Okubi - isici yoluvo okanye ngezifo; yintoni na ubumbaxa kwekota?

Njengoko nkcazelo jikelele, ubugqwetha - olu luvo ubugqwetha okanye anomaly kulo msebenzi, oko kukuthi ecaleni nemvelo okanye ubuhlungu yokuziphatha, uhlobo ngesondo imigangatho eyamkelwe eluntwini kunye nenkcubeko, zawo izimilo, imithetho, imimiselo. Inkcazo enxamnye iwela ukungaqondi amagama kunye nemithetho aqhelekileyo.

Ngu obubonakala ubugqwetha isikhundla psyche kwabantu, apho kukho ukunqongophala kwabasebenzi abafanelekileyo, okanye uhlaba iimvakalelo zabantu, eziziimpawu kukho indlela ethile yokuziphatha. Ukunqongophala kolwazi okulungileyo nokubi uchazwa ngokuba impambano okubi bomntu.

okubi ngokwesini: ubunzima yokufumanisa

okubi ngokwesini kuthetha ukuba nokuhluthwa inkanuko yesini kunye nendlela kuzaliseka. Ngokubonakala zokutenxa ngokwesondo luphawulwa iimpawu zokuziphatha nendlela abayibona ngayo inyaniso, ngenxa enokuba ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ubudlelwane, kwakunye nezinto eziphathekayo - kukwenzakala, ukusetyenziswa zenkuthazo kunye neziyobisi. Ngokufuthi okubi ngokwesini ukuthatha indawo-phantsi ngenxa yezizathu zokugula ngengqondo, umzekelo, kuba ngesifo sengqondo.

Igama elithi "enxamnye ngokwesondo 'inzondo ekuhambeni izazinzulu zokufunda ukungaqheleki ezifuna unyango. Ukubangela ukuphazamiseka ethintela ukuphunyezwa yengqesho, ukusebenzisana kwezentlalo, ebangela ukubandezeleka. Ukuxambulisana ukuba uhlaba enjalo, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba amayeza akusoloko kusenzeka umahluko ocacileyo phakathi norms and ngezifo engqondweni. Ukuba ukuziphatha ngamnye awuhambisani ngeekhrayitheriya yenkcubeko yokuziphatha yoluntu, kufuneka sithethe kwezimilo zonyango kunye nolwaphulo elisemthethweni "nxamnye nezifo."

Nangona kunjalo, bonke nto ilula kakhulu. Umzekelo, ubudala ngabanye nga zizakujongwa njengo oqolileyo ngokwesondo kunye dopubertatnogo. Ngoko ke, kwimeko Sasso zingenakuqinisekiswa kuphela ubudala, ukugqwethwa okanye hayi, kuba umnqweno ngokwalo akukho sifo xa kungekho ukubandezeleka engqondweni, okanye ukuphunyezwa umnqweno koko bakwenzayo.

Oonobangela kunye neempawu

Ngokutsho umhlaziyi, neengcambu ezinxaxhileyo ngokwesini zivela ebuntwaneni, phantsi zokuziphatha zesini kuphindwa, akukho ntlawulo zinokutshintshwa. Ngokutsho kwenye inguqulelo, ukufiphala okuqonda ngokwesondo - ziziphumo trauma uzibulele ebuntwaneni.

okubi ngokwesini - sisiphumo izinto ezininzi, kuquka oku kulandelayo:

• kuhlaziswa isohlwayo ngabazali;
• ubundlobongela ngokwesondo;
• Uloyiko umsebenzi ngokwesondo;
• izifo psychosexual;
• igalelo kwezentlalo;
• kotywala ngendlela engeyiyo;
• izizathu nokomzimba.

Namhlanje, iingcali liqulunqe uluhlu ezinye isini engaqhelekanga:

• Narratofiliya ibandakanya excitation engaziva ukuva banalities okanye amabinzana ezingcolileyo.
• Piktofiliya - into ephambene, njengoko apho umntu evuya ukubukela imifanekiso, endaweni besini okukhethwayo.
• Mehanofiliya - nomdla zesini iindlela kunye njengaye isantya.
• Pyrophyllite - ukufumana ulonwabo ngokwesondo kwi phambi komlilo.
• Podofiliya - buhlobene ngeenyawo-ngalinye lizimele, nto leyo luphawulwa zokuthanda iintende zeenyawo.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunyanga ephambene ngokwesondo

Kufuneka ke ukuba ingxaki abupheleli phantsi kweliso ukuphazamiseka zeengcali engqondweni ukuze ukwahlula ukufiphala kwisiqhelo, oko kube nzima ukuba isigulane ekufihleni ngenyameko sifo ukusuka kwindawo yayo. Woyika bhengezo kunye nezohlwayo mthetho. Ngenxa yokuba ukuziphatha ezinjalo ziya kuphela sifo.

Ukuba unobangela enxamnye ngokwesondo - okanye umothuko okanye ngezifo, olu luvo efanele ulungiso ngoncedo eyingcali, wengqondo, sexologist, utyando kunye nezinye iindlela zonyango.

Kuphela uhlengahlengiso ngqo umguli unyango obude ngendlela kuquka ubuchule ngokwasengqondweni ngengqwalasela ngokubonakala kukho ingcinezelo ezaneleyo yobuntu kunye mpilweni kungakhokelela ekubeni iziphumo ezincumisayo. Ngelishwa, okudambisa gqiba yobuntu ngokwayo, kodwa musa ukubeka ecaleni orientation yesigulane. Unyango lubandakanya ingqalelo yokuqala ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, uthintelo ukuphazamiseka zonxibelelwano, uthintelo urhwaphilizo.

Igama elithi "enxamnye" linentsingiselo yesibini - bezama ukuzigqwetha (misquote) amagama umntu kaThixo, umthetho, intsingiselo oko kwakuthethwa. Ntonye athi inokuba ibinzana - "jika ubuso phantsi", okanye ukuphazamiseka ngabom.