Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni ukuba badle?

Lo mbuzo umdla abasetyhini abaninzi kunye namantombazana rhoqo babe nolwalamano olusenyongweni kunye besini esahlukileyo. Ukwanda umdla ibizwa ngokuba yinto elula. Into yokuba umzimba umfazi wakhe ukuze walungiselela ukuba ixesha ukuba ukukhawula umntwana abe phantsi ngokwaneleyo, oko kukuthi, mayingabi sakhululwa kuncitshiswa ukuba ubuncinane, oko kukuthi lincitshiswe. Kodwa ke, musani ukuyixhalela! Oogqirha bathi ukuba wabelane ngesondo rhoqo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni phambi kwabo liphezulu kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, inkunzi kunye nebhunga nemazi zicwangciswe ukuze nokukhulelwa kungavela ukuba ngesondo ngendlela ikhondom. Ukuziqhelisa zonyango, iimeko ezinjalo ingaqhelekanga. Kakade ke, xa usebenzisa ithuba ikhondom lokuba ukhulelwe iphantsi kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba unamathela indlela ikhalenda wokhuseleko, ithuba lokuba "ukubaleka" liphezulu kakhulu.

Umngcipheko uhlale khona

Ngokubanzi, ukuze bazi ukuba yintoni na ukuba akhulelwe ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni okanye hayi, kufuneka zingeniswe, apho iintsuku kukho ingozi enkulu. Ezi ntsuku kuthiwa yingozi. Bangakwazi nje kucinywa, yaye ngoko nangoko ukufumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo malunga nokuba yintoni na ukuba akhulelwe ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni, yaye xa ngesondo abaya kuthathelwa ingqalelo ezikhuselekileyo. Ngokubanzi, oogqirha kunye sexologists bathi imihla eliphantsi "phezulu" kusenokwenzeka ukuba. Ba ezincinane, nangaphandle, ukuba abakhuselekanga ukuba wonke. Ngaphezu koko, neentlobano zesini kwezi ntsuku, kakhulu, asikwazi kuba bamkelekile kubantu bonke. Ukuba badidekile, ngoku iza kuzama ukuyicacisa. umjikelezo wokuya kwabasetyhini, idla i-avareji leentsuku eziyi-28. Asiyi kuhamba ngoku iincindi zamadlala ukuwalawula, ngoko cinga kuphela izigaba. Eyokuqala (sexesheni) idla ekugqibeleni ethile ngomhla-14 intombazana okanye umfazi oye ovulation kwenzeka iqanda, leyo ilungele izichumiso. Ukuba (kwezichumiso) hayi yenziwa ngexesha lasemini, iqanda itshabalele. Kakade ke, kweli xesha liseleyo ngaphambi kokuba lungenzeki ukumitha ngenyanga. Oku kuphakamisa umbuzo osemthethweni malunga ukuba ubude bexesha apho intombazana ukhulelwa mncane (malunga ngemini), ukuze ukwazi ngesondo ngaphandle koloyiko ukuba bekuya kuba kungenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni? Ithiyori - injalo loo nto, kwaye kancinane inzima kakhulu practice.

Awu, lo omzimba enzima!

Asazi ithathele ingqalelo into yokuba isidoda amandla. Kanye isibeleko okanye iityhubhu Imibhobho, aphile ukuya kwiintsuku ezisi-7. Kubonakala ukuba angene nolwalamano olusenyongweni akanakuba iintsuku ezi-5 phambi kokuba ovulation. Ngoku, indawo yesibini. Ovulation nga kakhulu kancinane ngaphambi ukuqala ngaphezu kweeveki ezimbini uze uhlale obonakalayo. Kwaye phambili ayisayi kuba nako ukufunda. Ngenxa yoko, umngcipheko wokungenwa okhulelweyo ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni. Okokugqibela, le ngongoma yesithathu. Kubonakala ukuba emveni kweentsuku 22 kukho ithuba ukubhabha. Noko ke, ukukhulelwa kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba sexesheni ngokwaneleyo kulula. Into yokuba ngamanye amaxesha umzimba yomfazi uvelisa amaqanda amabini, nokuba abe mnye. Kwaye kulo mzekelo, bazalwa amawele dvuhyaytsevye. Ngamanye amazwi, kusenokunyanzeleka, ukuba kuza umjikelo 23 imini ngokukhuselekileyo, usabelana ngesondo. Kodwa ngeli xesha kokuba iqale ovulate iqanda yesibini, kwaye, kakade, xa kwenzeka ukukhulelwa. Ngoko ke, kubonakala ukuba amathuba ukukhulelwa ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni na phezulu njengoko kwakunjalo phambi kwabo. Ukuba azihlanganisele zonke kungasentla, kunokuthiwa ukuba ekhuselekileyo ngexesha lomjikelo sexesheni zithathwa ukuba ibe kuphela kwiintsuku zokuqala-5. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa ngoko nangoko emva kokuba sexesheni yenye yezinto ezinkulu. Kwaye enye into ekhathazayo kukuba ngesondo esexesheni, Kakade ke, ngenxa yezizathu zobugcisa, ayakunanza onke amantombazana namakhwenkwe. Ukongeza, ixesha sexesheni iphawulwa buthathaka umzimba obhinqileyo, nto ke leyo ebangele ithe gqolo ukufumana ulawulo losulelo. Ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ethe-ethe kakhulu malunga nococeko zobuqu. Amantombazana kunye nabasetyhini kufuneka ngaphambili nasemva neentlobano zesini ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlamba, kunye namakhwenkwe namadoda ukuhlamba lobudoda zabo ngesepha namanzi. Kwimeko ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga esexesheni, ingakumbi xa iqabane intsha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukunyanga eveze kubola kwi-ukwenzela ukuthintela usulelo. Ezi zimali ezaneleyo na ekhemesti. Nje khumbula ukuba baya kuba nempumelelo kuphela kwiiyure-2 zokuqala emva kokuba n'wina. Siyaleza ngamandla ukuba bengakuzili ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga, Kakade ke, ukuba awufuni ukuba akhulelwe. Yokunyuka kwenani usulelo lwe-HIV, nto leyo ekhokelela imiphumo ebuhlungu kakhulu. Ngoko zama ukusebenzisa ikhondom, ingakumbi xa amaqabane akho ngesondo atshintsha rhoqo. sex Protected ngokuqinisekileyo akunanze kwaye igcina ezininzi iingxaki.