Siyaqonda ukuba zininzi izibambo indoda kunye nomfazi

Umntu unomdla wolwazi. Uninzi lwabantu banomdla kuphela ekufundeni into entsha, ukuzalisa ingqondo yabo ngolwazi olunomdla. Inomdla ngokukhethekileyo yinkcazo yeengxaki, ezihlala zibangelwa imbambano. Umzekelo, zingaphi iimbambo indoda kunye nomfazi.

Imithombo yombuzo

Kwindoda eqhelekileyo, ekubonweni kokuqala, akufuneki kuphakame imibuzo efanayo. Ekubeni, ngokufunda ngokugqibeleleyo yonke incwadi yesikolo yomntu wesintu, wonke umntu uya kuqonda ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini abanalo ukungafani kumzimba. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthetha kunye nabantu abanokwenkolo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxabano, nokuba umntu ofundele angafihla ingcamango: ngaba kunjalo, ngaba inani leembambo zilingana namadoda nabasetyhini?

EBhayibhileni

Wonke umntu uyayazi ibali lika-Adam noEva. UThixo wadala uMhlaba waza wagqiba ekubeni aphile iplanethi enhle kunye nezidalwa eziphilayo. Waqala wadala indoda, uAdam. Kodwa xa ebona ukuba ulahlekelwa yedwa, wagqiba kwelokuba adale isibini kuye - umfazi oya kuvelisa ulwalamano luka-Adam. Ekubeni isakhiwo sabantu siphelile, uThixo wayefanele aboleke umda omnye kuAdam kunye nawo udale isondo esahlukileyo. Engazi indlela yokuthuthuzela umntu osweleyo, uMdali wenza loo ntokazi inhle kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba u-Adam wayenombulelo kwaye akazange akhubekiswe ngento awayeyenzile. Nantsi imvelaphi yombuzo wembali iindubhi indoda kunye nomfazi. Emva koko, amakholwa (kwaye, ngokwenene, abantu abangafundanga) baya kuqinisekisa ukuba amadoda anemivumba embalwa kunabesifazane. Oku, kwindlela, kubhalwe phantsi kwiKoran, ukuze amaSulumane aphinde akholelwe kule nyaniso.

Uphi inyaniso?

Ukuqonda ukuba zininzi izibambo indoda kunye nomfazi onokuyenza, ngoncedo lweencwadi eziqhelekileyo zokufunda, apho abantwana bafunda esikolweni. Kukho kubhalwe ngokucacileyo ukuba ummeli kaHomo Sapiens, i. Uluntu, kukho iimbambo ezingama-24, i. 12 ezibini zeembambo. Oku kwaziwa kwiXVI leminyaka, xa u-Andrei Vesaliy, uyise wesimo samanje, wenza iimpawu ezihlukeneyo zesondo ezahlukeneyo waza wachaza ukuba zingaphi izibambo indoda kunye nesibini ibhinqa.

Adam's Edge Syndrome

Kodwa kukho ukungafani nemithetho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntu angakwazi ukubala ezimbalwa izimbambo kunokuba kufaneleke. Kodwa ke, oku kunjalo, akuxhomekeke kwisini. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba le nto ibonakala ngokuqhelekileyo kubasetyhini, nangona amadoda anesibambo seshumi nantathu. Inyaniso efana neyonyango ibizwa ngokuba ngu "Adam's nerv syndrome". Inyaniso yokuba umntu uzalelwe ngaphandle kwesifuba esicacileyo ngokucacileyo: umntwana unesisipha seethambo, ekugqibeleni iyanzima, idibanisa kwaye ifake isifuba somntu omdala. Kodwa zonke iinkqubo emzimbeni womntu ngamnye zimele, ngoko kwenzeka ukuba kukho enye imbambo okanye ezimbini, kwaye ukuhlala nabo akulula. Iinkqubo ezingapheliyo zihlala ziphazamisa, cinezela kwizitho, zibangela ukuphazamiseka kwezicubu zezandla, kunye nokusebenza okungalunganga kwamalungu angaphakathi. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abanesifo sika-Adamov bahlala becetyiswa ukuba benze umsebenzi wokubakhupha, ukuze bagweme imiphumo emibi evela kumathambo angenakwenzeka. Kwaye kuphela ukuba kubekwe umgangatho osemgangathweni (iimbini ezili-12 zezimbambo), umntu ngamnye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumntu wesini, unokuziva eqinisekile kwaye enempilo. Ngoko, xa uphendula umbuzo malunga nokuba ungaphi na izibambo umfazi okanye umntu unayo, kuyimfuneko nje ukuba uqiniseke ngokuchanekileyo kokunyaniseka kwakhe kwaye ungathandabuzeki loo nto.