Ntwana, kuba umntu owenza kufana

Ukususela ngoko, kamsinya nje kuba lemuka ukukhulelwa siganeko, ubomi lwabazali elizayo kutshintsha kakhulu. Akumangalisi ke iliso engabonakaliyo ummangaliso ubomi obutsha ibizwa ngegama lika ukuba akukho namnye okumgangatho abazali bayabandakanyeka kucwangciso bengqondo ngesondo, iingcombolo zangaphandle kunye neempawu zokomoya indoda elizayo. Kodwa wonke umntu omtsha ukugaywa ezohlukileyo yaye eyesithathu. Unique, nangona umbuzo onikwe umntwana efanayo, kwiiyantlukwano ezininzi ( "i umfanekiso kokutshica lento!" "Mama apho kwaye musa ukuvala!") Iya kuba lixesha elide ukuba balandele abazali abatsha. Njengoko ukuba luchaphazela, okuzakuthatha ubomi bakhe.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuqikelela ubomi umntwana?

Izazi zithi - ewe! Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banyanisile. Umbuzo ngulo, ngaba kufuneka umntu sazi ukuba ikamva umntwana wakhe? Kubonakala ukuba njalo nangoku bakholelwa ukuba kuya kuba uya kuba yintoni, kwaye akukho wumbi. Kodwa ukwazi abaza kuzalwa, ukuba lowo uthanda ntoni iimpawu kunye nosapho italente show ilifa ngokuhamba kwexesha - ngezinye umdla ubuncinane. Kwaye, ngokwazi oku, uyakwazi ukucwangcisa inkqubo yemfundo. Enyanisweni, imfundo yahluke gqitha ukusuka kwimfundo choleric sanguine kunye apile emithini apile ziye zaziwa ukuvala phantsi, yaye ukuba unyana notata wakhe olungileyo-natured yaye ezolile, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unyana uya kukhula kwi phlegmatic efanayo.

Akukho mfuneko unokuthekelela, kungcono ukuba wazi ngqo

Wazi njani ngubani kuba njengomntwana: upopu, unina okanye umakazi kabini isuswe ukusuka Ulan-Ude? Enyanisweni, ulwazi zifundo eziphilayo kunye nemiba engundoqo neyintsusa yemfuza iya kuba yanele ukuzama "ubale", nawuphi na umntu ufana ukuba azalwe. Inye kuphela ... Yiba ukulungele ukuthatha zonke iintlobo mismatches enoburharha ngokwenene sase-. Kwaye fashion uye - kanye ukuba bathwale ethembekile kwakhe iDNA test, waza ke waya ngqo kwijelo yokuqala, ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo ihlabathi ukuba unalo ukungaqondani kwenzeke. Nceda ukhumbule ukuba kukho iimeko bonke ubulawuli, kwaye ukuba akucaci ukuba nabani na efana nonyana okanye intombi, awukwazi ayakwamkela yokuba sele umntwana ezizodwa wazalwa.

Ngokubanzi, kukho inkolelo yokuba intombi yakhe ayithandayo isoloko ngathi abazali kunye noonyana - komama.

Engqina ukuba ingaba inzululwazi le nto? Yaye isibakala le nto?

Kuphela ngenxalenye. Boys zidla wazalwa ezifana mummies. Kutheni? Oku kuyaqondakala. Njengoko siye sikhumbule ukusuka kwizifundo biology, owazalwa intombazana ndoqhayisa into yokuba umama kunye notata ebolekiweyo X-zofuzo ezimbini, ukuba ngandlela ithile inika kungenzeka ukuba usana kuba zombini umama kunye notata. Ngoko ke, impendulo ecacileyo ukuba ngubani ongathanda amantombazana, nkqu enyanisweni ibe ngokuzalwa nzima. Kwaye ngenene kwangaphambili oko ngaphandle kwenkxaso kwamanye ulwazi ngokubanzi umsebenzi ngongenambulelo.

Nabafana ibali eyahlukileyo kancinane. Nge Amathuba aphezulu kokuba Kungaphikiswa ukuba unyana wakhe wayeza khangela ngathi (ngaphandle) kunina. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba umama yena eboleka X chromosome, futhi upapa - Y-chromosome. Kunye nomama yam X chromosome, bongani uMdali, kwamiselwa ukuba baphendule ukuba iimpawu lwangaphandle umntu. Ngoko ke, la makhwenkwe badla ezizalelwa ezifana oomama. Nangona ingekho-100%, kunjalo.

Umzekelo, iimpawu zobuso kunokuba yoomama, kunye nombala amehlo - uyise. Baqonde apha, umntu ufana.

Kazi ndiya kuba yintoni na amehlo omntu omtsha?

Lo mbuzo kuphendulwa phantse ngokucacileyo into yokuba: i mnyama umbala iliso lomzali, kokukhona ilinganisa ukuba nokwenzeka kokuba unyana okanye intombi ilifa lo mbala - olawulayo.

Kodwa apha kakhulu zikhona ezinye iindlela. Umzekelo, Tata, siye ezihle abrawuni. Nomama - blue-uneso blonde. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana ka-75% ithuba lokuba babe amehlo kayise Brown. Kutheni 100%? Ngenxa yokuba zofuzo umzali ngamnye ababini. Yaye akukho yokuba bobabini zofuzo zooyise akukho balahlekile ulwazi ngokobuhlanga yakhe ngukhokho abanamehlo aluhlaza. Kolimo zofuzo - oko ke akucingeleki, umama kunye notata oyintanda!

Ke ukuba nobabini - qhinga kunye angwevu okanye aluhlaza, kuza ezithile nabo abantwana bakho baya kuba blue-eyed okanye zizimvi amehlo. Uhlobo phandle ukuba uyathanda, njengaye nawuphi na umntu.

A ukukhula go nye?

Ngako oko, nayiphi ukukhula kuya kuzalwa umntu isigqibo lula kancinci. Elisebenza uluhlu lwemithetho yemfuza phantse ngaphandle kokukhetha. Iinketho zezi zilandelayo:

• Ukuba bobabini abazali abade, oonyana babo ziya kuba mde. kuhle mhlawumbi nokuba mde ngakumbi mde kubo.
• Ukuba bobabini abazali zimfutshane, phantse ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana lungakhuli nayiphi na kuzo. Noko ke, linokuba sezantsi kakhulu ukuba kuya kuba ngaphantsi kwanala lomzali.
• Ukuba umzali omnye phezu komnye, ukukhula komntwana, ngokuqhelekileyo ime kwinqanaba le-avareji phakathi uMama noTata.

Ngokubanzi, umama kunye notata dear, ngoko ngokwenene kubalulekile ukuba umntu okhangela nje?! Ngakumbi kubaluleke, nokuba ukuzalwa bonwabile. Ke ukuba inkqubo ibe ukuphakama, iliso umbala kunye uAbhishagi nezinyuko asinakukwazi, ngoko siyifukamile uyayiqonda intsingiselo yobomi wazi ixabiso ithamsanqa yakhe emihle. Ukuba kuphela asiyi amanxuwa akho la, bakhe amabutho engenanto.