Qiniseka ukuba ukuxelela abantwana bakho yonke imihla!

amampunge Awe luyabanyanzela abazali ukuxelela abantwana babo kuphela zochuku zasekhaya. Wena uphindaphinda into enye, wakhohlwa ebalulekileyo. Yintoni ngokwenene udinga ukuva umntwana kaninzi? Phonononga amabinzana ezibonakala iingcali ezibalulekileyo bengqondo umntwana. Kufuneka baxelele rhoqo!

"Unjani na?"

Mhlawumbi lo mbuzo kakuhle ukuba kuphela ungabeka umntwana. Uvula umnyango kwincoko kwaye ivumela usana ukuqonda ukuba ubonisa umdla ubuntu bakhe. Oku komeleza ukuzimela umntwana. Ngokubuza lo mbuzo, unceda umntwana wakho isigqibo iminqweno yakhe nokwabelana iimvakalelo. Ukongeza, umbuzo onjalo ufuna ukukhuthaza abafundi bacinge ezibalulekileyo. Abanye abazali bavakalelwa kukuba kufuneka ukusombulula zonke iingxaki umntwana, kodwa umbuzo linokuzalisa imikhosi yakhe. Xa umntwana uthi ufuna ndisele, akathi le ngxaki. Ukuba ithe ayaba izisombululo, unako onika iingcebiso. Oku kubhetele kunokuba nangoko ukuthobela isicelo kid.

"Wena ezilungileyo!"

Ukuba usoloko uxelele umntwana into elungile, oko iba yinto eyenzeka ngokwenene. Zama ukuba uqaphele yonke imisebenzi elungileyo kid yakho, phawula oko ngokuvakalayo. Ukuba uxelele umntwana wakho into elungile, kusinceda ukuba abe omdala nabonwabileyo oziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Promotion of ububele unika iziphumo ephawulekayo kwixesha elide.

"Nceda" yaye "enkosi"

Ukuba ufuna bakuphathe ngentlonelo, baziphathe ngokufanelekileyo. Zama usoloko usebenzisa amagama "nceda" yaye "enkosi." Kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumzekelo omhle, ngokuba ngoko umntwana wakho uya aziphathe ngendlela efanayo yaye ziya kusoloko sikhumbule umbulelo.

"Ndicela uxolo"

Mhlawumbi oku akukho nto ufuna yonke imihla, khumbula nje, kubalulekile ukuba uxolo abantwana, ukuba unetyala into. Ukuba uxolo, ubonisa indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba noxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Izingxengxezo emva kokuba kuphume ngokwakho, okanye wenze impazamo, oko kunceda ukudala ubuhlobo trust.

"Nice zama!"

Xelela abantwana ukuba babe kahle, ukuba oku kuyinyaniso. indumiso ongenanto akuthethi ukuhlola umgudu. Kulungile ukuba badumise xa ngokwenene ukubona ukuba lo mntwana ifunyenwe, ngoko kuya kuba izizathu iinzame ezithe vetshe. Kwakhona, ufanele wazi ukuba indumiso asikusebenzeli abanye abantwana. Kuhlolwa ngabanye kwaye aziphathe ngokufanelekileyo. Unako kwakhona uthethe nabantwana ngelixa ehamba nezinja okanye ekhwele kunye emotweni. Iliso zoqhagamshelwano kunokubangela umdla kakhulu, ngoko uye nje ecaleni - oko kuvumela umntwana ukuvula up.

"Ndiyakuthanda xa u ..."

Abazali kufuneka ukuchonga ezo izenzo abayithandayo. Gxininisa ezibekile, iitalente, ububele kunye ukubonisa uphawu. Xela into oyithandayo, xa unceda umntwana okanye xa uziphethe kakuhle kunye nezalamane. Zama ukuba uqaphele into elungileyo yonke imihla. Kulula nje ukuba bagxeke into andiyithandi kuwe. Noko ke, nkqu utshintsho encinci kwenza umahluko omkhulu kwindlela umntwana uyazikhangela.

"Ndiyambulela kakhulu into yokuba"

Kubalulekile ukuba uxelele abantwana indlela ongazenzisiyo wena oko nabo. Siyabonga kubonisa inqanaba ekhethekileyo uthando kunye nenkxaso.

"Bekunjani?"

Abazali bathi lukhulu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuba kungcono ukuvumela umntwana ndithethe. Buza njani imini yakhe, uze uphulaphule ngenyameko. Oku akuthethi ngawe - ukuhlawula ingqalelo koko lokuphazamisa usana. Nokuba ucinga ukuba osisiyatha, okanye akuvumelani uluvo lwakhe, imbono abaninzi abantwana. Musa ukuyisebenzisa ne efowunini okanye kwi laptop yakho.

