Njengokuba kuphawuliwe umntwana ezimnyaka mnye, ukuba bonke kwaba mnandi?

Ukuze abazali, isikhumbuzo kakhulu yokuqala ebalulekileyo kubomi umntwana - lisoloko kubangela inkxalabo. Akuthandabuzeki ukuba, wonke umntu ufuna ukwenza oku holide ukuze ukhumbule, yaba icocekile kwaye engaqhelekanga, ngoko ingxoxo yendlela ukuphawula umntwana konyaka omnye ubudala, intsapho uqala elide phambi kokuba mbhiyozo. Thina bancoma ukuba amalungiselelo igumbi apho mbhiyozo uya kuqhubeka, ugalele zokudlala kunye nebhaluni. Ugxininiso kufuneka kwenziwe isafobe lowo kufuneka nebhongo ukwazisa bonke kubhiyozela nje wokuzalwa, a Godik kuqala!

Akusoloko kucetyiswa ukuba enze umcimbi onjalo cafe okanye yokutyela - usana nje lokuqoshelisa phambi sabasemzini, abantu abatsha kuyo, nto leyo eya ootitshala kunye nabadlali inxaxheba congratulation. Nangona zonke meko isoloko ngamnye, ngoko ungakhetha ukuba bamakishe njani umntwana konyaka omnye ubudala, kumele, kuthathelwa ingqalelo inqanaba lophuhliso kunye nohlobo lokuzalwa. Musa ukulibala ukuba eli phakade abantwana ndidinwe ngokukhawuleza, ngoko zama ukuba ndimaphule inkqubo show kwi yinxalenye ze uyinike abanye phakathi kwabo.

Eyona ndlela nenzuzo yendlela ukuphawula umntwana omdala unyaka omnye, ikhaya party. Eqhelekileyo umoya baby buyasikhulula kuye. Kusasa kufuneka babe nokuthantamisa kunye naye, avuyisane naye, kwanokuba ayiqalisi ukuqonda oko lokuzalwa. Lungiselela ngengubo ngenxa yokuzalwa, kungcono ukuba azikhethele yona. zinokuhonjiswa Indlu, eyongeziweyo lobeko ngeebhola kunye zokudlala kuhle apha. Xa xa kuhanjiswa kwetafile musa ukulibala ukongeza kwamalweyile engayiwayo, unako ukuthenga isidlo esikhethekileyo, onepateni weendawo. Yongeza ompe kungenziwa bewasa izitya ngohlobo izilwanyana ezincinane okanye izinambuzane, abantwana baya kuba ngabazithandayo kuyo.

Ukuze ufumane iholide yokwenene, qiniseka ukuba bacinge ifoto eyenye, lokudubula movie. Ngapha koko, indlela uphawu umntwana konyaka omnye ubudala, hayi sikhumbula zonke ezo zihlandlo fabulous? Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba umlinganiswa ophambili yena, kuzo zonke kwisakhelo ebusweni bakhe kuyimfuneko. Kuba iindwendwe nga Stock up on caps leeholide. Yenza ipowusta enkulu kunye iifoto wosana kunyaka wayo wokuqala wobomi, makabe ukushiya yonke iminqweno yabo.

Yenza cake ezintle. Qinisa okanye ndenzele kwi iresiphi kakhulu cala kunye cream kancinane. Qiniseka ukuba bayihombise yedinichku uze uncede umntwana wakho ukuba avuthele umlilo. Eli siko ke uya kukhunjulwa kwaye ziya nomxhelo owonwabileyo. Ukuze isigqibo ukuphawula indlela umntwana kunyaka-1 ubudala, akukho mfuneko ukwakha izicwangciso amakhulu. Mncinane kakhulu, musa asidinwa yena kakhulu. Kufuneka kube mnandi kuloo ndawo kuye kuqala, ukuze udlale, umdaniso, kuquka umculo yabantwana, kodwa musa ukulibala amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze amnike ukuphumla.

Cwangcisa isipho. Khumbula, mhlawumbi umntwana njengaye nawuphi na ivenkile zokudlala okanye ezinye? Qiniseka ukuba uzame ukumkholisa, kubalulekile kakhulu. Njengokuba kuphawuliwe unyaka umntwana ubudala - ekhaya okanye a cafe - ugqiba, ungakwazi ukuqala fun ekhaya, uze uye ndawonye epakini okanye kumabala emidlalo abantwana ezizodwa bakhe. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba yokuzalwa bekumnandi yaye bekhululekile.