye nolwimi ngokoqobo yi ngenyanga. Inyanga yokuqala emva kokubuyela ekhaya esibhedlele zidla kuqhutyelwa "esozela" yasemzini, abazali kunye nabantu abatsha siqhelane omnye komnye, kwaguqulwa, wayibuyisela. Emva eli xesha (akukho nabani na ucinga ngale ngaphambili) bonke baqala ukuba babe nomdla koko umntwana ukuba akwazi iinyanga ezi-2. luvo sidume anolwazi ukusebenza nabantwana, liqulunqe iindlela ezizodwa ukukunceda ukhangela usana lwakho iphuhlisa ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka emithandathu.

Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana kuba yintoni na kwiinyanga-2? Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesibini umntwana sele uyazi ukuba decompress kwaye compress iinzwane ngayo. INtloko ngesiseko ibamba ngqo, kodwa ke onokukubuyisa oko ngapha nangapha. Ukuba Wamkwelisa isisu sakhe, unako ukubamba usivelisele-engile 45 degrees entloko, ubukele le Urhashaza, malunga 10 imizuzwana, ngoko uwe. Ukuba ukuzalwa zange kwenzeke kunye previa yobuso, kwaye umntwana kwangethuba kakhulu futhi ibamba abaphose umva intloko yakhe umva xa elele esiswini sakhe, yaye ngokukodwa emqolo, kufuneka ufune uncedo luvo ukuba naziphi na umonakalo kwi-luvo.

Yini umntwana leenyanga ezi-2 kwindawo othe nkqo. Unako ezandleni zabazali ukugcina "kwikholam", ngoko ke eziqhelekileyo kunye nehlabathi ngeenxa zonke kuye (intloko nangoku kufuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo).

Ukuba umntwana abe nako ukwenza izibambo leenyanga ezi-2. iminwe yakhe ukuba sele zixinaniswe ngokusisigxina kunye neentende bekhululekile kwaye uvule rhoqo. Umntwana ufumana ephatha umlomo wakhe yadika nasesithupheni sesandla sakhe. Ukuqeqesha uququzelelo lweentshukumo wezandla kunye nombono, kunokwenzeka ukuba utyalo kwi Urhashaza phezu handle xa umntwana engozini abaqhuba ngayo yokudlala zagremit, yaye uya kuba efuna amehlo akhe. Kusenokubakho, nokungcangcazela kancinane izandla okanye esilevini, nto leyo ekugqibeleni shwaka. Ukuba womelele kwaye rhoqo, ifuna thethwano luvo.

Ukukhangela isandi elide, nto leyo ngaphezu kwinqanaba indlebe lakhe, ikhuthaza usana ukuba intloko akhe ukuya kumfuna look. Kodwa umthombo ukude kakhulu isandi, wada iliso ujonge. Oku kuhle ukuba umntwana nangoku kusho izandi engalindelekanga. Kufuneka ukukhalisa isivusi xa yothuka ihamba ezibukhali ukwanekwa izandla phambili okanye ecaleni, yaye oku kuya kupheliswa.

Ekupheleni kwisithuba seenyanga ezimbini iqala ukumemeza kunye mixture ngenye indlela. Ngoku akapheleli nje ngayo umzimba, uze uchaze le ndlela kunye nomama wakhe, esebenzisa imvakalozwi ezahlukeneyo, ukufunda "agukat".

Yini umntwana iinyanga ezi-2, ulungelelene nemigangatho zophuhliso kwengqondo kweli nqanaba. Ke kungaba thatha imbono ecace phezu kobuso bomntu, nto leyo ukunxibelelana naye, uze ukhangele apho, "iliso kwiliso" ukubukela abantu bahamba emhlabeni. Phantse isiqingatha umzuzu kuqwalaselwa yokudlala umdla kuye. Kuluncedo ukuxhoma izinto liqaqambileyo nesibeke indlwana umntwana, kwaye, lo mbandela ngaphantsi, kokukhona kufuneka uyixhome (kumgama kwisiqingatha semitha), i ngakumbi ke, ngenxa yoko, ngakumbi - 70cm. Zokudlala akufuneki kubuxhoma kuye rhoqo. Ukuba yisa Urhashaza, umntwana uya kukhangela kuphela emva ugqithiselo kwakhe, kodwa ukuba intloko yakhe.

Ukuzama ukufikelela isiphatho ukuya yokudlala, ukuba ukuchukumisa umntwana wakhe iqala kancinane emva koko, ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-2.5. Ukuphuhlisa lo buchule, kufuneka ukuxhoma izinto ngokwaneleyo, ngoko, ekuqaleni ukubamba ngempazamo kubo, yena uya kuba nemihlali baze bazabalazele ukuba bachukumise kwakhona kwaye kwakhona.

Ngokuyinika nolwazi olusisiseko ukuba umntwana kufuneka bakwazi leenyanga ezi-2, kunye neliso elibukhali, nayiphi na umama ukulandela uphuhliso yayo, ukuze ukuqaphela ukungangqinelani kwaye ubone yincutshe.