"Ndiyazi ukuba unako ukukwenza oko"

Vumela umntwana ukwenza iimpazamo zabo, kusisipho lubalaseleyo onokuyenza. Ukuba itakane ugqiba iingxaki zayo kancinane, olungiselela ngayo neengxaki ezinkulu ebomini abadala. Mxelele umntwana wakho ukuba ilungile; ngokuba abona ukuba akwazi kakhulu. Mhlawumbi kubonakale ukuba isisisombululo kwiingxaki zabantwana - indlela yokubonisa uthando, noko, ngenxa yokuba musa ukuvumela ukuba bazuze ukuzithemba.

"Le iglasi izele sisiqingatha"

Yonke imihla ungakwazi ukuguqula into embi ibe eyakhayo. Ukuba ufundisa abantwana ngokwahlukileyo kukhangela ezimbi, baya kusebenzisa eli qhinga kubo bonke ubomi bakhe. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ngathi ukuba kukho into elungileyo kuphela ehlabathini, nje uzame ukuqonda iingxaki kwaye sifune izisombululo.

"Ndiyakuthanda!"

Oku kubacacele, kodwa abanye abantwana ukuva kaninzi ngokwaneleyo. Abazali kufuneka ukubonisa kuphela uthando izenzo, kodwa ukuthetha ngqo malunga naloo nto. Mazwi amandla amakhulu, ukuba ndiphilise okanye buhlungu, ukukhuthaza okanye atshabalalise. Ngamanye amaxesha, nje ngokwaneleyo ukuba uthini uthando lwakhe ukugcwalisa ulonwabo zomntwana.

"Ndizithanda nam"

Kubalulekile ukuba uxelele abantwana ukuba uyabathanda, kodwa kubaluleke ngokulinganayo ukubonisa kunye self-uthando. Xa uzijonga esipilini, zama ukuba bakhe bachaze ukuba yintoni oyithandileyo oko akubona. Musa kugxininisa inyaniso yokuba kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuba utshintshe. Bonisa umntwana wakho ukuba uyazithanda - oku eqhelekileyo.

"Ndiyakuthanda ukubukela kwakho ukudlala"

Abazali Loud abasoloko walungisa izenzo womntwana umemelele, azikho nje yimpumelelo nalawo nje kukhumbuza abantwana ukuba bathanda ukubukela kubo. Akukho nto ke Ususa umdlalo uvuyo, njengokuba ulawulo lomzali esisigxina. Musa bazibandakanye kwaye ingqalelo iimfuno zomntwana.

"Akuyomfuneko ukuba ube ngumhlobo wabantu bonke"

Kufuneka ukukhumbuza abantwana ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ube nabahlobo kunye bonke. Ngaxeshanye kufuneka sikhunjuzwe ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ngobubele. Evaluation and imivuzo - zibalulekile, kodwa umntu akazi ukuba njani nobubele kwabanye, ayiyi kuphumelela. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuze ndiphilisane ngoxolo nabanye, ngaphandle up iimfuno zabo.

"Wena ke musa ukwenza uthando"

uthando olungenamiqathango - yingcamango enzima, kunjalo, kufuneka uzame ukuba ayizise. Mxelele umntwana wakho ukuba usoloko uya kumthanda, yena akuyomfuneko ukuzama ukufumana uvakalelo lwakho. Kubalulekile ukuba itakane wayesazi malunga noku kwaye ukhumbule ukuba zonke izenzo zakho siqhutywa luthando.

"Yinto KULUNGILE"

Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba baqonde ukuba ukusilela - oko kulungile. Kufuneka nje ukuzama on! Ukuba into alizange lisebenze, nceda umntwana wakho musa utyhafe.

"Akukho mntu ngcono okanye babambekile kunawe"

Fundisa abantwana ukuba ukuzithelekisa nabanye. Akufuneki kubagweba abantu ingeniso, isini, ibala, okanye ngabazali. ubomi babantu obubaluleke kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kufuneka iqondwe.

"Yintoni na usebenza?"

Bukela umntwana wakho uze ubuze imibuzo ekhokelayo, kusivumela ukuba aqonde ukuba unomdla. Musa ukunyanzelisa abantwana ukuba bafunde okanye ukwenza imathematika, babandulula babonisa umdla wabo kwaye unomdla kuphela inkqubela eyenziwe.

"Ngaba kuyithanda loo nto?"

Ngaba ukufuna indumiso engenanto. Ukuba umntwana ucela ukuba ungathanda ukuba umzobo wakhe, cela ukuba wanelisekile yiyo yena. Xela izinto ezithile, umzekelo, njengoko unako ukubona imigudu okanye kangakanani ungathanda ukusebenzisa umbala.

uthemba inkqubo

Ngoko ke, ngoku uyazi indlela yokunxibelelana umntwana. Noko ke, nje zama ukuthemba ngokwakho. Musa ukulindela ukuba umntwana ukuba aziphathe omdala, kodwa khumbula: yenzeka yonke imihla. Musa ukucinga ukuba ngenxa yamazwi akho aya kuba ngokukhawuleza. Ngcembe ukuthembana kunye nentlonipho. Kwaye hayi uvalo kakhulu. LweMfundo yaBantwana Child - umzuzu ekhethekileyo ngabazali bakhe, yaye ngaloo ndlela Siyalivuyela eli xesha yaye sibunandiphe.