Kwiinyanga ezininzi ngayo umntwana iqala agukat? Sifunda!

baby Little ngoko nangoko emva kokuzalwa nawuphi na umama ibonakala amazwe. Kwaye ngokupheleleyo nje kuphela "isithuba" njenge kuzalwa - umntwana akakwazi noko ngokuzimeleyo nokunxibelelana ngokupheleleyo kunye nehlabathi engqongileyo. iimvakalelo zabo noloyiko iveza ukukhala xa befuna xa kwaziswa malunga iintlungu okanye ngenkxamleko, okanye ukuba ufuna umama elandelayo. Kodwa emva kwixesha elincinci, kwaye kakhulu ayanda yaba nkulu wosana. Eqalisa ukuba 'ukuthetha', kodwa ngolwimi lwabo. Ngoko ke, zingaphi iinyanga umntwana iqala agukat?

konke kuxhomekeke phezu komntwana ngamnye, kakade. Kukho abantwana-nabakhohlisi ngubani nje kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa mnandi ukuthetha nomama wakhe kunye gulyat. Kwaye apho, phezu koko, Silent, ogama unina lithemba nje ukuthetha ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu okanye nangaphezulu. Kodwa avareji, zingaphi iinyanga umntwana iqala agukat?

Kukholelwa ukuba umba wokuqala ezinjalo izandi nabaqingqayo baqale malunga neenyanga ezimbini. Ke ukulala kunye kuvukwe kwi usana uqalisa iguqulwe kancinane. Ukuba ngoko nangoko emva kokuzalwa komntwana uninzi belele, lokuvula amehlo akhe kuphela izidlo kunye neenkqubo ezinxulumene, iinyanga ezimbini kamva, sele uqalisa wenu omncinane ukuvavanya ihlabathi nokunxibelelana. Ukuba uhlawula ingqalelo, kweli phakade, abantwana abaninzi andixoki nje log in a stroller okanye indlwana - ukuba zihlolwe, ephethe izandla zabo neenyawo, basabela njani iingxolo elikhulu kunye nendlela abanye.

Liliphi ixesha agukayut abantwana akuxhomekekanga kuphuhliso lwabo. Kunoko, ucaciswe ngeempawu zobuqu kunye nesimilo. Ngoko ke Sukubanexhala ukuba umntwana wakho akhule ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbini, kodwa ke ngeenkani wahlala cwaka xa uzama ukuthetha kuye, akukho mfuneko. Maxa wambi, kuya kuqalisa kwaye gulit. Ukongezelela, hayi zonke iintsana kuthiwa canon "Agu". Ngokubanzi, izandi ukuba ukunxibelelana nehlabathi, oko zahlukile kakhulu: ukuphulaphula, mhlawumbi usana lwakho eyahlukileyo nje "ukuthetha." Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuva emlonyeni umntwana "Agu" ukufundisa njani agukat umntwana? Okokuqala, kufuneka kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uthethe usana lwakho. Xa ekuqaleni jikelele, ithambile nokuthantamisa ukuncokola naye ukuba kwanangaphambi kokuzalwa. Usana kokuba kusetyenziswa ilizwi bonina, kwaye igxininisa okokuqala emva kokuzalwa. A abantwana abancinane ngokukhawuleza bafunde omnye ukuxelisa abadala, kwaye ukuba uya rhoqo agukat xa ukutshintsha okanye zezondlo nje imidlalo itakane, uya kungekudala aqale ukuphinda izandi ukuba ushicilele. Kodwa le nto inokwenzeka hayi kwiinyanga ezimbini, kodwa kamva. Ngoko ke inxenye yawo, kwindlela ezininzi iinyanga umntwana iqala agukat, nayo ixhomekeke kuwe.

Kodwa ngokubanzi, hayi nelebhokhwe othanda, Kakade ke, uphuhliso wayo kulinganiswa. Kwaye ngoko, zingaphi iinyanga umntwana iqala agukat, akukho ngxelo misebenzi yakhe, okanye, icala, le osemva. Zama ukunxibelelana umntwana, ukwenza imithambo kunye naye badlale imidlalo zemfundo - yaye uya akunanze wena yonke imihla kunye nezakhono ezitsha kunye izandi echukumisayo.