Relations Isini in Modern Society

Ukuba uthathe njengesiseko ingcaciso ingcamango "isini" kwidikshinari, oko kukuthi ngentetho evakalayo njenge "sex lwentlalo" thina, lo gama kanye "neentlobano zesini" kunokubonwa nobudlelwane kwezentlalo yoluntu, endingowakhe kwezini ezahlukeneyo eziphilayo. Ikakhulu ehlangana nabantu ziimpawu zobuntu ngengqondo, iimpawu zokuziphatha yomntu.

Oko kukuthi, ngendlela elula yabantu, singatsho ukuba ubudlelwane ngokwesini - ulwalamano non-ngesondo phakathi inkunzi nemazi ngokwengqiqo ebanzi yeli gama.

Kule iziqhulo ezintsha, eziqwenga ahlekisayo kwi monologues ezahlukeneyo isigqebelo, uThandeka kulo eqongeni kunye nomabonakude screens, umbuzo into ekuthethwa "logic ababhinqileyo" yaye "logic yomntu." La magama mabini abachasene, njengoko babesilwa kunye nabanye. Nangona umba 'logic' apha ayikho endaweni. Ngaloo Babemsinekela isini indlela yokuziphatha.

ubudlelwane Gender bangabi zilawulwe ngesondo ngokuzalana kunye nobume ekuhlaleni somntu, imfundo yakhe, imeko yakhe yemali, indawo yakhe yokuhlala. Ngokomzekelo, akukho namnye Ndamangaliswa into yokuba usomashishini abadala ubonakala umfazi oselula okanye inkosikazi ngaba, oko akusebenzi, akuthethi ukufunda, ayenzi nantoni na ngeenxa zonke endlwini, kodwa usoloko ufumana zexabiso zokutyela abahambela. Le ukwabiwa iindima kolu didi yoluntu wethu phantse eqhelekileyo. Noko ke, siyazikhohlisa ukucinga ukuba kwintsapho ezisemaphandleni eqhelekileyo mfazi uya kuba phezu evekini ukuhamba-hamba ingubo Posh eninzi, ulale kwaze kwaba semini baqesha ukucoca indlu ngumkhonzazana. Apha ngcinga kakhulu ezahlukeneyo iindima ngokwesini ebomini.

Mandulo ukwabiwa iindima ngokwesini eluntwini zidlala indima ebalulekileyo, kuba wanceda abantu ukuba asinde. Umuntu efanelekileyo indima inkosi, yaye umfazi ufanele ukuba ukubheka intando yayo yonke iminqweno yakhe. Yena - wayebalaselisa, mxhasi kunye umxhasi, Yena - ukuzikhusela, ixhomekeke nekhoboka abathobelayo. Mu kuya kwa nshita ingcamango "sex", igama elithi "isini" mihla ngokupheleleyo ufanisa ibhinqa amadoda kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, sivumele ukuba uthathe kwi kwisini akhawunti baze bafunde zayo neempawu ngokwasengqondweni, kodwa musa ukuvumela ukuba ukubathoba urhano of "ubuthathaka" besini ababhinqileyo.

Nangona isibakala sokuba abasetyhini kudala baboyisa eziphambili ngenxa yokuba umgangatho iindima lwangaphakathi nolwangaphandle zokuziphatha naqala ngakumbi ngokukhululekileyo eluntwini, ukuzibandakanya kuphela imisebenzi yekhaya, kodwa eqonda ngokwabo abafundile yimpumelelo obonakalayo yokuzinga elikhangeleka iingcinga of a eyomeleleyo (clever kunye nempumelelo) uhlobo oliduna kunye buthathaka (zisetyenziswe tenxileyo ngokugqithisileyo) obhinqileyo, kubonakala ngolwimi. Nikelani ingqalelo, kuba igama elithi "oqeqeshiweyo" okanye, umzekelo, "Librarian" - oyindoda, kodwa iinzame kukubizela na umfazi "oqeqeshiweyo" ( "unolayibrari") iyalila indlela eya "masculinize" kwayo, ayinike a mpawu njengendoda. Ngelo xesha, ukuba ukuguqula ilizwi ibhalwe ngegrama echanelekileyo kwaye ongeze ingcambu isimamva kunye esobukhomokazi isiphelo "professionalka", okanye "unolayibrari" - gama isandi kusisithuko. Le meko kudala ukulwa i-West, ukwenza utshintsho oluyimfuneko kule ntetho. Ngokomzekelo, ngolwimi German onke amagama anxulumene igama ofundelweyo kufuneka ifom obudoda kunye zobufazi nakanjani.

Indoda ukuba impazamo yegrama walidla nxamnye uhlobo noyinkazana ilizwi ekupheleni kumntu oyindoda, lweengxaki, esiwa phantsi urhano njenge ngokwesini, misogynist. Innocent (emehlweni ngummi avareji Russia) simke apha yokuziphatha baseYurophu inokuba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu. isindululo avulekile ukuba bafune uncedo psychoanalyst yeyona ezinqamlezeneyo ayifumaneki yokugcina yokulwa loo yokuziphatha anti-zentlalo. Oku sisiphumo umzabalazo kokulingana ngokwesini eYurophu indlela kuthintelo ubundlobongela obujoliswe koomama.
Ngelo xesha kucacile ukuba nayiphi ukungazi yaseYurophu uninzi lwabemi zethu kwimiba kwingcingane kunye nokulingana ngokwesini. Ukuyibetha ngoyaba le umthetho ukulingana phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi, "intloko-ntsapho" eRashiya udla ingqalelo ukuziphatha eqhelekileyo ukuthuka, ukuhlazisa abo 'ezinye isiqingatha. " Amaninzi kwiintsapho ezinjalo kukho gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni kunye self-ukuzicenta. Oboyikisayo ayikho nditsho into yokuba eli suschestvet nesenzeko, kodwa umphakathi ophatha kuye abathile ukungakhathali.

Noko ke, ukuba imiswe kakuhle iingcinga yesini ukwenza abemi bethu ukuba ngoyaba into yokuba ubundlobongela phakathi kosapho zidla phantsi amadoda nabafazi babo. Ukususela ekuzalweni, amakhwenkwe bafundiswa ukuba amantombazana ukuba zingandenzakalisi - kuba ababuthathaka. ubudlelwane ngokwesini ezifana entsatsheni kukhokelela kukuba nokukhula kunye nokufumana "phantsi isithende" umhlobo yobomi, amanye amadoda ngamanye amaxesha esidlangalaleni oniqhwabayo kuthukwa, ukungabinako (ngaphezu kwabo bonke - zengqondo) ukuzikhusela ngokwabo.

E Melika, kukho ingxaki kakhulu malunga nobudlelwane ngokwesini. Jikelele eyaziwa ngokuba amabango amalungelo ukulingana ngokupheleleyo. Nesigqibo seengcinga isicelo enkundleni kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu udlula inenekazi phambili ukuthuthwa okanye ukuvula ucango.

Ngoko ke, ingcamango "neentlobano zesini" libhekisela sphere zentlalo, impefumlelwano ngokwesini zebhayoloji, kodwa iingxaki zakhe ezisukela izifundo kwengqondo ngokwesini.